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Folks speaking like its pausing that old video game on NES to go play Sega right quick and get back to it later.....all before memory cards came out to save one's progress.
I don't think you understand....I really doubt anyone wanting a break is doing it with the intentions of staying together....everyone knows the risks involved...the only thing a break does is salvage the trust....THAT'S IT....other than that is no different than a break up, with the heartbreak and all....she goes her way, meets different men, I go my way meet different women....have sex with other people, etc....at any given time in life you guys happen to run into each other or get in touch with one another...go on a friendly date, 2 dates, start talking again...sparks fly again...you get that new relationship feeling all over again with the person you love...this is the positive outcome of a break for a relationship...gives you space to miss each other and refresh, reboost your old relationship...totally worth it when it works out that way....but it has to be effortless and not planned.