TAY: thread about yambs...

[41239]

the ****? are you black? more importantly, are you srs? i know i said you were a catch on paper, but clearly i jumped the gun too soon, that resume was one sided as hell

what if I was serious? And what difference does MY race make?


And one sided? my resume was no diff than Ricky's... so are you doubting if he's a catch a too?? Or should we re-think how we define 'catch' ?

if you was srs, i would be shocked because you SEEM like someone who wouldnt be racist (racial "preference" is not a preference, its racism) if you were black and didnt date black guys then that would be even more ****** up

HELL YEA im doubting hes a catch, homie already keeps referring to his white shorty on deck as white yams so i already kinda feel homie is bein semi-whack

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

I personally have an issue when I see so many black women who SHUN dating outside the race, and they've never even done it.


I mean, no diss, but black men aren't being exclusive to us so why should we continue to limit ourselves?? Then you steady complain about the lack of good men..... mention dating somebody else and they all defensive "WHAT !? HUH ??? NAH, I CAN'T DO THAT"

 

[tbhova]

@ GatorBeltsNPattieMelts what part of Dallas you from? I'm usually in Fort Worth all the time, but currently in the military studying Pre-Med

 

[41239]

I personally have an issue when I see so many black women who SHUN dating outside the race, and they've never even done it.


I mean, no diss, but black men aren't being exclusive to us so why should we continue to limit ourselves?? Then you steady complain about the lack of good men..... mention dating somebody else and they all defensive "WHAT !? HUH ??? NAH, I CAN'T DO THAT"

i hold the same sentiments

 

[trilluminated]

I personally have an issue when I see so many black women who SHUN dating outside the race, and they've never even done it.


I mean, no diss, but black men aren't being exclusive to us so why should we continue to limit ourselves?? Then you steady complain about the lack of good men..... mention dating somebody else and they all defensive "WHAT !? HUH ??? NAH, I CAN'T DO THAT"

as a big fan of interracial dating i salute you..

 

[shorty doo wop]

The are so many bangin' chicks at my modern dance class in college

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

@ GatorBeltsNPattieMelts what part of Dallas you from? I'm usually in Fort Worth all the time, but currently in the military studying Pre-Med

I'm from LA, living in Dallas. Been here for like 4 years now and I honestly like it. It be hot as **** tho during the summer :x

 

[mrbrown]

Is there a chick in here?

Cause this convo sounding kinda ayo

 

[driven1]

Just because a dude look good on paper, doesn't mean he will automatically be about something in the character department. The cloths, crib, cars, and salary don't make up for a whack personality. Whack as in no character or morals or sincerity.

 

[216301baller]

gatorbelts post a pic dear

I guess im whack then my principles/morals were all messed up for a while

 

[41239]

Is there a chick in here?

Cause this convo sounding kinda ayo

na homie, just us guys

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

Is there a chick in here?
Cause this convo sounding kinda ayo

I think slickp a chick... but he/she hasn't come out and said anything

 

[T0INE]

Slept on this thread hard.

Very entertaining.

The female perspective from Gator is welcomed as well.

 

[triple homicide]

I haven't had any yambs in awhile. I been too cool & reserved to get at some potentials though. I usually see nice looking gals choosing up on dudes I know thats losers but its all good.

I'm sitting in my office right now, like damn I need some quality cheeks spreading over my desk but I ain't got it. I just got a big wad of cash & cc's, keys, receipt book & other **** that belongs on a desk.

But its all good though: no kids, nice ride, self employed with a nice *** office suite, got a studio in the house, kick game nice, ocean waves. Just drama free & stress free living. Been working out too.

I been the man.

 

[cjlaw228]

Got some from my X on Monday ..told her U GONE GET THIS WORK ..beat it up left her shakin..then cuddled like old times ..i was a lil skeptical because she sucked my whop like a pornstar..she musta been practicin on somebody else

 

[stay strong]

I haven't had any yambs in awhile. I been too cool & reserved to get at some potentials though. I usually see nice looking gals choosing up on dudes I know thats losers but its all good.

I'm sitting in my office right now, like damn I need some quality cheeks spreading over my desk but I ain't got it. I just got a big wad of cash & cc's, keys, receipt book & other **** that belongs on a desk.

But its all good though: no kids, nice ride, self employed with a nice *** office suite, got a studio in the house, kick game nice, ocean waves. Just drama free & stress free living. Been working out too.

I been the man.

Keep it like that bra yambs with come

 

[youngdoc]

"Girls" choose loser's who aren't doing anything, and they usually pay the price for their bad decisions later in life. i.e. single mothers, multiple baby dad's etc. But "women" choose men who are doing something, and those are the women who can see the bigger picture. Those women are very scarce in the black community.

I'm in the same boat as you guys--- single, slim, no kids, own house, and I keep gas in my car and routinely have my oil changed. Will be done with my master's this year.



But when I feel like I want a certain "something" in somebody, I'm called combative and "too good". I'm like you guys though, I'm a catch... is it wrong for me to say that I am?

It's not wrong to think you are a catch. That's the right mentality to have.

I feel like I'm doing it. MD, no kids, in shape, generally regarded as a good looking. Not going to settle for someone. I want a catch as well and I'll be damned if I knock up some ratchet *******

 

[iYen]

Would you still pursue a chick if you put her number into spokeo.com and found out that he had a bf? How do you get naturally introduced to other chicks by a chick who is in a relationship?

 

[mrbrown]

If your not getting it... your not going to get it.

all the money and perks in the world can take you so far. Those that sit back and wait on girls to come are in for a rude awakening. You show off your loot and the leeches are on their way. The dudes saying they are the man for obtaining material items seem to hide behind these things they show off. Having money and a nice crib gets you girls but it might not be the type you want. It will be the types that go after that bread not the girls that care about less.

Whats good about having all this money most claim to have if they are going to sit back and wait for a gold digger to start digging on that gold you have worked so hard for. Thats like walking into a strip club with a hand full of money, the birds are going to love you till the bread is gone. Then what?

See this thread is not about showing off how much you have, or how much of a catch you are. Its about being the predator and going out hunting. Its not about being bait on a hook. All these fellas claiming to be "that dude" seem to be in a form of denial. It does not make it ok to just post up and wait for the birds to come pecking at your hand. You gotta be the eagle that swoops and smashes that bunny cause he was hungry. You dudes with the bank are just setting yourself up to get played if you post and wait.

Money can't buy you game, money can't buy confidence. Its as some dudes are trying to convince themselves that the p will get served eventually just like everything in life. Get out there and live a little. Im positive all these cats claiming to have it going on with a lack of p are not going out there and trying to be the man they really want to be. They have achieved what society has expected but have neglected that inner drive to sweep a girl off her feet. Dudes are sounding mad feminine talking about "I know Im a catch" that **** does not matter. If you dudes are stuck on that mind frame you might as well start putting on make up to catch a ******* eye.

Go out there and choose them.

 

[yeold360s]

A man that requires the acquisition of yambs in order to "be the man they really want to be" is not a man at all.

 

[mrbrown]

A man that requires the acquisition of yambs in order to "be the man they really want to be" is not a man at all.

Polymath

Im guessing your only focus is just that. A man is a complete individual. I never stated that obtaining females made you a man, I stated that those that choose to conquer yambs should go about it exactly as their mind envisions. Those that complain should resolve the cause.

 

[coolgraymemo]

Was pumping gas and noticed a cute Mexican girl pumping gas into a pickup truck. As I was leaving, I drove by the truck, waved and smiled at the girl. She blushed. Then I noticed that her mom (or someone that was older) giving me the finger from the backseat of the trunk.

 

[thadocta]

Was pumping gas and noticed a cute Mexican girl pumping gas into a pickup truck. As I was leaving, I drove by the truck, waved and smiled at the girl. She blushed. Then I noticed that her mom (or someone that was older) giving me the finger from the backseat of the trunk.

is it okay to approach wiminz that are with their moms? or with their kids?

 

[yeold360s]

A man that requires the acquisition of yambs in order to "be the man they really want to be" is not a man at all.

Polymath

Im guessing your only focus is just that. A man is a complete individual. I never stated that obtaining females made you a man, I stated that those that choose to conquer yambs should go about it exactly as their mind envisions. Those that complain should resolve the cause.

All I'm saying is that not all the dudes "not chasing P" aren't being the dudes they want to be.

I agree with you on the "I'm a catch" part.  I was thinking, "Did dis dude just say dis?"

 

[ricky409]

is it okay to approach wiminz that are with their moms? or with their kids?

its so Mich easier when a chick is with her momb ...

I say "excuse me... I think your daughter is attractive, no disrespect. Do you mind if I pull her to the side and talk with her? "

Used to do it all the time when I working in sharps town