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I feel like I'm standing up for shorty (When I'm not ) but you can blow someone and not want sex. It happened all the time in middle school and 9th grade
That inherently is part of the issue. Just because I go out to dinner w/you and come back to your place, and even suck your **** (Pause) doesn't mean I should have to give you sex.
Of course, a person is not obligated to have penetrative sex simply because they performed oral sex on an individual. But it is completely fathomable that the recipient of that oral copulation may interpret the situation as being one that will inevitably lead to sex. I’m not here to judge Aziz, and the question of whether or not his aggression went too far is debateable. But what I will say is that instances like this sets a precedent that further blurs the line of what sexual assault is/is not. She had every right to deny sex. But if she is allegedly saying “no” only to have her actions contradict that (without force being used), then I have a hard time nailing Aziz to the Weinstein cross. If a woman comes back to my place and undresses herself, and blows me twice, I am 100% believing that we’re going to have sex. I wouldn’t use the verbiage Aziz used, but I do understand what would lead him to believe that she was up for it, or was at least coming around to the idea.