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Update p. 14 Does this guy have a right to complain? Vol. Help a sista out.
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This.
Some guys just aren't into the mind games; I know I'm not. Your interested in him stop playing around, if he's getting the vibe yourbrushing him off he either a) thinks you're not feeling him or b) trying to play mind games. Either way if I was in his situation, I might not throwmyself at you. I don't put myself in the position to make myself feel needy or pushy and make myself look like a fool. That's me personally, I'mnot done for mind games and can't stand females that play them.
T0INE
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This guy must really like you or really want to smash you OP to be putting up with all this foolishness.
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I'm not even about to try and read this thread, what page are her pics on?
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She's a teaser.
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nice legs OP
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if a guy gets your number that means he will call you before he dies
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Seriously, how old are you?
Remind me of an ex.
Remind me of an ex.
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No foul. Do you know how hard he tried to get me out of my clothes? He was lying so bad, too. Pretty much everything that came out of his mouthfor months was a lie. He had no problem lying to someone he had to see on a daily basis. Now, he wonders why I give him the cold shoulder, like hedoesn't know. I don't care that he went with the other girl. He was no catch, anyway. I only gave him a chance, because he kept telling me how muchhe liked me and how he never got to see me outside of school.
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Oh gotcha..he's foul then for lying...
At the same time, with this new guy just woman up. Unless you want the white girls getting him.
At the same time, with this new guy just woman up. Unless you want the white girls getting him.
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And this reply comes from a good "Christian Man" who thinks women that are Christian shouldn't go to the club.. Cmon son it's 2010.. We offsimpin to females
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So what do you think of my advice? Accurate or no?
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I have to add that I've not been in the "dating game" for a while, because I was finishing up my law degree and wanted to focus on that. Iwasn't interested in going out with him before, because of school. Right now, I am studying for the bar exam. I still don't have a lot of time now.
As for the white girl thing, I guess I'm trying to say that I would think he has a lot of options, other than me, and I don't want to be played. Orthat I don't want to be the last girl on the ladder that he would go out with.
As for the white girl thing, I guess I'm trying to say that I would think he has a lot of options, other than me, and I don't want to be played. Orthat I don't want to be the last girl on the ladder that he would go out with.
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^ who ever said I was Christian?
If you have to lie to a female to get @ them, it's a defiency in YOUR game. Ultimately, she'll lose trust and respect for you.
If you have to lie to a female to get @ them, it's a defiency in YOUR game. Ultimately, she'll lose trust and respect for you.
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kidfly, what does what you quoted have to do with your comment tho?
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Why do you people love pictures so much? I'm not showing my face, but this is me after court one day.
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EXACTLY...and so now u know he's interested at least a bit. So tell him you 2 should spend more time alone. Easy to say something like,"when do i see you outside of mine or your restaurant?"
Then take it from there, Trust, men who have something going on in there lives, would enjoy a woman who approached them in some way like that.
You really dont need to respond or go back & forth in here anymore. You know whats up already. so do your thing for once, u kno?
BUT, i gotta say, a moderately attractive young guy owning/managing a restaurant, gets ALOT of attention. My dude, who was 22-23 at the time, managed adowntown restaraunt/bar (Philly Center city area) and it was a MESS how much attention he got. He dressed up slightly because it was a somewhat upperclass/nightlife place and he had his way or could have with alot of females there.
It was essentially a ****show, we'd b staying late night after closing, with free drinks and select people allowed to stay with us drinking, smokingindoors, etc...bartenders, waiters, all of em did/dealt alot of drugs and etc. Place was a mess (but we had grrrreat times of course).
And a young manager in a downtown/city/metro/ area restaruant (especially with a latenight bar) will get hit on TONS. And if he's rolling around in aBenz, he probably feels HE gets to choose whoever he wants to (and maybe does). Just letting you know. Dont gas yourself.
You're the female, women should ALWAYS be in control because being attractive, gets you whoever you want...sad but true.
Maybe you can befriend a waiter/bartender there and ask about how he is, or how the bar is or how things are run there...restaurant biz downtown is like asecret society. Here they even have latenight bars that stay open as the rest of the city closes. (philly is early, close at 2am).
uhh...think I've said too much.
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I don't know why people keep telling me to stop playing games. I don't think I'm playing any games. At least I'm not trying to play any games.
club29
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Originally Posted by Dathbgboy
OP OP OP, just ask the dude out for pete's sake. U know where he work, go holla at the kid and quit w/ the shenanigans.
/thread
And this a real life grown folks "A Bronx Tale"
Please...with this woman's poor, childish attitude, she's hardly 'one of the great ones'
You deserve to be alone, chick.
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Originally Posted by SShanique
Why do you people love pictures so much? I'm not showing my face, but this is me after court one day.
Peer pressure.
99.9% success rate.
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I think that you should have said hello...it really sounds as if you were playing hard to get although you like him and it gave him the wrong impression. Ifyou're interested, show him. At the same time, you gave him the number and he should have used it in this time.
Senoj
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You really that dumb? If you like the dude at least act like you give some what of a *%%%.
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