Women Carrying Condoms?

[blackmagnus514]

I'm not even talking about traps. I'm just saying she bears responsibility to herself to stop the dude before he penetrates her. If she doesn't want it raw, she doesn't have to get it raw. The average dude isn't even a fiend like that to just rape a chick. He prolly won't call her back or think she's fronting, butit takes a warped individual to force himself on her when she's saying stop.

It's not a dudes fault what happens to her hormones. It is his fault if he's pressing the issue on her when she's obviously going to the contrary and if he's being a dirty d--- dude and sleeping with mad people unprotected

Me personally, I'd never take a condom from a girl. My girl is on BC and even that took me a long time to go unprotected with. We were using condoms then we just stopped

she never offered me one because she knowsi wouldn't take it, but then again she knew me because we were friends for a minute.

 

[blackmagnus514]

I'm not even talking about traps. I'm just saying she bears responsibility to herself to stop the dude before he penetrates her. If she doesn't want it raw, she doesn't have to get it raw. The average dude isn't even a fiend like that to just rape a chick. He prolly won't call her back or think she's fronting, butit takes a warped individual to force himself on her when she's saying stop.

It's not a dudes fault what happens to her hormones. It is his fault if he's pressing the issue on her when she's obviously going to the contrary and if he's being a dirty d--- dude and sleeping with mad people unprotected

Me personally, I'd never take a condom from a girl. My girl is on BC and even that took me a long time to go unprotected with. We were using condoms then we just stopped

she never offered me one because she knowsi wouldn't take it, but then again she knew me because we were friends for a minute.

 

[GTA 809]

Im trying to think what a non JO would do carrying these around. Only scenario I can think of is shes allergic to latex and carries around lamb skin.

 

[GTA 809]

Im trying to think what a non JO would do carrying these around. Only scenario I can think of is shes allergic to latex and carries around lamb skin.

 

[hazeleyed honey]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514


  

I would not say she bears the responsibility solely. It takes TWO to have consensual sex, and BOTH should be responsible with protection.

That's what hormones do to you. You know when men think with their $%+$+ and their hormones take over? Do they not expect that to happen to girls when they stimulate us and get us going? Apparently, women know better to control their hormones, but it is excusable for men when they say yea, my **** took over, sorry. Not saying you are saying this.

You are saying that it is a woman's responsibility to say no and not accept raw penis. I am saying it goes both ways. Yes, a women allows penis in her, but a man sure does know how to get her going and stimulate her to the point to give in. If he knows he has the power to do that, and knows how to persuade and press a girl even she had no intent at first for sex, then he is responsible too since right then and there it becomes consensual sex.

What if the woman is pressing sex, and the man doesn't want it? Can't he be in the position to refuse? It goes both ways. By the way, women can rape men. It happens.

 

[hazeleyed honey]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514


  

I would not say she bears the responsibility solely. It takes TWO to have consensual sex, and BOTH should be responsible with protection.

That's what hormones do to you. You know when men think with their $%+$+ and their hormones take over? Do they not expect that to happen to girls when they stimulate us and get us going? Apparently, women know better to control their hormones, but it is excusable for men when they say yea, my **** took over, sorry. Not saying you are saying this.

You are saying that it is a woman's responsibility to say no and not accept raw penis. I am saying it goes both ways. Yes, a women allows penis in her, but a man sure does know how to get her going and stimulate her to the point to give in. If he knows he has the power to do that, and knows how to persuade and press a girl even she had no intent at first for sex, then he is responsible too since right then and there it becomes consensual sex.

What if the woman is pressing sex, and the man doesn't want it? Can't he be in the position to refuse? It goes both ways. By the way, women can rape men. It happens.

 

[hazeleyed honey]

Originally Posted by blackngold1z

Im trying to think what a non JO would do carrying these around. Only scenario I can think of is shes allergic to latex and carries around lamb skin.

How about she wants to be a responsible and precautious in case she has sex? But oh yea, God needs to strike single women and doom them to hell for even being human beings and desiring sex because that makes them sluts.

 How dare they carry condoms, those $!%#!#. Blasphemy.

Idiotic mentality. How does a woman carrying around a pack of condoms equal a woman jumping on every single **** she sees in sight?   

 

[hazeleyed honey]

Originally Posted by blackngold1z

Im trying to think what a non JO would do carrying these around. Only scenario I can think of is shes allergic to latex and carries around lamb skin.

How about she wants to be a responsible and precautious in case she has sex? But oh yea, God needs to strike single women and doom them to hell for even being human beings and desiring sex because that makes them sluts.

 How dare they carry condoms, those $!%#!#. Blasphemy.

Idiotic mentality. How does a woman carrying around a pack of condoms equal a woman jumping on every single **** she sees in sight?   

 

[sundoobie]

Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514


  

I would not say she bears the responsibility solely. It takes TWO to have consensual sex, and BOTH should be responsible with protection.

That's what hormones do to you. You know when men think with their $%+$+ and their hormones take over? Do they not expect that to happen to girls when they stimulate us and get us going? Apparently, women know better to control their hormones, but it is excusable for men when they say yea, my **** took over, sorry. Not saying you are saying this.

You are saying that it is a woman's responsibility to say no and not accept raw penis. I am saying it goes both ways. Yes, a women allows penis in her, but a man sure does know how to get her going and stimulate her to the point to give in. If he knows he has the power to do that, and knows how to persuade and press a girl even she had no intent at first for sex, then he is responsible too since right then and there it becomes consensual sex.

What if the woman is pressing sex, and the man doesn't want it? Can't he be in the position to refuse? It goes both ways. By the way, women can rape men. It happens.

Good post Hazeleyed... I agree. I have been with a few females that from the start say there is no sex unless we're committed as bf/gf. I just smirk because I know after a couple dates and time alone with her, I can seduce said female. First base is usually pretty easy but key to success is to make sure you kiss/caress those erogenous zones. Then I innocently/gently get to second base. Manipulation plays a key role to get to 3rd... and by the 3rd.. the flood gates are wide opened so most of the time, she wants it more than I do at that point. 

 

Personally I make sure my JO(s) buy/have condoms also in case I don't have any or else it's just oral and NO I do not inspect her mouth or kiss her afterwards. 

  Every sexually active female should have condoms no matter what and I don't think any less of a female if she has condoms. 

 

[sundoobie]

Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514


  

I would not say she bears the responsibility solely. It takes TWO to have consensual sex, and BOTH should be responsible with protection.

That's what hormones do to you. You know when men think with their $%+$+ and their hormones take over? Do they not expect that to happen to girls when they stimulate us and get us going? Apparently, women know better to control their hormones, but it is excusable for men when they say yea, my **** took over, sorry. Not saying you are saying this.

You are saying that it is a woman's responsibility to say no and not accept raw penis. I am saying it goes both ways. Yes, a women allows penis in her, but a man sure does know how to get her going and stimulate her to the point to give in. If he knows he has the power to do that, and knows how to persuade and press a girl even she had no intent at first for sex, then he is responsible too since right then and there it becomes consensual sex.

What if the woman is pressing sex, and the man doesn't want it? Can't he be in the position to refuse? It goes both ways. By the way, women can rape men. It happens.

Good post Hazeleyed... I agree. I have been with a few females that from the start say there is no sex unless we're committed as bf/gf. I just smirk because I know after a couple dates and time alone with her, I can seduce said female. First base is usually pretty easy but key to success is to make sure you kiss/caress those erogenous zones. Then I innocently/gently get to second base. Manipulation plays a key role to get to 3rd... and by the 3rd.. the flood gates are wide opened so most of the time, she wants it more than I do at that point. 

 

Personally I make sure my JO(s) buy/have condoms also in case I don't have any or else it's just oral and NO I do not inspect her mouth or kiss her afterwards. 

  Every sexually active female should have condoms no matter what and I don't think any less of a female if she has condoms. 

 

[hellaones]

thanks mouse for posting that blog

i've been a fan since you posted it in another thread a couple weeks ago

 

[hellaones]

thanks mouse for posting that blog

i've been a fan since you posted it in another thread a couple weeks ago

 

[hazeleyed honey]

Originally Posted by SunDOOBIE

Good post Hazeleyed... I agree. I have been with a few females that from the start say there is no sex unless we're committed as bf/gf. I just smirk because I know after a couple dates and time alone with her, I can seduce said female. First base is usually pretty easy but key to success is to make sure you kiss/caress those erogenous zones. Then I innocently/gently get to second base. Manipulation plays a key role to get to 3rd... and by the 3rd.. the flood gates are wide opened so most of the time, she wants it more than I do at that point. 

 

Personally I make sure my JO(s) buy/have condoms also in case I don't have any or else it's just oral and NO I do not inspect her mouth or kiss her afterwards. 

  Every sexually active female should have condoms no matter what and I don't think any less of a female if she has condoms. 

Yesssss, you know how it is.

 This is why I refuse to go hang out with a date just in his car or at a house or somewhere alone. If I want to wait a while, public dates only for a couple of months.    

I don't judge other girls for it because I understand how hormones take over. How many times have I heard from my girls, "I did not intend for it, it just happened. Why is he not calling me back though?"

Well duh, he wanted just to !*@* on the first night and despite your hesitation at first, he got it by arousing your hormones to the point you gave in.  The most prudish girl, if a man gets her aroused enough, her nether regions will speak for her and she'll want it if he does it right. Even on the first night.

 

[hazeleyed honey]

Originally Posted by SunDOOBIE

Good post Hazeleyed... I agree. I have been with a few females that from the start say there is no sex unless we're committed as bf/gf. I just smirk because I know after a couple dates and time alone with her, I can seduce said female. First base is usually pretty easy but key to success is to make sure you kiss/caress those erogenous zones. Then I innocently/gently get to second base. Manipulation plays a key role to get to 3rd... and by the 3rd.. the flood gates are wide opened so most of the time, she wants it more than I do at that point. 

 

Personally I make sure my JO(s) buy/have condoms also in case I don't have any or else it's just oral and NO I do not inspect her mouth or kiss her afterwards. 

  Every sexually active female should have condoms no matter what and I don't think any less of a female if she has condoms. 

Yesssss, you know how it is.

 This is why I refuse to go hang out with a date just in his car or at a house or somewhere alone. If I want to wait a while, public dates only for a couple of months.    

I don't judge other girls for it because I understand how hormones take over. How many times have I heard from my girls, "I did not intend for it, it just happened. Why is he not calling me back though?"

Well duh, he wanted just to !*@* on the first night and despite your hesitation at first, he got it by arousing your hormones to the point you gave in.  The most prudish girl, if a man gets her aroused enough, her nether regions will speak for her and she'll want it if he does it right. Even on the first night.

 

[mytmouse76]

^ no problem...

i like it cuz its not a women bashing blog...just men being honest and funny

also check out Verysmartbrothas.com one of the 3 writers on there contributes to SBM and its not just about relationships

 

[mytmouse76]

^ no problem...

i like it cuz its not a women bashing blog...just men being honest and funny

also check out Verysmartbrothas.com one of the 3 writers on there contributes to SBM and its not just about relationships

 

[5am6oody72]

A few at her house, and that's cool/being responsible. Carrying them with her when she goes out on the weekend? I'm gonna judge you, sorry

FWIW I don't carry them on me when I'm going out either.

 

[5am6oody72]

A few at her house, and that's cool/being responsible. Carrying them with her when she goes out on the weekend? I'm gonna judge you, sorry

FWIW I don't carry them on me when I'm going out either.

 

[noodles]

Grimey geometry

 

[noodles]

Grimey geometry

 

[nikekidwonder]

Originally Posted by Brolic Scholar

Originally Posted by proper english

just how common is this, though?

Very common. Maybe you've never slummed and messed with a bird, but mess enough and you'll hear a trap or two being set.

Worse is when a bird fakes being pregnant in order to get you to drop your guard and go in raw thinking you already got her pregnant so you might as well...

 

[nikekidwonder]

Originally Posted by Brolic Scholar

Originally Posted by proper english

just how common is this, though?

Very common. Maybe you've never slummed and messed with a bird, but mess enough and you'll hear a trap or two being set.

Worse is when a bird fakes being pregnant in order to get you to drop your guard and go in raw thinking you already got her pregnant so you might as well...

 

[omgitswes]

Originally Posted by hellaones

thanks mouse for posting that blog

i've been a fan since you posted it in another thread a couple weeks ago

Dope avy

one of my favorite movies.

I don't see a problem with this myself

 

[omgitswes]

Originally Posted by hellaones

thanks mouse for posting that blog

i've been a fan since you posted it in another thread a couple weeks ago

Dope avy

one of my favorite movies.

I don't see a problem with this myself

 

[executive76]

no judgement here. but I'll use my own