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Well since this is your personal experience with black women being racist there really isn't anything anybody can tell you because you knowwhat you have experienced. I will say this though you stating it as if it is some kind of grand mal fact because a google search "backs up yourclaims" about some black women and the keyword says so is what bothers me so I'm responding.Originally Posted by jimmybeanz
Let's imagine that Tiger Woods was white and his wife was black. If white women made these comments about his wife, wouldn't they be considered racist? To me it's beyond hypocritical. Black folk can't reserve the right to be racist, and then demand that people not be racist towards them.
I know I'll get flamed for saying it, but it's been my personal experience that black women are as racist as any other subset of people. There are A LOT who will (generally speaking) not date outside of the race, (and if you are a black man who is successful and/or good looking) they don't want you dating outside of the race either. They don't care how successful a (non black) guy is or whether he has a great personality blah blah blah, etc.
This isn't a stupid generalization either. If you google something like "black women who date outside their race" you will find that there is research to actually back up my claims.
And yes, I'm black.
They don't care how successful a (non black) guy is or whether he has a great personality blah blah blah, etc.
I'm going to stack this up to your personal experience as well but just know that isn't everybody. For you to go to that extreme youclearly don't think too much of a black women's ability to pick a match for herself if she so chooses to date inter-racially.
There are A LOT who will (generally speaking) not date outside of the race, (and if you are a black man who is successful and/or good looking) they don't want you dating outside of the race either.
I also noticed how you did not say anything about a black's man personality or positive attributes like if he has family values, or moralswhen describing what would make him appealing when it comes to dating within and outside the race. You went straight to the success(money) and thephysical(good looking) both of which can be taken like that.
Black folk can't reserve the right to be racist, and then demand that people not be racist towards them.
How about folks just not be racist across the board but you know at the end of the day honesty is the best policy and people feel how they feel.It ain't right but for example purposes it was good to see how people really felt about Kanye after the Taylor Swift joint. Folks were finally beinghonest.
So thank you for being honest.