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Yea but it's not all black women...Originally Posted by ROME357
No disrespect to you HarlemKickDiva, but don't act like it's just the hoodrats with that kind of thinking.
Originally Posted by daemacho
Originally Posted by Dakingii
No offense to my sisters but black chicks bring too much drama.
White women only want the men for they money so they know their place.
This reminds of that part in He Got Game
"Yo, I was keeping beautiful, fine dark sisters. Nubian sisters. Africa. The whole nine. I'm telling you, man.
White Girls They love some ball-playing brothers, man.
- Let you get your swerve on, man. - I hear all that, but--
- What about the sisters? - What about them?
I love them, but they make you work too hard, man.
Them white girls over there, man, they do your dirty drawers.
Wash 'em. Cook for you.
- Give you money, man. - Nuh-uh!
- Let you drive the Benz their daddy bought. - Oh, hell, no!
- They go the extra mile, man. - You lying.
- You see Molly over there, man?
You can call her up at : 3 in the morning, man.
"girl, get over here. Let me spank you."
Man, before you hang the phone up, she beating on the door."
Okay I'll give you that HKD... But I will say this. Im going to speak from the perspective of a 20 year old black man who is paying his ownway through college, working, and at the moment, still living at home with his father. I would consider myself a pretty mature individual, and I know what Iwant in a woman. Mind you, I don't find 95% of white woman attractive so I have never dated outside of my race. With that said, I don't have an issuewith you telling guys to hold themselves accountable when it comes to dating girls instead of women.Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva
Let's me say this
BLACK WOMAN DOES NOT EQUAL HOOD RAT!!!!
And those were straight hood rat complaints. Hold yourselves accountable by asking what kind of women you are going after and where you are finding these girls....
No, I know...I was making it a point to say I know who he is because I'm sure most of you're fellow NT'ers either went "who"or was like "yea that guy"....Originally Posted by eNPHAN
real talk, that was a good reply...lol, I don't agree, but at the same time...good reply..
lol@k's scene being nyc...smh.
hkd, I didn't mean I like cornell west, I just mean, intellectual...cornell west as a metaphor for "an above average thinker"
I get what k's saying, but then again, I haven't been single for 3 years...so LOL@ALL OF YOU
(hey, as the guy who's practically married, I don't get to laugh at you singles very often...but now is definitely a time where I can LOL)
thank you.
Originally Posted by ROME357
Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva
Please enlighten me on the standards you all speak of....i really wanna see how outrageous they are...seeing as how only black women have themOriginally Posted by ROME357
OFT
Don't get me wrong, I love black women, and think y'all are the most beautiful of all god's creations. BUT, what was said about black women's standards being too high is very true. There's nothing else I would love to do than find my black queen and take care of her like a REAL man should, but I'm tired of the b.s. I'm not trying to wait forever to find a good black woman. If somone of a different race comes along; then I''m not fighting it just to wait for a good sista...
I'm not a thug, a rapper, or a million dollar athlete. I'm just an average black man with a pretty good career, who's looking to settle down with a good black woman. I guess that's just not good enough for black woman now days.
I actually find this hard to believe. You know what the deal is with dudes you're kicking it with. you have to know whether or not someone isin for the long haul. If you can't tell you need to work on that.Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva
No, I know...I was making it a point to say I know who he is because I'm sure most of you're fellow NT'ers either went "who" or was like "yea that guy"....Originally Posted by eNPHAN
real talk, that was a good reply...lol, I don't agree, but at the same time...good reply..
lol@k's scene being nyc...smh.
hkd, I didn't mean I like cornell west, I just mean, intellectual...cornell west as a metaphor for "an above average thinker"
I get what k's saying, but then again, I haven't been single for 3 years...so LOL@ALL OF YOU
(hey, as the guy who's practically married, I don't get to laugh at you singles very often...but now is definitely a time where I can LOL)
thank you.
And Rams I understand that completely and I'm sorry that has been your experience but it just pains me that some of you have given up on black women...
And the bulk of this isn't coming from men like you who clearly have a plan and want to get it together....its from guys who don't do s**t with their time and lives and are super lazy but have a problem when a woman demands more from them than having a penis.
My best friend who is alot like me, has given up on men period. Not just black but anyone because countless men only want to have a casual sex relationship and nothing more and alot of ppl in this thread would have no problem with that...but why is it like a hangnail if a female wants you to get to know her and vice versa before taking it that far? Thats a standard I hold myself to and my male friends have actually told me that me finding a guy that will be that patient is impossible and i should lower my standards.....yet i refuse
Originally Posted by philly5fan
White girls ftw!!
stopped messin with black chicks years ago
Originally Posted by Dakingii
No offense to my sisters but black chicks bring too much drama.
Originally Posted by Dakingii
but black chicks bring too much drama.
Originally Posted by Dakingii
black chicks bring too much drama.
Originally Posted by Dakingii
black chicks = drama.
Originally Posted by eNPHAN
....which is why I didn't go to an hbcu...
lol.
instead, I went to osu....huge....but about 2300 people big as far as black people are concerned...lol (really, smaller if you wanna get REAL technical)
mind you, I said I don't find white chicks attractive....
90 percent of the time the crowd just blended in, male and female....like when you're in the city...lol...but monochrome.....
lol
the hottest hbcu I saw was......tenn state.....dead %@#....27-1 ratio...and 90 percent were bad....lol, hs college trips ftw....(why so many lame rules tho?)
Originally Posted by Lrrr
Originally Posted by Dakingii
No offense to my sisters but black chicks bring too much drama.
Originally Posted by Dakingii
but black chicks bring too much drama.
Originally Posted by Dakingii
black chicks bring too much drama.
Originally Posted by Dakingii
black chicks = drama.
Which means a white girrrrrrlOriginally Posted by mytmouse76
maybe you should step outside your circles a lil bit...
exactlyOriginally Posted by raptors29
Usually it's because black dudes get tired of messing with black chicks because of the drama associated with a lot of them. Plus some black girls mess with strictly unsuccessful type dudes.
I love all types....but this is why I "stray".....the black chics thatseemingly have an issue with me dating other types are the ones that consistantly deal with low-life type dudes...go figure....plus to be honest, I grew uparound a majority of white women...and I apparently don't act "black", lolOriginally Posted by DA MATRIX 1
exactlyOriginally Posted by raptors29
Usually it's because black dudes get tired of messing with black chicks because of the drama associated with a lot of them. Plus some black girls mess with strictly unsuccessful type dudes.
exact same thing happened to me all throughout high school & still happens occasionally in college... people say because i talk properly, dontdress like too much of a hoodlum, dont say the "N word" overly much, that i act white...Originally Posted by TD The God
I love all types....but this is why I "stray".....the black chics that seemingly have an issue with me dating other types are the ones that consistantly deal with low-life type dudes...go figure....plus to be honest, I grew up around a majority of white women...and I apparently don't act "black", lolOriginally Posted by DA MATRIX 1
exactlyOriginally Posted by raptors29
Usually it's because black dudes get tired of messing with black chicks because of the drama associated with a lot of them. Plus some black girls mess with strictly unsuccessful type dudes.