Nah I get you, and I know that pride parades can get wild. I wouldn't consider them to be family or kid-friendly events.
I'm talking specifically about the ones at schools which usually involve a drag performer singing songs or reading stories.
This is the group in question which sparked a lot of the recent outrage:
Drag Artists for Expression NYC (formerly Drag Story Hour NYC / Drag Queen Story Hour NYC) produces storytelling and creative arts programs for children and teens, presented by local drag artists, in libraries, schools, and other community spaces in all five boroughs of New York City, and...
www.dshnyc.org
Seems fairly benign to me.