Like, there will obviously still be cases of rape, sexual harrassment, etc. even if you do everything right because there are some scandalous women out there,
but a ton of these cases APPEAR TO BE easily avoidable if you aren't OD thirsty, or thirsty period. Women will tell you, vocally not vocally, if they want sex. Idk how you're a grown adult, who's had experiences with women, be in your 30's, and still not be able to tell if a woman is comfortable or not. It's not rocket science as long as you don't allow your thirst to overtake your judgement.