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The fact that you don't consider your wife immediate family is very telling.
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You're trying to make it sound worse than it is.The thing is it's deeper than just finances though. My dude really said he'd place his wife THIRD in terms of importance in his life. Like why even get married if that's your mindset?
You're trying to make it sound worse than it is.
Assuming iIhave children they automatically become 1st,I don't think anyone will dispute that so you wife would be second by default.
And my immediate family > my wife so she is third.
He makes an interesting point.
I assume people would take a bullet for their mother and child before their wife, if the hypothetical situation presented itself. So I can understand the wife being 3rd place logic, but when you actually type it out of course it sounds wild
Sounds noble but you know that wasn't the question I asked. And there is always an order whether you are willing to admit it or not. And I am pretty sure the adults would be willing to step aside and let your child live their life if that situation presented itselfI'd take a bullet for my kids, wife, mom, dad, sister, and niece. In no order because I'd do it for any of them the same.
You can't understand why someone would save the people they are eternally in debt to over their wife?
Some of these things would never happen to me though because iIrefuse to get married while having debt or marry someone who has debt (excluding a mortgage) . Both are selfish acts.
Her being highly leveraged to pay her own bills is not my concern, they are not my bills they are hers. I would hope that at the very least someone would be honest with me in that regard to where if I ask them if they have debt they just come out and say it because iIam doing the same.
Credit score and thinks of that like also matter. I don't have a problem telling someone my credit score though so we could share that info but it's gonna be a deal breaker if hers is bad.
If I plan to marry someone iIwould hope we can at least be forthcoming about our finances without knowing every minute detail. My debt to income ratio is X I plan to be debt free by Y age, my credit score is Z.
Not even in a serious relationshipI just read some of the responses here, but I'm going to assume most you are not actually married.
They gonna have separate cell lines cuz if she can't pay her bill that ain't his problem. Calling son from a pay phone when she catch a flat, that sint his problem either.I don't understand how anyone would choose to save their parents over their spouse. And Im extremely close with my parents. My mom would slap the **** out of me if I saved her over my wife
I hope antidope's wife never gets laid off. She gonna be panhandling if she wants to spend any type of money![]()
Lmaoooo this dude dc all American just arguing to argue![]()
The point is that your wife should be considered family.You're trying to make it sound worse than it is.
Assuming iIhave children they automatically become 1st,I don't think anyone will dispute that so you wife would be second by default.
And my immediate family > my wife so she is third.