I can actually say I can't blame dudes who pay for sex

[txrook]

Originally Posted by DMoney82

Originally Posted by DRETHEMAN

I went on a first date.. Paid 100 for dinner... 50 for drinks after.. 140 for the hotel room... and the sex was boring... So do the math.... We all pay no matter what!

If you put gas in your car to go get the p*, you're paying for it.

 

[rowenarrow]

there is some truth in the OP's statements.

 

[monstar1]

Originally Posted by TxRook

Originally Posted by DMoney82

Originally Posted by DRETHEMAN

I went on a first date.. Paid 100 for dinner... 50 for drinks after.. 140 for the hotel room... and the sex was boring... So do the math.... We all pay no matter what!

If you put gas in your car to go get the p*, you're paying for it.

 

dudes turning into accountants discussing the P.  breaking out balance sheets and what not

 

[purehoopa1]

Originally Posted by MonStar1

Originally Posted by AEA18

Originally Posted by scshift

About paying to smash, I never got why high-profile people like politicians and lawyers and stuff use prostitutes.

Like these dudes are ballers, the hell are they dropping money for? They could just roll by the club and pick up like 5 girls who would sleep with them regardless of whether they were paid just so the girl could have a chance at the dude.

Never understood why you would pay for something when you can have it for free.

They pay high price hookers because they keep their mouths shut.

Exactly man.  Dudes with high profiles cant have chicks posting stuff on facebook, twitter, running they mouth to people. 

This....

 Exactly why I am not on FB, and all that other crap. 

 

[keithsweatsjordans]

Originally Posted by Kickmatic23

If you pay your a fool. Everyone knows or has a friend who knows a jumpoff that doesn't cost a dime.

yea and a lot of times they look like they're not worth a dime. good points in this thread tho. the kind of girls you pay to have sex with are usually the kind of girl you'd have to at least take on a date to smash anyway irl. so like someone said, for the good p at least, you're paying for it either way

 

[hellaones]

Originally Posted by JOE CAMEL SMOOTH


in fact not even just escorts.....i always wondered what itd be like to get a "massage" from some sexy asian chick

Aren't you from tx?

 

[0cks]

Originally Posted by Mojodmonky1

I was just in Vegas a couple weekends ago for a bachelor party. One of the dudes there (friend of the bachelor that I had not met before) was just like you OP. Dude has a smoking hot gf back at home (according to my mutual friend) so its not like he cant get his. That first night we were in Vegas, dude was talkin bout how he needed to get sucked off tonight, and he couldnt sleep. It was actually pretty damn hilarious. At about 430am he managed to convince another friend of mine to go trollin for %*#$%@. 45 min later they both came back to the room empty handed. I saw dude lay down and try to go to sleep, only to pop back up 10 minutes later. He was muttering to himself "damn man, i just cant sleep, i need to get my dicc sucked right now" as he got out of bed, got dressed, and left again (about 5am). I guess he managed to find a working girl downstairs, got her to suck him off, then he came back to the room and went to bed.

Very high-comedy

 

[youngdoc]

Originally Posted by DRETHEMAN

I went on a first date.. Paid 100 for dinner... 50 for drinks after.. 140 for the hotel room... and the sex was boring... So do the math.... We all pay no matter what!

You don't have your own place?

And you must be going to a pretty nice place on a first date. Ain't hating though, just a broke student so Cheesecake Factory would be a typical 1st date

 

[puddinpopp]

Originally Posted by James Earl Zones

Originally Posted by sosmoove

Originally Posted by Jking0821

Where people find this??? women these days want to actually date you....will sleep with you in hopes of that....then get all attached even if you say....."this is just sex...nothing else".  They say "yeah i know" then put up the "why can't you be mine" statuses and whatnot....

Ahhh man, the worst

Hit them with that early. If she can't respect it from the start, you shouldn't smash in the first place. You see statuses like that you cut it off EARLY but you're already %%@%## up by being friends with your jumpoffs on FB. I hope you have them blocked from posting on your wall.

I've dealt with some horribly clingy people in my past so I look for those warning signs early. Lack of a father figure, any kind of mental health issues (ADD included), history of drug abuse by her or immediate family, unhealthy past relationships... all that stuff is bad news. I love a nice, clean, college educated girl that just wants to have fun.

No feelings. No #!#!+@+*. Just driving to my crib late night with some nuggets, coming in the back door, and breaking down the buds while I get the drinks ready.

Paying to smash is backwards. Only girl who you should ever feel like you're "paying" to smash is your girlfriend, and it should be mutual

me and my main split payments, sometimes she treats me, sometimes I treat her. I don't even waste gas on jumps.

agreed x100

 

[put em up]

This topic is over a lot of people head basically high school and college kids won't understand.

 

[BranchLifestyle]

Originally Posted by Put em up

This topic is over a lot of people head basically high school and college kids won't understand.

Not necessarily...
McD's dollar menu date...still payin' for the P.

 

[monstar1]

Originally Posted by Put em up

This topic is over a lot of people head basically high school and college kids won't understand.

yeah basically.  my dudes in college better enjoy it now while they are still dumb and just wanna have fun. 

There will come a day where you will hear phrases like "...I'm not getting any younger" on 1st dates.

 

  

 

[th3kid]

Originally Posted by Wade187

Originally Posted by th3kid

Originally Posted by MonStar1

Its comes to a point where most of us don't wanna deal with the text, calls, dates, social networking....especially if you already have a wifey/gf.
  

And I feel you, I got a wifey too. But if you just wanna %%$#+ that you can *@+%, you're gonna have to start it with some type of text/conversation somewhere. Just deal with that two days (or less) of talking and then smash. And only talk to her when you want to smash. I mean, why would you spend YOUR HARD MONEY on some rear when the next man is getting for it for free? If the "hassle" of texting a chick for a few days is worth 50+ dollars, by all means, be my guest. But I wouldn't do it. 

proper english wrote:

Don't pay for blue balls fam.

 

How old are you? You completely missing the point. You say you have a "wifey" but you basically saying you'd rather save $50 and risk getting caught up and losing shorty. You must be real young, or this wifey must be just another girl to you. The hassle isn't the two days you spend txting a chick getting at the buns, the hassle is sneaking around to do it, then when you done worrying about the chick making some unwanted re appearance in your life. When I was a kid I couldn't even fathom paying for sex, but now that I'm a little older it's understood. 


Idk. It's just that I've never ran into that problem of a random jumpoff coming back. So maybe I'm ignorant to it. 

 

[Smorgasbordgie]

Originally Posted by proper english

son.. "no strings attached" sex can be had with ease in this day and age.

Word. I had so much of that when I was single, lol. Seems like it's much more the case when you're dealing with women who are 28+ years old. As far as the topic at hand, make sure you find a woman that fits you in all aspects. She better be the sexual pinnacle. Even if she isn't, either be honorable to her or cut it off.

 

[sp1die]

OP is right.

Its all about cost of acquisition.

Seeing a "professional" for P will cost you a fixed amount of coin.

Having a wife/gf supply the P will set you back far far more in monetary terms;

- Rent/Mortgage
- Car(s), Gas
- Groceries
- Keeping her entertained; Going out for dinner, Going to the cinema, Holidays etc
- Valentines Day, Birthday, Christmas aka "Wallet Rape"

If after all that, your wife/gf is not fulfilling her obligations in the bedroom, then its only fair that a man should be able to subcontract to address those deficiencies.

 

[dtothed]

you pay the girls to leave

 

[put em up]

Nvm

 

[finnns2003]

Originally Posted by hugebird

As I said previously, I suggest all of you fellows with an "open mind" take a vacation to Amsterdam.

Every year the past 4 years I go on a trip to Europe and spend the last 3 days in Amsterdam, and it's like a long spa weekend. I usually spend the beginning of my trip boozing and going after regular girls, and that is always fun, but tiring. I get to Amsterdam and then go on a rotation of 

, eating, and then hiring beautiful young ladies, and when I say beautiful, I mean it. You can either just go to the RLD, and get girls, for 50 euro. If you are looking for a more personal experience, without much effort you can find private places with a higher end and less "accessible" ladies that will usually start around 100 euro. The ladies are usually unbelievably pretty, and there is nothing more refreshing than getting to finish, leave, go to a coffee shop, go on a bike ride, walk around, and then if I want to, go back without having to deal with a language barrier or dating or anything else.

For most of the year, I participate in normal dating routines, but I went through seven years of strenuous schooling after high school in order to make enough money to afford these frivolities, and I honestly think it's really worth it.

Welp, time to visit.

 

[finnns2003]

Originally Posted by JOE CAMEL SMOOTH

i have always been curious about "escorts".....some of them are fine.....and being "professionals" and all is a turn on in some ways.
in fact not even just escorts.....i always wondered what itd be like to get a "massage" from some sexy asian chick

to both

 

[youngdoc]

Originally Posted by sp1die

OP is right.

Its all about cost of acquisition.

Seeing a "professional" for P will cost you a fixed amount of coin.

Having a wife/gf supply the P will set you back far far more in monetary terms;

- Rent/Mortgage
- Car(s), Gas
- Groceries
- Keeping her entertained; Going out for dinner, Going to the cinema, Holidays etc
- Valentines Day, Birthday, Christmas aka "Wallet Rape"

If after all that, your wife/gf is not fulfilling her obligations in the bedroom, then its only fair that a man should be able to subcontract to address those deficiencies.

THIS times a million

 

[fourreal]

but im saying why pay for sex when its for free

 

[scotthallwithapick]

Originally Posted by youngdoc

Originally Posted by DRETHEMAN

I went on a first date.. Paid 100 for dinner... 50 for drinks after.. 140 for the hotel room... and the sex was boring... So do the math.... We all pay no matter what!

You don't have your own place?

And you must be going to a pretty nice place on a first date. Ain't hating though, just a broke student so Cheesecake Factory would be a typical 1st date

This.
How you got $300 for a 1st date but not your own place 

 

[breezylocks]

real life....

theres a post on body building forums... hilarious.

these dudes (specifically one poster) writes in detail about their encounters with prostitues... dude went raw in some of them

 

[je ne sais quoi]

Originally Posted by FourReal

but im saying why pay for sex when its for free

You're not paying for sex.
The money exchanged is compensation for all the "weird", "socially unacceptable", rare, and moving behavior that you exhibit before, during, and after sex.
"Here's your money, miss. About my unclipped big toe finding it's way in your butthole as I was hocking a loogie in your mouth...let's get past all that and move on with our lives."

 

[bgl2687]

Originally Posted by youngdoc

Originally Posted by DRETHEMAN

I went on a first date.. Paid 100 for dinner... 50 for drinks after.. 140 for the hotel room... and the sex was boring... So do the math.... We all pay no matter what!

You don't have your own place?

And you must be going to a pretty nice place on a first date. Ain't hating though, just a broke student so Cheesecake Factory would be a typical 1st date

If he has no intention on making his date a main he should never take the bird back to his pad thats a no no.  OP you asking the wrong question on NT because majority of the guys here have women paying them for sex and treating them to dinners