Me and my boy were having a discussion and we were trying to decide which place seems like a better date idea, open mic club or a jazz club
Couple things I learned over the years (DATE IDEA TIPS):
Neither IMO, I usually pick places or activities where you can converse and get to know the individual first. I usually pick a coffee shop, its cheap like under $10 for a date if you decide to pay for her, I usually don't (for me this is the get to know you phase, pre-date but some people consider this to be a date, w/e). Then I would proceed to do something simple on the second date like bowling or mini-golf, something simple not too extravagant where the main focus is getting to know the individual while having fun on a budget. Plus with bowling and mini-golf you can initiate some contact the natural way but just don't be awkward guys
.Third date is whatever I am feeling that moment. I usually sprinkle in some activities that I do on the regular and ask her to tag along and maybe a cooking tutorial/homemade dinner approach if I want to turn it up a notch or whenever I am feeling a little saucy
. The main goal is to keep it simple 30-45 minutes and there a couple reasons for this like having less time to mess up and keeping yourself mysterious or busy (even though I know most of you guys will be on NT right after asking damb relationship questions
). Always remember you don't have to spend a ton to have a great time, just be yourself, scratch that don't be the thirsty guys for 30-45 minutes and let her do the talking and interject once in while to know you are paying attention (remember pay attention guys, don't picture her naked or anything like that
, if you are that thirsty drink a coke before hand, nom sayin'
. If she is a cool chick and she is having a good time, it doesn't matter you spent $10-20 on a date. Just have that confidence to be successful fambs
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