You said you just really started following this thread, which is great. I also love your style because it's so different so I understand why you're confused.
Like I said, 90% of the time, if not more, when people come in here needing recommendations they have a budget. Majority of the time, if not every time, we recommend J Crew, Brooks Brothers, Banana Republic, etc. as starting points. I really don't see whats wrong with any of those brands. No the quality is not amazing but it's definitely not bad either. It's up to these people themselves to develop their own style and learn.
Not everyone can afford to have a closet full of MMM, Rick, ACNE, Geller, etc.