real talk: why do black athletes go with white girls ??

[ao17]

Originally Posted by Je Ne Sais Quoi

What part of the "Moving On Up" song does she not get?

 

[philthyfill]

Originally Posted by Im Not You

Originally Posted by OGbobbyjohnson773

 

[youngcfromthad]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Not that I blame black men who blow up for holding a bit of resentment towards CERTAIN types of women....i just cant...because i can feel it in it's pre stages happening to me my damn self

"I hate all girls with ulterior motives, that's why I'm 20+ years old no sons no daughters"

but to go exclusively with white women is a cop out

lemme get a sweet, career oriented woman who can cook and I'm good

but to brothers who just say i wont talk to a black chick because of this and that...smh....my best friend is like that...he even told me back in high schoolthat black women have to much of a attitude...m like ehh whatever...but its just sad to me

 

[sidetrakkd]

Its not about the color at all people..

... Its about love..




I have been dating Amy for 3 years now and I love her so much... My mom doesn't even talk to me anymore because I am in love with a white girl..

...But as long as I'm happy thats all that matters.

...

 

[forgot about jae]

All you people mad at black dudes who date who they want to are the type who only make CERTAIN things a race issue when it comes to their benefit...most peoplein the real world [white especially] won't call you a racist for saying that...but if we switched the races around and said a white mother disowned her sonfor dating a black girl, yall would be the first to scream "THAT'S RACIST" at the top of your lungs...

 

[rome357]

Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae

Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae

Originally Posted by 59 Piffy

black men cant appreciate black women. they will throw out the "attitude" "drama" line when in reality they are weak and cant handle a strong woman.

Everytime this +@#% comes up, there's always somebody coming to quick conclusions and trying to emasculate the black man...which BTW was a tradition in slave owners' houses. Black men's power and masculinity is a threat to some...and they want to strip them of it in anyway possible. "What you have left is a big muscular body, with big big ol arms, big balls and big penis, and inside lies a tiny, tiny brain and a tiny, tiny man"

Funny how all the blame is placed on the men when nobody even mentions the kind of standards black women hold us up to and how our youth differs from other cultures when it comes to relationships. You can only look at "our" music, media, literature, and social norms to see how they differ from other groups and what kind of resentment could possibly arise from that.

I'll generalize just to keep it going : Black women hate black men because they can't be faithful to jumpoffs and don't treat them how beyonce says they should be treated. Black men hate black women because they won't STHU. Plus they tell them they have to work extra hard for a "diva", due to the fact that black women are "the type to get chose" and they get the most, not the lesser.

Of course, I am joking with that last paragraph, but there is a small ounce of truth in what I wrote....media creating biases and fantasies in our minds...and ultimately resentment towards one another. Look at white teens and what music "they" listen to...compare Taylor Swift VS Beyonce for their young girls...songs like "I needa Soulja" aren't found in white pop music. That doesn't mean they don't listen to"black music" though...[sorry for generalizing]

I mean I think it's funny how some of yall say us race-mixers act like we're "too good" for black girls and are on a high horse...when all our lives we've been told that "n_ ain't shhh" and some of us were raised by only a woman who might just have a grudge against men..where does that grudge get passed down to? BLACK MEN. Don't come out and say black men who date out of their race think they're better than black men..without making a notion of how black women think they're better than black men and how COMPETITIVE yall can be. I've yet to hear a "normal" white girl mention "hatin a_ !%$!" or things of that nature. It's got a whole hell of a lot to do with class though, cuz the suburban black folk I know don't care for gaudy things like rims and expensive [fake] gucci bandanas [AYYY]. It be the hood __ with the beat up v6 charger on some blades..who can NOT drive

and try their hardest to make their presence known on the road..like they're really

-ing on folk..same goes for the hoodrats. I see them with the OD hair extensions and accessories..on some "diva" +++$ in their facebook status

..And the nice normal black girls don't go hard like that at all...much more common sense.

Anyways..replace "black women" with "hoodrats" and there's alot more truth in this thread. Yall need to turn your back on them hoodrats and get you a normal black woman before you shun them away bo

IT TOOK ME FIVE GOTDAMN MINUTES TO WRITE THIS SHAWTY

bump

OFT

Don't get me wrong, I love black women, and think y'all are the most beautiful of all god's creations. BUT, what was said about black women'sstandards being too high is very true. There's nothing else I would love to do than find my black queen and take care of her like a REAL man should, butI'm tired of the b.s. I'm not trying to wait forever to find a good black woman. If somone of a different race comes along; then I''m notfighting it just to wait for a good sista...

 

[harlemkickdiva]

Originally Posted by ROME357


OFT

Don't get me wrong, I love black women, and think y'all are the most beautiful of all god's creations. BUT, what was said about black women's standards being too high is very true. There's nothing else I would love to do than find my black queen and take care of her like a REAL man should, but I'm tired of the b.s. I'm not trying to wait forever to find a good black woman. If somone of a different race comes along; then I''m not fighting it just to wait for a good sista...

Please enlighten me on the standards you all speak of....i really wanna see how outrageous they are...seeing as how only black women have them

 

[forgot about jae]

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by ROME357


OFT

Don't get me wrong, I love black women, and think y'all are the most beautiful of all god's creations. BUT, what was said about black women's standards being too high is very true. There's nothing else I would love to do than find my black queen and take care of her like a REAL man should, but I'm tired of the b.s. I'm not trying to wait forever to find a good black woman. If somone of a different race comes along; then I''m not fighting it just to wait for a good sista...

Please enlighten me on the standards you all speak of....i really wanna see how outrageous they are...seeing as how only black women have them

All at the same time

the braids

funny i searched for ^ and was recommended to search for chris brown.. hmm

The nice girls are starting to try this +@*% too ...

 

[rome357]

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by ROME357


OFT

Don't get me wrong, I love black women, and think y'all are the most beautiful of all god's creations. BUT, what was said about black women's standards being too high is very true. There's nothing else I would love to do than find my black queen and take care of her like a REAL man should, but I'm tired of the b.s. I'm not trying to wait forever to find a good black woman. If somone of a different race comes along; then I''m not fighting it just to wait for a good sista...

Please enlighten me on the standards you all speak of....i really wanna see how outrageous they are...seeing as how only black women have them

I'm not a thug, a rapper, or a million dollar athlete. I'm just an average black man with a pretty good career, who's looking to settle down witha good black woman. I guess that's just not good enough for black woman now days.

 

[charmcitykid]

Originally Posted by hawtsauce

social acceptance. why do u think tiger woods did it?? hmmm??

 

[lifelessons]

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

Generalizing the characteristics of a race is stupid.

The bad thing is... weak minded people of all races start to believe these generalizations, and they subconciously pre-judge other races without even realizing or experiencing it for themselves. Or if they have that one bad experience that fits a generalization they will be like... "I told you so"

People are people. There is nothing wrong with having a preference, but there is something wrong with not talking to a particular race just because of a stupid generalization society has set.

man in HS i had this white chick buying me food every day and i didnt do a damn thing for her....she bought me clothes and shoes....and every black dude that iknow who mess w/ white chicks be reaping the benefits

....hell my boy aint messed w/ this one like that in years but called her the other day and she gavehim like $300

 

[rome357]

Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by ROME357


OFT

Don't get me wrong, I love black women, and think y'all are the most beautiful of all god's creations. BUT, what was said about black women's standards being too high is very true. There's nothing else I would love to do than find my black queen and take care of her like a REAL man should, but I'm tired of the b.s. I'm not trying to wait forever to find a good black woman. If somone of a different race comes along; then I''m not fighting it just to wait for a good sista...

Please enlighten me on the standards you all speak of....i really wanna see how outrageous they are...seeing as how only black women have them

All at the same time

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the braids

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funny i searched for ^ and was recommended to search for chris brown.. hmm

The nice girls are starting to try this +@*% too ...

Couldn't have put it any better.

 

[forgot about jae]

i'm gonna make a HUGE reach and generalization by saying this. BUT I think black women's exaggerated view of the perfect man comes from the fact that:
-A: black people have a much higher chance of not having a father present which leads to:
-B: lack of a father/real male image means they have no real men to base their view of a man on
-C: their view of man place goes from being a real man they've seen in their life to a man they've seen on TV/radio. and Since:
-D: whenever a child's parents are not with them, that space is filled by the people they're surrounded by. Girls who act wild on Maury yet have calm,nice parents act that way because they're influenced by their hoodrat friends more than their parents. In the same sense that a child who receives theirviews on love and society from the media instead of their parents will have a reflection of what they've been seeing all their life. That is, asensationalized overblown unrealistic view on the world.
-E: If I recall correctly, black children watch alot more TV than other groups in America...and when coupled with A...that can produce heavy burdens on achild's expectations in life.

Now that ^ applies most certainly to both sexes, and all races. You got more than enough hispanic/white/asian kids running around in that ^ same situation..nomanners, no social education except for what they've learned from their school environment and their neighborhood. But since we're talking about onlyblack folk, you can see why some bum sloppy type black men [TNS] say they want halle barry with a larger butt...and why some Rasputia looking black birdsexpect Plies to show up in their panty drawer yellin out "WAZZAAAAMMM BEHBEHHHH"

If we put songs into this I have a catalog of misogynistic examples of what ya'll supposedly want in a woman...
And I'll CERTAINLY agree with that. That is at the very root of the problem in our culture...Glorification of a sexually irresponsibleunrealistic form of woman leads men to want their girls just like that, which ultimately makes alot of girls themselves aspire to be bustitbabies andbustdowns...because they get the most attention.

 

[harlemkickdiva]

Originally Posted by ROME357

Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by ROME357


OFT

Don't get me wrong, I love black women, and think y'all are the most beautiful of all god's creations. BUT, what was said about black women's standards being too high is very true. There's nothing else I would love to do than find my black queen and take care of her like a REAL man should, but I'm tired of the b.s. I'm not trying to wait forever to find a good black woman. If somone of a different race comes along; then I''m not fighting it just to wait for a good sista...

Please enlighten me on the standards you all speak of....i really wanna see how outrageous they are...seeing as how only black women have them

All at the same time

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the braids

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http://www.celebrityheights.net/p/plies/image.jpg src="http://www.celebrityheights.net/p/plies/image.jpg">

funny i searched for ^ and was recommended to search for chris brown.. hmm

The nice girls are starting to try this +@*% too ...

Couldn't have put it any better.

Nope. No songs...I don't care what Beyonce decided she would marry. I want know what you've actually (mature and real answers only plz)heard from a female's mouth as far as standards that she has said to you

If we put songs into this I have a catalog of misogynistic examples of what ya'll supposedly want in a woman...

EDIT: Gucci Mane is the biggest c

n of the century and I for one could never want to man like that....

 

[rome357]

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by ROME357

Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

Originally Posted by ROME357


OFT

Don't get me wrong, I love black women, and think y'all are the most beautiful of all god's creations. BUT, what was said about black women's standards being too high is very true. There's nothing else I would love to do than find my black queen and take care of her like a REAL man should, but I'm tired of the b.s. I'm not trying to wait forever to find a good black woman. If somone of a different race comes along; then I''m not fighting it just to wait for a good sista...

Please enlighten me on the standards you all speak of....i really wanna see how outrageous they are...seeing as how only black women have them

All at the same time

http://www.rankopedia.com/CandidatePix/13362.gif src="http://www.rankopedia.com/CandidatePix/13362.gif">

http://crackofdawn.files....m/2009/02/gucci_mane.jpg src="http://crackofdawn.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/gucci_mane.jpg" width=370>

http://blacknewsmagazine....2007/07/shemar-moore.jpg src="http://blacknewsmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2007/07/shemar-moore.jpg">
the braids

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http://www.celebrityheights.net/p/plies/image.jpg src="http://www.celebrityheights.net/p/plies/image.jpg">

funny i searched for ^ and was recommended to search for chris brown.. hmm

The nice girls are starting to try this +@*% too ...

Couldn't have put it any better.

Nope. No songs...I don't care what Beyonce decided she would marry. I want know what you've actually (mature and real answers only plz) heard from a female's mouth as far as standards that she has said to you

If we put songs into this I have a catalog of misogynistic examples of what ya'll supposedly want in a woman...

EDIT: Gucci Mane is the biggest c

n of the century and I for one could never want to man like that....

" you're to nice for me, but you'll make someone else happy."

"Why you driving that car? You should trade it in and get something else better."

"Yeah, my ex might have 12 kids with other women, beat me, and be a thug...but he put me on so much game, and he's shown me so much in thisworld."


Again, don't get me wrong. I love black women so much, but this is getting old...quick.

Not every one can be T.I. Allen Iverson, or Will Smith.

It just feels like y'all don't understand that.

I'm not saying that I don't like black women. It's just that I'm getting tired of waiting...

 

[blackmagnus514]

I'm not a thug, a rapper, or a million dollar athlete. I'm just an average black man with a pretty good career, who's looking to settle down with a good black woman. I guess that's just not good enough for black woman now days.

I get frustrated to myself sometimes...I just want someone to recognize that I'm a regular guy (with a lotta potential I'm working on achieving).Someone who's like me. I'm not a thug and I'm not Cornell West...it's like us regular guys have no chance.

 

[38816]

it aint got nothing to do with that...

being a double minority, black women have a general toughness about them that I haven't really gathered from any other race of girls...

toughness in a general sense, which can come off as any of the many generalizations that have been made in this post...

preference is preference, but at the end of the day, there ARE cultural differences at play here...

which, more often than not, align themselves on opposite sides of the two races in question...

me, personally, I've never really found white women all that attractive....

but somehow, I can still understand the "submissive" stereotype of "trophy" wives in general, although I don't really think its merecoincidence that a heavy majority of them are white....

 

[harlemkickdiva]

Originally Posted by ROME357

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

ROME357 wrote
Couldn't have put it any better.

Nope. No songs...I don't care what Beyonce decided she would marry. I want know what you've actually (mature and real answers only plz) heard from a female's mouth as far as standards that she has said to you

If we put songs into this I have a catalog of misogynistic examples of what ya'll supposedly want in a woman...

EDIT: Gucci Mane is the biggest c

n of the century and I for one could never want to man like that....

" you're to nice for me, but you'll make someone else happy."

"Why you driving that car? You should trade it in and get something else better."

"Yeah, my ex might have 12 kids with other women, beat me, and be a thug...but he put me on so much game, and he's shown me so much in this world."


Let's me say this

BLACK WOMAN DOES NOT EQUAL HOOD RAT!!!!

And those were straight hood rat complaints. Hold yourselves accountable by asking what kind of women you are going after and where you are finding thesegirls....

And Forgot About Jae: If that was a complaint about skinny jeans, im guilty of that 1

. Has nothing to do with race though....I just can't take a straight manwho wears tighter pants than me seriously

 

[forgot about jae]

"I love my d-boy"


"why you wear them white boy jeans?"


"why you drive a white people car?"

!!!! I drive a saab.


"you should get my name on your neck" im nontatted keep in mind...

"why you wanna talk about obama? "

"YOUR FRIEND A PROMOTER ? WUSS HIS NAME!!?? "

"you dated a white girl?

" that was a nice girl who said that to me BTW. She soundeddepresse the rest of the conversation

 

[rome357]

No disrespect to you HarlemKickDiva, but don't act like it's just the hoodrats with that kind of thinking.

 

[forgot about jae]

HKD ...they were straight legs

. I was pisssssssed. And yea I own skinnys, but I buy them bigger so I can still move and have that tapered feel.

 

[38816]

man, I typed that response so long ago, its late, sk ftl.

I don't know bout you, k, but I'm definitely cornell west in my own mind...

(if you mean inelligence)

and props to harlemkickdiva,

I've been calling that gucci/jeezy/the-rest-of-those-garbage-rappers-that-especially-appeal-to-suburban-white-america-for-some-reason type nonsense ****ingfor years...

we already know what I think of your boy tyler perry......

(high guy sidetrack....over.)

 

[daytona 5000]

Tight jeans accentuate my blackness
ifyaknowwutimsayin

 

[DVMNXK]

Originally Posted by Je Ne Sais Quoi

What part of the "Moving On Up" song does she not get?

I lol'd.

Bravo sir....bravo.

 

[rockinjs]

They do more than the other chicks