I can actually say I can't blame dudes who pay for sex

[Maximus Meridius]

OP got a point. One of my ex's used to get pissed after I smashed and just looked at her like "aight roll out". We was already broken up (it was her fault) so there was no reson for her to stick around.



Like dude said "no strings attached" sex can happen you just gotta find the right chick.

 

[hellaones]

Good point SunDOOBIE made and I understand justifying the payment as hush money more-so than for the actual deed. But I would say I don't blame depending on the circumstance. I guess this topic is intriguing to me because I've been around a few guys who've paid for sex and some of them I understand why but a few others I don't understand. Like the point SunDOOBIE made, what if your girl is straight prude status when it comes to sex and the guy is paying for an experience that rivals that of Jasmine Byrne? Hell smashing a porn star is on the bucket list for me. Or maybe for some reason his girls can't have sex for lengthly periods of time? There is this guy I work with and his girl had a medical situation where she couldn't have sex for a couple months and this dude went wild with strippers and hood chicks that were just looking for a few bucks. Not that I agree but I understand. On the flip side, one of my Brother's friends from college has the ideal life imo; good job, gorgeous fiance, own house and multiple cars but this dude goes to the massage palor for happy endings at least twice a week.

 

[al audi]

sc adds his 2 cents in everything

just sayin

you got a lot to experience first man, life isnt so clear cut

 

[acemaster193]

You know we bout bout it.

 

[th3kid]

Dawg, getting tail is REALLY easy. Why pay? Even through text, calls, dates, etc. For me, dates and calls are

Usually chicks are going simply through text. I've had sex with chicks that only saw me once, never saw my face, chicks that never knew my real name until I smashed a few times. There was this chick from my school that friended me on Fousquare (mind you, I don't have a picture of my face on there.), her and I exchanged a few words on there, got her number, now she's trying to meet up AND she's got a boyfriend.

Chicks are definitely going for free.

 

[redman]

Originally Posted by scshift

About paying to smash, I never got why high-profile people like politicians and lawyers and stuff use prostitutes.

Like these dudes are ballers, the hell are they dropping money for? They could just roll by the club and pick up like 5 girls who would sleep with them regardless of whether they were paid just so the girl could have a chance at the dude.

Never understood why you would pay for something when you can have it for free.

The girls that get paid know their places. The girls at the clubs will probably takes pictures, tell her friends etc.

 

[ham city]

I've read that in Japanese culture sex with prostitutes is more or less accepted, especially by the wives of these men, for the exact same reasons OP alluded to, you're paying for these women to go away. The wives view it as you can have sex with other women but you better not go forming emotional attachments with other women.

 

[three6mafia2007]

It seems like the older I get, the more willing I would be to pay for it

 

[al audi]

Originally Posted by HAM CITY

I've read that in Japanese culture sex with prostitutes is more or less accepted, especially by the wives of these men, for the exact same reasons OP alluded to, you're paying for these women to go away. The wives view it as you can have sex with other women but you better not go forming emotional attachments with other women.

japan is cool

 

[swag4days]

Originally Posted by scshift

About paying to smash, I never got why high-profile people like politicians and lawyers and stuff use prostitutes.

Like these dudes are ballers, the hell are they dropping money for? They could just roll by the club and pick up like 5 girls who would sleep with them regardless of whether they were paid just so the girl could have a chance at the dude.

Never understood why you would pay for something when you can have it for free.

Exactly. They're not trying to give them that chance. Taking it for free would end up in more problems later on

 

[monstar1]

Originally Posted by th3kid

Dawg, getting tail is REALLY easy. Why pay? Even through text, calls, dates, etc. For me, dates and calls are

Usually chicks are going simply through text. I've had sex with chicks that only saw me once, never saw my face, chicks that never knew my real name until I smashed a few times. There was this chick from my school that friended me on Fousquare (mind you, I don't have a picture of my face on there.), her and I exchanged a few words on there, got her number, now she's trying to meet up AND she's got a boyfriend.

Chicks are definitely going for free.

Its comes to a point where most of us don't wanna deal with the text, calls, dates, social networking....especially if you already have a wifey/gf.



  

 

[proper english]

Originally Posted by MonStar1

Originally Posted by th3kid

Dawg, getting tail is REALLY easy. Why pay? Even through text, calls, dates, etc. For me, dates and calls are

Usually chicks are going simply through text. I've had sex with chicks that only saw me once, never saw my face, chicks that never knew my real name until I smashed a few times. There was this chick from my school that friended me on Fousquare (mind you, I don't have a picture of my face on there.), her and I exchanged a few words on there, got her number, now she's trying to meet up AND she's got a boyfriend.

Chicks are definitely going for free.

Its comes to a point where most of us don't wanna deal with the text, calls, dates, social networking....especially if you already have a wifey/gf.



  

hmm point taken..
i still couldnt do it, myself.. hell, i havent even been to a strip club since i turned 18 

 

[angryostrich]

Ahhh I'll buy it at a high price

 

[k3stacks]

Originally Posted by Al Audi

sc adds his 2 cents in everything

just sayin

you got a lot to experience first man, life isnt so clear cut

This, no offense to the young tyke tho.

 

[dredwards]

LMFAO wow

 

[frankybaby]

OP hit the nail on the head. The older a woman gets the less shes thinking about time in the bedroom and it never changes for us dudes. When I was 22 I could get a chick and handle my business and not expect her to care. Not even off some savage type stuff. Just might not have been feeling her. If you sleep with a woman over 24 and you got something going for you, they are stuck on you.

I dont do any dirt on my girl, but if I did try I would eventually get caught. With Social media being the way it is, if a chick catches feelings some how you are pretty much done for. She might hit your girl up on FB. It aint worth losing the one you love over.

At the end of the day no one should cheat. But I do understand why folks pay for it. These 50 year old rich dudes whose wives spend up all their money but never want to get down in the bedroom. Please believe me that life is real. If you are under 25 make sure you enjoy these girls out her being jump offs. As soon as they hit 24 they realize how dumb they are and they have demands.

 

[me no pass]

Originally Posted by Da Doc03

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by FOG

This.

Don't know about y'all, but I'd sure as hell wouldn't let my girl snoop around.. Learn to put yourselves in her shoes for once; I mean, isn't that the whole point of a relationship?

It's called a double standard, as a black man I deal with it, I think women can handle it.

  

my man

OP is preaching right now.

 

[monstar1]

honestly I'd rather get caught up smashing an escort/stripper by my chick than another normal broad.  Because she couldn't understand that I ONLY want to smash something new and don't want that chick.  Its crazy how different men and women are and you will realize it the older you get.  I'm not knocking anybody that can stay faithful for 50 years but I don't think I can do it.  I just know myself and have accepted who I am. 

Any candidates that legalize prostitution will get my vote! 

 

[elcatfisho]

legalize prostitution?

well done sir, well done.

 

[prymone]

Originally Posted by MonStar1


  It's too much work to meet a new chick and have all kinds of secret calls, txt, dates just for some new cheeks. 

real talk fam

 

[itzjono]

To each his own

 

[th3kid]

Originally Posted by MonStar1

Originally Posted by th3kid

Dawg, getting tail is REALLY easy. Why pay? Even through text, calls, dates, etc. For me, dates and calls are

Usually chicks are going simply through text. I've had sex with chicks that only saw me once, never saw my face, chicks that never knew my real name until I smashed a few times. There was this chick from my school that friended me on Fousquare (mind you, I don't have a picture of my face on there.), her and I exchanged a few words on there, got her number, now she's trying to meet up AND she's got a boyfriend.

Chicks are definitely going for free.

Its comes to a point where most of us don't wanna deal with the text, calls, dates, social networking....especially if you already have a wifey/gf.
  

And I feel you, I got a wifey too. But if you just wanna %%$#+ that you can *@+%, you're gonna have to start it with some type of text/conversation somewhere. Just deal with that two days (or less) of talking and then smash. And only talk to her when you want to smash. I mean, why would you spend YOUR HARD MONEY on some rear when the next man is getting for it for free? If the "hassle" of texting a chick for a few days is worth 50+ dollars, by all means, be my guest. But I wouldn't do it. 

proper english wrote:

hmm point taken..
i still couldnt do it, myself.. hell, i havent even been to a strip club since i turned 18 

Don't pay for blue balls fam.

 

 

[rex ryan]

i can't knock dudes that pay to an extent. if your working 50+ hours a week and are constantly busy and you really don't have time to be out dating and what not, get yours however you can.

hell to an extent you can argue that cutting all the b.s and getting to the point and just paying for sex > taking some chick out on a date and not getting nothing out of it.

i don't have that problem but for the dudes in those situations i can somewhat see their logic.

 

[scientific method]

I have considered it, but in the end I don't think I can bring myself to do it. I am a German, by choice. I am not extremely aggressive pursuing females, and all the ones who have offered it to me have been not my type (fat chics love me, fat white chics love me, and like 3 butch lesbians jock me extra hard) except for 1, and the few who I seem to have just missed the boat on. It's not even a moral thing or wanting to save myself for marriage, I'd just hate to think the first time that I paid for it. Plus there's the legal risk of getting arrested and the embarassment aspect, std aspect, and the fact that crime begets crime so being around hos and pimps, other bad #($& can happen. But OKC is like prostitute capital of the country, and it's well known in every city that those Korean owned "massage and bathhouse" spots will break you off.

 

[frijo sneaker]