TAY: thread about yambs...

[tero]

 

[41239]

Need help,with random chick
Met girl on bus,she started asking mad questions about my headphones. Continued talking she offered her#
saw that she had mad luggage just got off greyhound, she lived like 1 stop away from me offered to carry one of her bags to her apartment.
We started talking decided we grab lunch, she wanted to freshen up and change shoes so she said come on in and wait for me while I change, I was like ok
Had lunch then sat at the park and chatted then went back to her crib and chatted some more. Conversation was alright, she is out there though.
She has no cable or tv got super bored, lied and said I was sleepy. She got the sad face and was like stay, told her I was too tired.
Before I left we exchanged # she made me promise that I would call her. I agreed too, didn't call I'm preoccupied with girl A who I have a class with


Almost 3 weeks later, this saturday I decide to hit up old girl from the bus
She start saying why didn't you call like you said you were, made up some lame excuse about my phone messed up
Offered to make it up by bringing her Mcdonalds, she agreed to let me come over, I was forgiven
She said she had planned to go clubbing, so she would only be able to chill for a sec, I was like cool
First thing she did was hug me and she said I thought about you,
After a talking for a while she decided to cancel clubbing and chill with me.
Got bored told her I was about to bounce, she begged me to stay, I was like ok I can stay a while longer
She started talking about how she is trying to get her money right and she can either buy dinner or cook
I said I rather a home cooked meal.
Got bored again told her I was leaving, before I left she gave me an extra # to reach her.
She also ask why I be running out her house all the time. I just kept repeating I was tired, that's all.

Ok so I haven't hit her up since Saturday, I was thinking of hitting her up on Wednesday, because we agreed to hang out some time this weekend. She is not my type, I'm really feeling girl A more anyways. So I,m trying to get the yambs this weekend. At first I remember her saying we would make a good couple because our zodiac signs match but lately she has been referring to me as a friend. I'm not sure whether she has friend zoned me or she is trying to be more reserved because I have never really flirted or made any sort of move on her. So I plan to get the yambs this weekend before I fully commit to girl A. Should I start by flirting with her trough texting or should I just wait till we meet face to face or is it too late and I have been friend zoned.

Ps. She is light skinned petite with a donk. Jacked up teeth, but whatever I ain't trying to marry her. Already saw her **** and ***. When I was chilling with her Saturday she had a real short tight dressed with a thong and she started playing around and her boob popped out and she acted like it was nothing. she left the boobies out for a while before finally tucking them away

im confused, so the random chick is the light skinned petite chick with a donk? and shes hot? idk man, what advice do you need?

 

[tr1ll]

Had this fine *** latina waitress yesterday at my favorite restaurant. 20, pretty face, big booty.
Another waitress I knew from HS came over and told me MY waitress thinks I'm cute.
Chatted it up, got her info I was leaving.
Do I apply the pressure now and ask her on a lunch/dinner date or should I wait towards the end of the week?

Make a move...NAO!

This is not TV, all that wait a week mess does not apply. While you're waiting for the "player time to call", she done met 5 other dudes that she thinks are cute and 3 of them putting on the full court pressure.

Pressure = attention. Chicks love attention.

 

[tero]

Make a move...NAO!
This is not TV, all that wait a week mess does not apply. While you're waiting for the "player time to call", she done met 5 other dudes that she thinks are cute and 3 of them putting on the full court pressure.
Pressure = attention. Chicks love attention.

hes right man, I waited weeks too late and im almost positive the broad lost interest. smh she was petite too.


does anybody know how to rekindle the flame with yambs after a period of silence.

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

Make a move...NAO!
This is not TV, all that wait a week mess does not apply. While you're waiting for the "player time to call", she done met 5 other dudes that she thinks are cute and 3 of them putting on the full court pressure.
Pressure = attention. Chicks love attention.

my thing is while you wanna wait... it's another ***** that don't wanna wait, and who you think I'mma go out with???



C'mon ya'll, I swear some of the "advice" ya'll need is common sense like crazy

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

hes right man, I waited weeks too late and im almost positive the broad lost interest. smh she was petite too.
does anybody know how to rekindle the flame with yambs after a period of silence.

Aiight, here's what you do--- slowly start texting again... then calling again. Over texting puts you in the "this ***** ain't bout **** but texting category" and you will soon fade into Bolivia ( ) She was obviously feeling you at some point so you just gotta do what you did in the beginning to make her like you. Me personally, I'm a fan of random, funny texts in the middle of the day. Generally something that relates to something you guys talked about or watched/listened to together.


example: me and my current dude always watch game of thrones together, so one day he sent me a text that said 'NO GOLD!' I was grinning like a school girl all day (true story)


Don't bother her with BS like "what you doing cutie" or "WYD" ... that **** is annoying as **** and we clown you in front of our homegirls and homeboys (true story)

 

[nawghtyhare]

hes right man, I waited weeks too late and im almost positive the broad lost interest. smh she was petite too.
does anybody know how to rekindle the flame with yambs after a period of silence.

Aiight, here's what you do--- slowly start texting again... then calling again. Over texting puts you in the "this ***** ain't bout **** but texting category" and you will soon fade into Bolivia ( ) She was obviously feeling you at some point so you just gotta do what you did in the beginning to make her like you. Me personally, I'm a fan of random, funny texts in the middle of the day. Generally something that relates to something you guys talked about or watched/listened to together.


example: me and my current dude always watch game of thrones together, so one day he sent me a text that said 'NO GOLD!' I was grinning like a school girl all day (true story)


Don't bother her with BS like "what you doing cutie" or "WYD" ... that **** is annoying as **** and we clown you in front of our homegirls and homeboys (true story)

How long u been with ur dude?

 

[awwsome]

hes right man, I waited weeks too late and im almost positive the broad lost interest. smh she was petite too.
does anybody know how to rekindle the flame with yambs after a period of silence.

Imma be real honest, if you was really putting it on her, she would've hit you up.
But if your really interested just contact to her say what up, ask how she's been and let her know you wanna meet up.
You'll know from the vibe of the convo weather it's still there or not

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

^

still fresh, 2 -3 months or so... we were friends/acquintences before hooking up though (ran in the same circle)


*plays Musiq's "newness"*

 

[hoosierdaddy317]

Dude, reading some of these posts on here. A lot of you dudes have no game whatsoever and overthink everything when it comes to yambs 

. Making it seem like you're learning a new language and ****. Never over do it or go the extra mile for a chick, let her come to you.Keep it G my ****** 

 

[ricky409]

Dude, reading some of these posts on here. A lot of you dudes have no game whatsoever and overthink everything when it comes to yambs  . Making it seem like you're learning a new language and ****. Never over do it or go the extra mile for a chick, let her come to you.Keep it G my ****** 

that's what the thread is for...

we dont want anyone to feel ashamed to ask questions... as long as you take heed to the advice, there's no such thing as a dumb question here in TAY...

 

[nawghtyhare]

^

still fresh, 2 -3 months or so... we were friends/acquintences before hooking up though (ran in the same circle)


*plays Musiq's "newness"*

Soooooo did he run game to get them yambs or do u think u wiliingly let him get em? Be honest

 

[mamba2481]

question:

There is this girl in vegas that I met over 4th of july weekend.  She lives in Vegas- she goes to school out there.  Ive seen her a total of 3 different weekends. She said she wish I lived out there and If I did we would spend all our time with each other.  Last time i saw her she said she was pulling away because of the distance and she was scared.  She said she graduates in may/june from school and well see what happens.

Well i haven't been there in about 5-6 weeks.  Im going next weekend.  But I havent talked to this chick in 3 weeks.  My last 2 text no reply and my last phone call/vmail no reply.

I do like her- yeah i know she lives in vegas i should probably just let her go- but she also said she really likes me.

How do i pique the interest again and let her know im coming next weekend and want to go out?

 

[tr1ll]

Soooooo did he run game to get them yambs or do u think u wiliingly let him get em? Be honest

Can I answer this one?

Aint no man, in the history of penetration, ever gammed a chick out of yambs. She had her mind made up within the first few minutes of meeting you. They run game on dudes for the extra attention.

 

[nawghtyhare]

Soooooo did he run game to get them yambs or do u think u wiliingly let him get em? Be honest

Can I answer this one?

Aint no man, in the history of penetration, ever gammed a chick out of yambs. She had her mind made up within the first few minutes of meeting you. They run game on dudes for the extra attention.

See thats what dudes assume but females dont always think about whether they gonna give it up or not. Like she stated they were friends which could mean they were just feeling each other out before taking the next step or that they were really just friends. Sometimes with females it helps to open them up a little they dont always know whether or not they gonna give it up immediatly it depends on the person and circumstances

 

[stay strong]

The knowledge that our NT brethren has bestowed on this thread is help my yambs count will be in a all time high

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

I love how nawtyhare asked ME a question but Tr1LL stepped in and answered for me

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

he's right though -- soon as I saw that golden mustache and those black rimmed glasses I knew he had to be mine I was crushing on him AT LEAST a year before I turned my flirt game up from min to MAX

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

See thats what dudes assume but females dont always think about whether they gonna give it up or not. Like she stated they were friends which could mean they were just feeling each other out before taking the next step or that they were really just friends. Sometimes with females it helps to open them up a little they dont always know whether or not they gonna give it up immediatly it depends on the person and circumstances

this is true too though--- hasn't happened since college, but it can happen. Sometimes we don't know what we have in front of us

 

[ricky409]

where did this come from?

 

[mrkane]

See thats what dudes assume but females dont always think about whether they gonna give it up or not. Like she stated they were friends which could mean they were just feeling each other out before taking the next step or that they were really just friends. Sometimes with females it helps to open them up a little they dont always know whether or not they gonna give it up immediatly it depends on the person and circumstances

from experience this is NOT TRUE.......never had to game or trick a yamb into giving me some p$$y. it was always sacrificed to me the ones that wernt openly blunt about giving the P, I just had to take the sublte hint. TR1LL is correct they know within the first 37 seconds if they wanna drop the panties for you. They give you " THE LOOK" all the real players know what im talkin bout

 

[tero]

where did this come from?

lol i just googled it

 

[hoosierdaddy317]

Not everyones got it like us par. Not everyone working with the same tools. I mean we're savage beasts out here...we are them grizzly bears waiting in shallow waters to scoop up some bASS with our bare/bear hands. Some of these other guys out here with there buoy too high and no sinker using shiny plastic lures. Sometimes you gotta cast the reel before you keep it real. Nam'sayin?

I see. I'm going to kick back and enjoy the show then 

 

[shorty doo wop]

Gator beltts keeping it 100 with us lol props

 

[nawghtyhare]

Dude, reading some of these posts on here. A lot of you dudes have no game whatsoever and overthink everything when it comes to yambs  . Making it seem like you're learning a new language and ****. Never over do it or go the extra mile for a chick, let her come to you.Keep it G my ****** 

Not everyones got it like us par. Not everyone working with the same tools. I mean we're savage beasts out here...we are them grizzly bears waiting in shallow waters to scoop up some bASS with our bare/bear hands. Some of these other guys out here with there buoy too high and no sinker using shiny plastic lures. Sometimes you gotta cast the reel before you keep it real. Nam'sayin?

Somebody been reading ghostface blog i see

 

[Gex the Damaja]

question:

There is this girl in vegas that I met over 4th of july weekend.  She lives in Vegas- she goes to school out there.  Ive seen her a total of 3 different weekends. She said she wish I lived out there and If I did we would spend all our time with each other.  Last time i saw her she said she was pulling away because of the distance and she was scared.  She said she graduates in may/june from school and well see what happens.

Well i haven't been there in about 5-6 weeks.  Im going next weekend.  But I havent talked to this chick in 3 weeks.  My last 2 text no reply and my last phone call/vmail no reply.

I do like her- yeah i know she lives in vegas i should probably just let her go- but she also said she really likes me.

How do i pique the interest again and let her know im coming next weekend and want to go out?

She not waiting for you b, she "pulling away" because she doesn't want to wait for you b. Reality is you like her but the feeling isn't mutual. Take the hints, don't chase it. Vegas is a big place, ain't no problem getting another one.