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But wouldn't you have to think that, if you are ready to go into a relationship with someone you see yourself with for a very long time? why just get into a relationship if you dont see yourself with her/him as the one for you in your futurer? you would just be wasting both of yall times imo. I know relationships can be trial and error sometimes, but i feel like if yall been talking and have been feeling each other out for sometime, and finally decide to get into a relationship, then it should be serious from that moment on.
This all goes back to choosing and being selective about who you enter into a serious relationship with....people get dating/seeing someone/relationships all miscontrued. You are not in a relationship with every woman you date or are seeing.
And a long relationship can be a couple years and people grow and change. Thinking you have to stay together to reach the end goal of marriage is silly...Enjou the great two years and keep it moving if need be, I don't consider that an abysmal failure.