NTrs with good girls but cheat........come in

[rocman23]

For those men who cheat, maybe monogamy isn't just for you. Don't get into a commitment with a girl who wants to be exclusive and monogamous. Then maybe you should get with a girl who knows what you do and is ok with it or just try polyandry or an open relationship.

I don't understand betrayal, dishonesty disloyalty and disrespect. Thisgoes for friendships and intimate relationships.

I want to go on public record and say that i would never cheat on you. NEVER

 

[blacksheep]

I'm just a playhead.

The thrill of the pursuit for new yambs is only matched by gettin money.

I was with BM for 7 years.

Maybe she wasn't enough like I thought.

Maybe I just haven't meet the woman to make me go all in.

Don't even know really.

This......

 

[georgescorewell]

This thread made me go and check up on infidelity statistics in the US. 

Here are a few points on infidelity, and I guess you can add your regular relationship to this as well. Of course this doesn't apply to everyone, but these are just points to consider. 

• It is estimated that roughly 30 to 60% of all married individuals (in the United States) will engage in infidelity at some point during their marriage (see, Buss and Shackelford for review of this research).  And these numbers are probably on the conservative side, when you consider that close to half of all marriages end in divorce (people are more likely to stray as relationships fall apart; also see, who is likely to cheat).
• Research consistently shows that 2 to 3% of all children are the product of infidelity (see, Anderson).  And most of these children are unknowingly raised by men who are not their biological fathers.  DNA testing is finally making it easy for people to check the paternity of their children (see, paternity issues).
• Infidelity is becoming more common among people under 30.  Many experts believe this increase in cheating is due to greater opportunity (time spent away from a spouse) and young people developing the habit of having multiple sexual partners before they get married (see, young and restless  - Wall Street Journal).
• There are no definitive "signs of cheating." But, in hindsight you will always find them (see, signs of infidelity).
• Some cultures have adopted extreme measures to combat infidelity: female circumcision, allowing only limited contact between the sexes, and death as a punishment.  While many other cultures view infidelity as more of a nuance, not a serious marital problem.
• Men are more likely to cheat than women.  But, as women become more financially independent, women are starting to act more like men with respect to infidelity (also see, cheating wife, cheating husband, why men cheat, and why women cheat).
• In many cases, infidelity never gets discovered (see, cheating spouse quiz).
• Emotionally, it is possible to have feelings for more than one person at a time.  Pragmatically, loving more than one person is difficult to do (see, polyamory  - Truth, Lies, and Romance Blog).
• As more and more women enter the work force, "office romances" are becoming more common.  Spouses often spend more time with coworkers than with each other.
• The internet, e-mail, and chat rooms are making it easier for people to engage in infidelity (see, online cheating).
• The initial decision to be unfaithful is rarely ever a rational choice; instead infidelity is usually driven by circumstances and one’s emotions.  In fact, most people are surprised by their own behavior at the start of an affair (see, decision to cheat).
• Emotional infidelity, compared to just physical infidelity, can inflict as much, if not more, hurt, pain and suffering.  And to make matters worse, most infidelity involves both physical and emotional betrayal (see, what counts as cheating).
• Unfortunately, many people find a more suitable mate (someone they love more than their spouse) after they are already married.
• Biological evidence (i.e., research on biology and reproduction) indicates that long-term monogamy is difficult for humans to achieve - NOT impossible, but difficult (see, Barash and Lipton or the myth of monogamy  - Salon.com).
• Almost everyone admits to having fantasies that involve someone other than a spouse (see our indecent thoughts survey).
• Jealousy is such a fundamental, universal emotion because infidelity has been a part of our human nature for a very long time. 

http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/cheating-and-infidelity/stats-about-infidelity.html

There's so much out here for a single man...

Dudes who play the game while married, or while in a committed relationship are asking for a world of trouble. I like being drama free. 

 

[jking0821]

I just used to laugh when people would cape for chicks and condemn cheaters of all kind.

I'd ask "if your girl who you love said you can cheat on her as long as you use protection and have no emotional ties and she will never cheat on you, would you?" and people then are like well...i mean...maybe once...or...no...unless i could smash Draya....wait that would never happen that stupid a girl wouldn't do that or say that...that not possible

Like do you really hate cheating that much? Or are you just against it because girls are against it and its not "ok" according to society?

 

[T Lo Sweater]

Because you appreciate your girl more

 

[fontaine]

So that's why you cheat? Because she gets offered more D than you get offered P?

I just said maybe I misinterpreted you, famb.

 

[sharpshooter718]

Boredom. Entertainment. Something new. If the sidechick knows and won't snitch then why not. To show these females you stil got it. The thrill of it. The same P gets old after a while. *

* Disclousure: I DO NOT CHEAT, NOR AM I SAYING THAT I AM CHEATING, HAVE CHEATED, OR WILL CHEAT. NOR AM I SAYING THESE ARE REASONS TO CHEAT. I DO NOT CONDOME CHEATING.

These females tricky b ..

 

[jape]

New P, man.

this. its really that simple. i dont cheat but tell me this isn't one of the most exciting things in life

 

[amarano]

New P, man.

 
this. its really that simple. i dont cheat but tell me this isn't one of the most exciting things in life

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[Coromanti]

 

I look at how my pops did my moms dirty. Big reason I don't condone that ****.

Peoples lives get ripped up when one or both parents cheat and that your response?

 

[gold slugs]

Peoples lives get ripped up when one or both parents cheat and that your response?

Pull ya skirt down b.

 

[penny1folarin]

in for that one nter who left their profile open in subscriptions around da misses n she find this 

 

[kingkoopa]

Let me clear something up for the people who choose to stand on their soap box and look down on those who choose to point their nose up.

99% of us who have cheated don't get in relationships to cheat.

Its not like I wife just to say i'm a cheater.

I've never been faithful but I'm 29 with 3 girlfriends lifetime.

Each time I go in committed.

I don't actually plan on cheating but it's just something in meto slay randoms.

I've been single for about 3 years now btw

 

[kellyrep]

Maybe women don't cheat as much as men but I can guarantee it's bound to be more emotional  which makes it more dangerous.

Men will cheat with randoms more often.  That girl at the party he'll never see again. Women will cheat with men they know and see often.   A coworker, friend, etc. Men may not have any emotional ties to the person they randomly sleep with. More often then men, feelings will be involved for the women.

 

[tbreeze]

I haven't cheated since high school and that was for a number of different reasons. One was just being a young buck with raging hormones, seen my opportunity and just rode with it. She kept things low key, the girl I was with was dogging me herself, so I just kept that going. Another time, I was out her getting taken advantage of by some older shorty. I was a younging, just bike riding throughout the city and **** and would frequent an old homegirls block from grade school. She'd take me behind cribs and dome me up, no questions asked. After the first time it just became learned behavior; ride bike, catch top. Last was some weird ****, my homegirl told me that my current girl was talking to other ****** behind my back. Whatever insecurity crept in, my homegirl lived around the way so I'd just head over to her crib and kick it, eat pizza watch movies and ****. Eventually shorty grew comfy with me being around. One day she would hope out the shower and roll up on me in a towel, that lead to another and it was a summer of bliss after that..

I didn't go searching for side ho's , just happened to fall into cheating situations by being friends and becoming to comfortable around females..

I'm graduating college next semester, been with my current girl for two years. Trying hardest to put myself in those situations anymore. Either way though, I wish I never cheated. That **** ***** you up mentally. Trust issues

 

[anomolie]

We be so quick to call women ****. Some of us guys ain't sh*t either.

 

[gwap]

We be so quick to call women ****. Some of us guys ain't sh*t either.

 

[gwap]

For those men who cheat, maybe monogamy isn't just for you. Don't get into a commitment with a girl who wants to be exclusive and monogamous. 

this^

real playas don't have to lie...

 

[ogmcmxcii]

Not everybody moves off their basic animal instinct.

Countless times ***** has fallen in my lap and I could have ****** every ***** bald but turned them down females nowadays trying to take my soul....sadly I don't know if I can be loyal to anyone myself when ya boy has gotten ****** off countless times. Honest truth part of me wants to creep around and enjoy free agency for a while...Idk but I **** with this thread for real

 

[dipsetgeneral]

People cheat only cause they feel they can get away with it.

 

[cerebralarrow]

^ homie how can you be with a girl that you don't love like that?


I've had two girlfriends my whole life and I'm 30. Don't have time to invest in someone I don't have a burning love for.

[emoji]11013[/emoji] You make a valid point bro.

 

[ogmcmxcii]

[emoji]11013[/emoji] You make a valid point bro.

I'm 23 and my mindset is like just that not wanting to wasting time with pointless females. Just Want To Build With Someone but ppl my age just wanna **** around and be reckless so rather be single. Never had a gf ever [emoji]128532[/emoji][emoji]128532[/emoji][emoji]128532[/emoji] but when the time comes

 

[ctidda]

I've never cheated on a woman I was exclusive with.

Im single now and I'm loving but the amount of cheating going on around me is kinda bumming me out.

 

[mr jordan04]

There's no ***** like new *****

 

[cerebralarrow]

We need the chastity belt and mask now. Lol I kid I kid.