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she deaded you jus for talkin to other broads online? like.. thats ALL you did?
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Originally Posted by Black Entourage inc

Originally Posted by DearWinter219

PEOPLE! There is no such thing as e-cheating!!
QFT.

and seriously, I've done some of the foulest stuff on the planet & kept my girl with me. best believe i learned from it.

and I've been with some grade-A, don't-take-no-$%@$, wholesome, takes-a-year-to-smash women. so i know how important this ISN'T.

so really, don't drop EB14 for this. dude is cool.

no part of his body has entered another woman. and his emotions weren't even involved all that much!!ain't like he said he loved anyone
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so if you wanna be mad spiteful

Dont let people convince that this is nothing and to just forget about it. Obviously your dude is insecure, which is okay cas we are all human and have issuesBUT that doesnt make it right to act on it. Do i think that this is "breakup" worthy... thats your call. You have your standards and its not to muchto ask for someone to have some integrity in a relationship. Trust me theres other dudes out there... but at the same time it is possible for people to change.So are u going to stick around for that change to happen its your call, its your time.
 
Originally Posted by jawnyquest

she deaded you jus for talkin to other broads online? like.. thats ALL you did?
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exactly if she really loved him she woulda dropped the draws n got over it.

yea i understand be a lil upset..............let him make up for it
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maybe go to Chilli's after.
 
buy flower or something that she likes. Just raise the Bar and you'll be fine.

Still the irony of you talking to girls online and her leaving you is classic
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Damn dude..... Sorry to hear that.

My advice to you is just do a face to face and lay it all on the table.......

If you wanna do flowers and all that other junk thats cool, but at the end of the day, y'all have to talk resolution. Real talk
 
Originally Posted by Hen Lin 32

Originally Posted by dreaface

Originally Posted by DearWinter219

PEOPLE! There is no such thing as e-cheating!!
its not cheating... but should be taken as seriously as cheating... so if your man is on chat rooms talking to other gurls about !%*%@#* them that shouldnt be taken seriously???
why would u need to do that... obviously you need alot of attention or you arnt being satisfied in your relationship.
If your happy with someone why would you seek out someone to flirt with on the internet lol... i dont do that @%!$ so i expect the same respect.

zing!
 
You're over reacting dreaface. Why take something as serious as something else.....if it isn't? all you're doing is turning somethingsmall into a big deal. EB wasn't right for what he did, but he wasn't Scot Peterson either. Why make war out of a scuffle? To prove a point? OK, but who wins? If she was happy with dude, is it really worth breakingup with him for something small because it's almost like something big? If so, then you might as well live your whole life like that. Every timesomething almost happens, make sure you let that determine your next move. If you almost getinto a car accident, don't ever ride in one again despite how useful cars have been for you in the past. Apparently, their former usefulness and theirvalue in the future isn't worth it because you almost crashed. Get a razor scooter.

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Look ladies, let me clear something up.

Men don't flirt because we want to find something better. Stop being so insecure all the damn time
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. Men flirt because it's what we're made todo. It's our sociology that makes us flirt. Ya'll know how this game works. Ya'll get all pretty and sit and wait to be approached. Well damn,we've been doing so much chasing for so long that when we catch what we want, we actually miss the chase. That's not to say we want to catch somethingelse, we just miss chasing %*%+. It's just a sport girls. that's all. We're just fishermen. We ain't tryna catch dinner though, we just want tocatch and release just to know that we still can, so that when ya'll leave us high and dry and break our hearts, we still know how to move on. The worstthing that can happen to a man is that he forgets how to be a man. Why would you want us to lose what made you like usin the first place? It it weren't such a double standard of who is supposed to pursue who, you gals might be able to relate. But seeing as most ofya'll never chased after a boy in your life, you think it's all about the catch.
 
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, my dude eric looking like the craig mack/sam cassell collabo

with a slight case of xzibit in and about the eye area...

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GIRL, YOU KNOW THAT UGLY DUDE LOVES YOU

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How come you only realized how special this chick was once you broke up? If you stay talking to birds online even while in a relationship, what does that tellyou? For one, it seems like you weren't ready to be exclusive. No, there isn't such a thing as "e-cheating," but if you were doing somethingthat you had to hide around your girl, you should have asked yourself if it was even worth it in the first place. It's easy to have friends that are femalewithout crossing that line. I can see why your girl was pissed at you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and maybe you should just use this as alesson. Stay single for a while, enjoy the fruits of blackplanet, migente, facebook, or whatever you were doing that caused this rift. Get everything out ofyour system until you can meet someone that is worth it to you, to give all of your "e-chicks" up.
 
hold up, thugnificence is a chic?!? dang, i was just saying to myself,"dude is one funny mofo." didn't know he was a she, wow! you learnsomething new on NT everyday.
 
Originally Posted by DearWinter219

You're over reacting dreaface. Why take something as serious as something else.....if it isn't? all you're doing is turning something small into a big deal. EB wasn't right for what he did, but he wasn't Scot Peterson either. Why make war out of a scuffle? To prove a point? OK, but who wins? If she was happy with dude, is it really worth breaking up with him for something small because it's almost like something big? If so, then you might as well live your whole life like that. Every time something almost happens, make sure you let that determine your next move. If you almost get into a car accident, don't ever ride in one again despite how useful cars have been for you in the past. Apparently, their former usefulness and their value in the future isn't worth it because you almost crashed. Get a razor scooter.

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we both had done it...the last time it happened i said we bothmade mistakes lets just move on and not make this same mistake again...
well here we are at again...
 
Originally Posted by DearWinter219

You're over reacting dreaface. Why take something as serious as something else.....if it isn't? all you're doing is turning something small into a big deal. EB wasn't right for what he did, but he wasn't Scot Peterson either. Why make war out of a scuffle? To prove a point? OK, but who wins? If she was happy with dude, is it really worth breaking up with him for something small because it's almost like something big? If so, then you might as well live your whole life like that. Every time something almost happens, make sure you let that determine your next move. If you almost get into a car accident, don't ever ride in one again despite how useful cars have been for you in the past. Apparently, their former usefulness and their value in the future isn't worth it because you almost crashed. Get a razor scooter.

Women
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If this were EB talking about how he caught his girl E-flirting I'm sure you and 95% of NT's wouldhave thrown her under the bus a long time ago.
 
it's none of my business, but I love how all these dudes on here talking about "give him a second chance" "give him a pass""it's not really cheating"...

How do you think cheating starts??
First they just talk, then they meet up, then they smash.

How would you feel if this was your girl flirting on myspace?
Can't tell me you would be upset...I know I would.

Again, it's none of my business...

I just have too much pride to let something like this slide.
 
Originally Posted by Thugnificence

Originally Posted by DearWinter219

You're over reacting dreaface. Why take something as serious as something else.....if it isn't? all you're doing is turning something small into a big deal. EB wasn't right for what he did, but he wasn't Scot Peterson either. Why make war out of a scuffle? To prove a point? OK, but who wins? If she was happy with dude, is it really worth breaking up with him for something small because it's almost like something big? If so, then you might as well live your whole life like that. Every time something almost happens, make sure you let that determine your next move. If you almost get into a car accident, don't ever ride in one again despite how useful cars have been for you in the past. Apparently, their former usefulness and their value in the future isn't worth it because you almost crashed. Get a razor scooter.

Women
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we both had done it...the last time it happened i said we both made mistakes lets just move on and not make this same mistake again...
well here we are at again...


He's 18 SMH... Let'em grow. He'll learn. Trust me as much as I don't like this lame.. Give the guy a break. He appreciate's you... at 18though you do wanna feel like your still "Wanted"..













Your chest game is on point tho
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it's none of my business, but I love how all these dudes on here talking about "give him a second chance" "give him a pass" "it's not really cheating"...

How do you think cheating starts??
First they just talk, then they meet up, then they smash.

Exactly so SHUT UP.
 
we both had done it...the last time it happened i said we both made mistakes lets just move on and not make this same mistake again...
well here we are at again...



So basically the teapot is calling the kettle blacker. Man dead that BS and take your man back. It ain't worth it at all at this point
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.It's MYSPACE!!
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If this were EB talking about how he caught his girl E-flirting I'm sure you and 95% of NT's would have thrown her under the bus a long time ago.

On some real, I was in the bed with my girl at 2Am and she got a text from some dude. I didn't get mad. I explained to her why that was foulafter I calmly told dude he was wasting his time. He got ignant. I got sarcastic and witty and made him look foolish.Me and my lady GREW from that. It didn't happen again. Dude was all the way in Chicago why we were 200+ miles away in Muncie. The moral: Its several waysto handle situations like that, but the first thing you should do is assess whether the situation is indeed a realistic threat to your relationship. If itisn't, don't make it into a top priority fight. Just address it calmy and work through it for the better of your union.
 
Originally Posted by DearWinter219

You're over reacting dreaface. Why take something as serious as something else.....if it isn't? all you're doing is turning something small into a big deal. EB wasn't right for what he did, but he wasn't Scot Peterson either. Why make war out of a scuffle? To prove a point? OK, but who wins? If she was happy with dude, is it really worth breaking up with him for something small because it's almost like something big? If so, then you might as well live your whole life like that. Every time something almost happens, make sure you let that determine your next move. If you almost get into a car accident, don't ever ride in one again despite how useful cars have been for you in the past. Apparently, their former usefulness and their value in the future isn't worth it because you almost crashed. Get a razor scooter.

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No, this is two separate things. This dude flirting with chicks on the internet... after she had talked to him about it before. Now to you it maynot be a big deal. But she had expressed before that she has a problem with this and these are her standards. Now we dont even have to compare this tocheating. But having an insecure dude is a problem at least for me it is... so i look at it like this. I told you something bothered me, you do it again. Imyoung and theres to many fish in the sea to be dealing with some insecure **$!%. If he admitted that its an issue in our relationship that caused him to dothis then we can work it out. But he didnt so its a personal issue. Now i can stick with you while you work on yourself or i can bounce shes not obligated todo anything or feel sorry for him.

--- you need to stop with all this "stop being insecure" hahaha... I know i can get dudes, i dont need to go flirt with guys on the internet... playa sport just to see if i still got it. lol ur the one that immature. If you know you the #%!@ why you need to keep proving it to yourself knowing it willcompromise your relationship. i tell you finding a confident guy is hard smh
 
Originally Posted by Jetpacunlimited

Originally Posted by Thugnificence

Originally Posted by DearWinter219

You're over reacting dreaface. Why take something as serious as something else.....if it isn't? all you're doing is turning something small into a big deal. EB wasn't right for what he did, but he wasn't Scot Peterson either. Why make war out of a scuffle? To prove a point? OK, but who wins? If she was happy with dude, is it really worth breaking up with him for something small because it's almost like something big? If so, then you might as well live your whole life like that. Every time something almost happens, make sure you let that determine your next move. If you almost get into a car accident, don't ever ride in one again despite how useful cars have been for you in the past. Apparently, their former usefulness and their value in the future isn't worth it because you almost crashed. Get a razor scooter.

Women
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we both had done it...the last time it happened i said we both made mistakes lets just move on and not make this same mistake again...
well here we are at again...


He's 18 SMH... Let'em grow. He'll learn. Trust me as much as I don't like this lame.. Give the guy a break. He appreciate's you... at 18 though you do wanna feel like your still "Wanted"..













Your chest game is on point tho
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it's none of my business, but I love how all these dudes on here talking about "give him a second chance" "give him a pass" "it's not really cheating"...

How do you think cheating starts??
First they just talk, then they meet up, then they smash.
Exactly so SHUT UP.


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That's real mature
 
haven't you learned by now that NT is not the place to come for advice on fixing relationships?
you EFFD up, she may take you back she may not, personally i hope she doesn't, it will teach you to appreciate your (future) relationship(s)
and you won't repeat the same dumb mistakes.
ppl (both guys and girls) always ruining happy homes for no reason and fixing stuff that isn't broken to begin with.
 
Originally Posted by akajaedeuce

it's none of my business, but I love how all these dudes on here talking about "give him a second chance" "give him a pass" "it's not really cheating"...

How do you think cheating starts??
First they just talk, then they meet up, then they smash.

How would you feel if this was your girl flirting on myspace?
Can't tell me you would be upset..
.I know I would.

Again, it's none of my business...

I just have too much pride to let something like this slide.
that's a great point...if the shoe were on the other foot, 1/2 of these dudes would be ready to chris brown their chick....
 
Originally Posted by DoubleJs07

How come you only realized how special this chick was once you broke up? If you stay talking to birds online even while in a relationship, what does that tell you? For one, it seems like you weren't ready to be exclusive. No, there isn't such a thing as "e-cheating," but if you were doing something that you had to hide around your girl, you should have asked yourself if it was even worth it in the first place. It's easy to have friends that are female without crossing that line. I can see why your girl was pissed at you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and maybe you should just use this as a lesson. Stay single for a while, enjoy the fruits of blackplanet, migente, facebook, or whatever you were doing that caused this rift. Get everything out of your system until you can meet someone that is worth it to you, to give all of your "e-chicks" up.
Stop talking like an adult.
 
Originally Posted by akajaedeuce

it's none of my business, but I love how all these dudes on here talking about "give him a second chance" "give him a pass" "it's not really cheating"...

How do you think cheating starts??
First they just talk, then they meet up, then they smash.

How would you feel if this was your girl flirting on myspace?
Can't tell me you would be upset...I know I would.

Again, it's none of my business...

I just have too much pride to let something like this slide.


SHE DID IT TOO
 
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