TAY: thread about yambs...

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No, her boyfriends mother works with us :x I'm gonna drag it out a little, keep it in my pants for now, and see where things go with the other girl. Thank you bros for your words of wisdom and yamb-getting-encouragement; I will scroll back through here as time passes... gotta make sure this girl stops sending me messages through FB though smh. Paper trails are all bad.
 
Trust me, you need to back away from that situation ASAP cause it's impossible to tell how it'll end up...back in college I didn't give a @#$% (well at least until junior year, that's when I finally matured and got a moral compass :lol:) and I was in a very similar dilemma...by the end, the girl basically told her BF that she was drunk and didn't know what she was doing when we hooked up. I mean they broke up anyway, but her boyfriend told everyone that I was a rapist :smh: Ever since then I've been good
 
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Rapist though...smh.

yup, even though I was "seeing" her for almost a month :smh: I mean obviously no one took it THAT seriously (otherwise I wouldn't be posting here) but it definitely ruined my reputation with alot of women :lol:
 
i think krit drops more game than spitta..

not usually the one for games..but i got this chick right where I want her..she thinks im messing with some broad..sending me texts like why are you playing me..im in the library studying all I said was im busy and Im not hanging out with her tonite lol
 
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It depends what's on your plate, if you really love your job dont do it. If she's sending you FB messages, she wants it and you said she's hot.
 
Love my job? :lol: I love my money. I'm more worried about damaging friendships and any potential with this other girl if anyone finds out. But yeah, I think I'm gonna have to keep this at arms length for now while I can figure out the best course of action.

I hate these damn kinds of dilemmas. Not the first time this has happened either, just the first time the girls was hot which makes the decision much more difficult :smh:
 
i would rather be banged because the chick is feelin me, not because im black

Youve missed it my guy, the chick isnt going to just drop her panties because you're unique to an environment, but its going to get their mind racing, its going to raise curiosity...im sure if you approach her and turn out to be uninteresting then all of that goes out the window...

what we're saying is, that first step...of being noticed...its already done 9/10
 
I learned this early, give your # to a chick instead of asking for hers. If she is genuinely interested she will hit you up, if not then you saved yourself a lot of time trying to figure out if this chick is feeling you.

THIS.

Actually worked for me this past weekend....but I couldn't remember who the hell she was lol
 
Been pullin' a couple text-book moves on my 'friend zone' chick over the past week or so..

- Hit her with the compliments, more often to let her know that I'm feeling her a bit more than usual friends, saying her name a lot more in general conversation, women love when you say their name

- I set up a dinner date yesterday with a mutual acquaintance without her knowing until the last minute, we've eaten dinner every night together for the past 2 months.

So i told her i wasn't gonna be able to eat dinner with her tonight and that i was going to karaoke and dinner with our friend, I told her who it was, she said "Oh is this a date"

I'm like no... long pause... "Well if it wasn't a date, you would've invited me, because that's what you always do"

she started to hit me up with random texts throughout the night like "Did you kiss her yet?" 
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Some how we all ended up at the same bar, last night which was expected.. I was flirting with my date, my friendzone chick, on top of that I pulled 2 numbers in front of both of them while they we're waiting on just me to leave the bar..
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I thought we we're all going to the same place, but my date wanted to go back home and so did Ms. Friend zone.. Once she seen i was taking the date back to campus, she had a look of disgust and hurt on her face. 
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 and was like "I think I'll go to the next bar with the rest.." 

not sure if I executed the night properly, could've very well moved into the d-bag zone, I doubt it tho. We'll see this weekend.
 
I learned this early, give your # to a chick instead of asking for hers. If she is genuinely interested she will hit you up, if not then you saved yourself a lot of time trying to figure out if this chick is feeling you.
props.. think about it like this fellas.. if ur giving her ur number she'll hit u up if shes feelin ya... but if she wants u to get her number when u tell her to take urs.. just NEXT her... i tell em i obviously feel u so now show me u feel me.. i aint about those games!!!
 
how to get fresh 18 y/o hs yambs? cuz i never did back in HS... but now im tryna pick the ripe ones out.

chime in. thanks in advance..
 
how to get fresh 18 y/o hs yambs? cuz i never did back in HS... but now im tryna pick the ripe ones out.

chime in. thanks in advance..

[COLOR=#red]You talking to the expert in that arena. I banged two hot 19 year olds well into my 30's not too long ago. If one of these experts in here haven replied to you by the time I get back I'll put you on. Real quick just want to say there are pros and cons to young legal yams, it ain't all sunshine bro.[/COLOR]
 
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^ yea if its not a one and done or just straight late night action i wouldnt do it personally...what does a young chicks bring to the table except good buns for a cat over 25 and got his self together?
 
props.. think about it like this fellas.. if ur giving her ur number she'll hit u up if shes feelin ya... but if she wants u to get her number when u tell her to take urs.. just NEXT her... i tell em i obviously feel u so now show me u feel me.. i aint about those games!!!
I'm gonna disagree with your points.

Although it makes sense and is true... many times, a chick just isn't going to initiate first contact cuz she's a chick...

You can't stick to one route as a yamb wide out and think you're gonna get yamb receptions all game... switch it up sometimes ...

Think about your toughest coach or hardest teacher that helped you in your development ...

Every now and again, they adjusted. Not all the time... just sometimes b/c as a great teacher or coach, sometimes you have to change your message...

With the yambs. I totally agree with the facts of it. If a girl calls you, you have her hook line and sinker...

There are some girls that will not call.. and are truly shy, or feel awkward calling first...

Its really how the situation goes...

My advice to take both approaches depending on the convo ... and give her 2 chances ...

Not three.. not 4... not 1... TWO CHANCES ...

She comes in thinking she can do this and that... how will she ever know if you don't give her chance to mess up so you can check her flakyness or game playing?

If you get the number... TWO chances.. no more... no less...
 
how to get fresh 18 y/o hs yambs? cuz i never did back in HS... but now im tryna pick the ripe ones out.

chime in. thanks in advance..
me personally ... I don't eem like it..
Going to kick it with a young gun this weekend. She's 19..

It feels real awkward sometimes cuz I have to realize that this chick and I weren't even in high school at the same time...

I asked her has she ever used a pay phone... she said no... :lol:

They can be fun and easily entertained and loyal to a fault...

But they're still kids in most cases...

And many times, they don't have grown women bodies ... that 24-26 year old time frame us the peak IMO ...

Inb4 the exceptions ... I'm GENERALIZING ..
 
i think krit drops more game than spitta..
not usually the one for games..but i got this chick right where I want her..she thinks im messing with some broad..sending me texts like why are you playing me..im in the library studying all I said was im busy and Im not hanging out with her tonite lol
krit drops more knowledge about life than swag...

When I need advice, a pick me up, or a pat on the back for being a young black dude on the grind... KRIT is played ...

When I'm learning how to attract these hoors, how to focus financially, or keep my composure with good looking yambs and what they look for... curren$y all day..
 
Been pullin' a couple text-book moves on my 'friend zone' chick over the past week or so..

- Hit her with the compliments, more often to let her know that I'm feeling her a bit more than usual friends, saying her name a lot more in general conversation, women love when you say their name
- I set up a dinner date yesterday with a mutual acquaintance without her knowing until the last minute, we've eaten dinner every night together for the past 2 months.
So i told her i wasn't gonna be able to eat dinner with her tonight and that i was going to karaoke and dinner with our friend, I told her who it was, she said "Oh is this a date"
I'm like no... long pause... "Well if it wasn't a date, you would've invited me, because that's what you always do"
she started to hit me up with random texts throughout the night like "Did you kiss her yet?" :lol:
Some how we all ended up at the same bar, last night which was expected.. I was flirting with my date, my friendzone chick, on top of that I pulled 2 numbers in front of both of them while they we're waiting on just me to leave the bar..:lol:

I thought we we're all going to the same place, but my date wanted to go back home and so did Ms. Friend zone.. Once she seen i was taking the date back to campus, she had a look of disgust and hurt on her face. :lol:  and was like "I think I'll go to the next bar with the rest.." 

not sure if I executed the night properly, could've very well moved into the d-bag zone, I doubt it tho. We'll see this weekend.
sounds like you're winning sir ...

Yambs are definitely in your future ...

FZ chick sounds emotional and young though.
 
Fellas rebuilding my lineup sucks real talk. My rosters been empty for like 2 months! :x The crucial mistake i made was getting to comfortable with my solo sidepiece and not recruiting baesd off the fact that I had steady P. But now shes off at college prolly bein a ***** ( really dnt care, but them yambs was top notch) Basically, im starting from scratch because I cut everyone else off. :smh:

I just made myself 30 min late for work, helpin this cute Rican chick catch her dog on my street.. I was expectin her to just throw me the box right there in the dog house lol but seriously this better lead to somethin. I dont just be walkin around town helpin randoms find there pets for no reason.
 
I learned this early, give your # to a chick instead of asking for hers. If she is genuinely interested she will hit you up, if not then you saved yourself a lot of time trying to figure out if this chick is feeling you.

props.. think about it like this fellas.. if ur giving her ur number she'll hit u up if shes feelin ya... but if she wants u to get her number when u tell her to take urs.. just NEXT her... i tell em i obviously feel u so now show me u feel me.. i aint about those games!!!

I cant get with this. Men are suppose to be the natural agressors. The average chick expects you to take her number and be the one to pursue first. She could be feeling you but expect you to make the first move
 
Bros... BROS. I need you to be my moral compass. Girl I work with has a crush on me. She's got a boyfriend, whose mother also works with us. I dont like this girl like that; I DO like a different girl I work with. I really want to say YOLO and attempt to smash, but I really dont see any good ending to this situation, especially if anyone finds out. But god, she's hot. Reinforce my morals, bros! Please!


Don't dip your pen in company ink. That never ends well. If you want to lose money for vagina, go pay an escort and keep it moving.




Being able to pick up the early signs that a female is interested in you is like reading a good Cover 2 defense. You can't sit around and wait for a female to approach you. Most females are scared of rejection, unless they are the super rollers who will just trim the fat and put her cards out on the table.


When you get to a certain age, it is really about just identifying a want versus a need. Not every girl you encounter is going to be a gril you wine and dine at a 5 star restaurant.....and that is ok.


Learn to be assertive and confident without being overly aggressive.



*Ricky, I'll try to permeate throughout here.
 
Fellas rebuilding my lineup sucks real talk. My rosters been empty for like 2 months! :x The crucial mistake i made was getting to comfortable with my solo sidepiece and not recruiting baesd off the fact that I had steady P. But now shes off at college prolly bein a ***** ( really dnt care, but them yambs was top notch) Basically, im starting from scratch because I cut everyone else off. :smh:

I just made myself 30 min late for work, helpin this cute Rican chick catch her dog on my street.. I was expectin her to just throw me the box right there in the dog house lol but seriously this better lead to somethin. I dont just be walkin around town helpin randoms find there pets for no reason.

You should be good man, you showed a random girl that you are a caring neighbor, and went out of your way doing so....hopefully you got her name, maybe her number or something but if you play that right you could easily get her out at least on a couple date (assuming shes not married or anything :lol:)...hit her up with a joke or something about her dog or just mess with her, then if you see her again ask her out...let your game do the talking for you from there boss :smokin
 
Tips on bar yambs.
I'm heading out tonight solo.
Disclaimer : I'm black ... in a white area.

boy BYE, I already told you some tips :lol: :smh:

1. smile
2. be sociable
3. DO NOT mug everybody you see
4. engage in conversations

Those are usually the three rules black dudes can't seem to follow when out in social settings

RICKY AS LONG AS YOU SMILE, DRESS CLASSY, AND ARE A SOMEWHAT ATTRACTIVE GUY, GOING TO A WHITE BAR AREA = MAJOR WIN.

THE BECKY YAMBS WILL BE CALLING.

I USED TO DO THIS ALL THE TIME. ROLL SOLO TO THE WHITE BARS AND I WOULD ALWAYS PULL A WHITE GIRL. I DON'T EVEN PURSUE THE BECKY YAMBS TOO TUFF ANYMORE, IT'S TOO EASY.
 
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