NTrs with good girls but cheat........come in

[georgescorewell]

No better feeling. Bruh, before i met my wife...I literally cheated on EVERY SINGLE girlfroend I ever had. Never faithful. Took meeting the right one for me to shutdown the extracurricular.

And it was only fitting that my wife was a pure virgin, and she settled down with a scumbag like me who lost count of sex partners in my,early 20s.

Not to put on my uncle Denzel blutooth earpiece, but I swear it's so funny watching younger folks talk about how they're never gonna get married. Bammas have NO IDEA that a wife and kids are just a few years away lol.

 

[esydc]

New P, man.

 

[360waves]

I've never cheated on my exes. Did i want to? yes but i didn't act on it. I guess you'll never meet a woman that suppresses your instinct for other women.
I hope I can meet a woman that has never cheated

 

[jking0821]

Monogamy is not a human instinct its a societal norm

 

[360waves]

Monogamy is not a human instinct its a societal norm

What are your thoughts on polygamy?

 

[georgescorewell]

Monogamy is not a human instinct its a societal norm

This.

 

[jking0821]

Monogamy is not a human instinct its a societal norm

What are your thoughts on polygamy?

Polygamy is committing to multiple women I honestly don't think it is any better or worse then regular marriage. This isn't correlated to cheating to me because all parties are in agreement

It's simple nature on why some men cheat. You can only hold the cupcakes in front of the Australian Sheppard so long before he gives in. The length of time and discipline differs from person to person

 

[PRIME]

Cheating, and moving on from it and learning from it is one thing. We're all men, human, we make mistakes.


But cheating, cosigning it, and flourishing from it, is lame as hell. It ain't alpha at all either.


If you want to smash multiple chicks, stay single. Don't get wifed up and cheat cause you know you got something to fall back on.

 

[Fong$tarr]

I don't anymore, but I'm a nympho scumbag that liked nasty sluts. My chick is a good girl, I wanted that nasty skank, doe. 

I wish my girl could read this. I always tell her that guys and girls are different (well most of them). Guys don't care if a girl works at McDonalds if it means that she's hot or what not. Now I am not talking about wifing a girl up but girls have that standard sometimes where they would only sleep with people that are somewhat established. Guys are dogs. They could have the best thing ever and want to mess with a chick that is the total opposite. Look at Tiger Woods for christ sake.

 

[fontaine]

You act like females are sex toys.

If you want to keep a man, never say no to sexual request, and cook.

That's all I want but I really can't find one Im attracted to enough to wife.

I don't agree with this...

I think never giving up the yambs is am extreme... But never making me work a little is a bit extreme too...


Just make me appreciate it as a commodity... Make me work A LITTLE... Not too much, though.

 

[hennessy]

Not married so what's the big deal?

 

[KingdomFlatbush]

Ima keep it funky. I cheat cuz i aint ****. Im afraid of commitment.

I live for the right now. Thats a terrible mindset to have but i cant shake it. I have trouble even considering how my gf would feel if she knew what i was doing. The worst part is ill freely admit to cheating then act like SHE tripping for getting mad.

I'd rather read something like this than "These females too tricky out here. That's why I fingerpop random jumpoffs in their booties when my girl's at home. Because these **** ain't loyal"

 

[harlemtothebronx]

Y'all crazy as hell on this public *** forum.

 

[gentrification]

I wish my girl could read this. I always tell her that guys and girls are different (well most of them). Guys don't care if a girl works at McDonalds if it means that she's hot or what not. Now I am not talking about wifing a girl up but girls have that standard sometimes where they would only sleep with people that are somewhat established. Guys are dogs. They could have the best thing ever and want to mess with a chick that is the total opposite. Look at Tiger Woods for christ sake.

You already know the deal. Some women might understand this but for the most part. They don't. I see a big booty I'm trying to get in whether she's a barista or pediatrician. 

 

[me love nutella]

For those men who cheat, maybe monogamy isn't just for you. Don't get into a commitment with a girl who wants to be exclusive and monogamous. Then maybe you should get with a girl who knows what you do and is ok with it or just try polyandry or an open relationship.

I don't understand betrayal, dishonesty disloyalty and disrespect. Thisgoes for friendships and intimate relationships.

 

[me love nutella]

You already know the deal. Some women might understand this but for the most part. They don't. I see a big booty I'm trying to get in whether she's a barista or pediatrician. 

Oh yes, the we are men and programmed this way and are dogs excuse. Cop out. Complete bull. More like these men have no consideration for feelings, are disrespectful, extremely immature when it comes to relationships and extremely selfish. You're no different than the man who is faithful. You make the choice to cheat and not be faithful and commit. You can't commit but she wants to be exclusive? Then that relationship is not for you. Get out.

 

[gentrification]

Oh yes, the we are men and programmed this way and are dogs excuse. Cop out. Complete bull. More like these men have no consideration for feelings, are disrespectful, extremely immature when it comes to relationships and extremely selfish. You're no different than the man who is faithful. You make the choice to cheat and not be faithful and commit. You can't commit but she wants to be exclusive? Then that relationship is not for you. Get out.

Absolutely, hence the change for now. No telling what my **** might say in a few months. Or what I might justify doing to a "new" freak. 

 

[me love nutella]

Cheating, and moving on from it and learning from it is one thing. We're all men, human, we make mistakes.


But cheating, cosigning it, and flourishing from it, is lame as hell. It ain't alpha at all either.


If you want to smash multiple chicks, stay single. Don't get wifed up and cheat cause you know you got something to fall back on.

Preach.

It's cowardly.

Especially when she forgives and you keep doing it. If she keeps taking you back though,it's also on her at this point. You need to know your self worth. You deserve what you settle for. He will not change if he is a repeat offender.

 

[gentrification]

Also, I'm not speaking for a whole gender. I'm only speaking on my own vices and behaviors. 

 

[jking0821]

For those men who cheat, maybe monogamy isn't just for you. Don't get into a commitment with a girl who wants to be exclusive and monogamous. Then maybe you should get with a girl who knows what you do and is ok with it or just try polyandry or an open relationship.

I don't understand betrayal, dishonesty disloyalty and disrespect. Thisgoes for friendships and intimate relationships.

This doesn't exist. I hate when people say oh just get with a girl that is ok with it....ok you have now narrowed your options down from every single girl on the market...to like 3 strippers a porn star and you friends creepy aunt.


You have to understand there is an emotional bond humans form and a physical one. Men are indeed wired different than women. Testosterone and Estrogen effect people differently.
A good looking man that has the P thrown at them at times knows what that instinct is. Its not an emotional connection. I have never cheated on a Girl but i have been single for 5 years to a point where i played a lot of girls out and probably got with too many (yes i know humble brangington) but i can now differentiate the feeling of a bond, and lust. But people who condemn every man that has cheated has never had tons of options. Its coming from a place of not knowing. I just ask to embrace the thought that everyone that cheats is not a heartless piece of trash. Some are, some are not.

 

[datznasty]

Women have D thrown at them just like men have P thrown at them anyways, so what's the difference? Nobody seems to be s approving of women cheating and keeping their options open and having backups, side pieces, lineups, and whatever other euphemisms you all like to use to describe your infidelity

 

[KingdomFlatbush]

If you cheat because you're just about that life no dambs given, more power to you

If you philosophize cheating, claim that you do it to create a safety net, blame it on biology, or say you somehow do it because you can't trust females, HOLD THIS L

 

[fontaine]

Women have testosterone too just as men also have estrogen, and in fact the % of which in relation to testosterone increases as we age. Please don't try to blaim infidelity on your faulty understanding of hormones. Women have D thrown at them just like men have P thrown at them anyways, so what's the difference?

The sheer amount...

Outside of exteme cases, like wealth and abnormally good looks, women will always get offered more D... Than men getting offered yambs.

You know that, so maybe I'm misinterpreting what you're saying.

 

[datznasty]

So that's why you cheat? Because she gets offered more D than you get offered P?

 

[jking0821]

Women have testosterone too just as men also have estrogen, and in fact the % of which in relation to testosterone increases as we age. Please don't try to blaim infidelity on your faulty understanding of hormones. Women have D thrown at them just like men have P thrown at them anyways, so what's the difference?

The levels are the difference. I did not say one has one one has the other. I understand we both have them men "typically" have more testosterone than women and women "typically" have more estrogen than men.

So without getting into a scientific debate on how testosterone effects you and when it drops off.....

This was leading to the point that we are different genetically. I wasn't even going to mention the social norms of men being Alpha and Hunters and Get *******. So all of that aside. There is human male instinct for a lot of men that is just that, an instinct. Women (again in general there are always differences) don't have that same instinct as strongly. Now us being humans we can choose to act on that or not. Some men act on it all the time. Some don't. This can happen for a plethora of reasons.

Lets correlate it to no fap challenges. In a no-busting scenario. Most men can't go without getting their rocks off for a full month (using the NT no fap challenge as an example). Its instinctual for us to crave that feeling. So the same instinct is (sort of) at play with these scenarios. If you didn't have a computer and could never see pr0n it might be easeir for you to obstain. But when you have the mac book hooked up to your 4k 60in HD tv and Alexis Texas' greatest hits is on in front of you every day....its a little different.

Now you can cheat or choose not to. I am not defending it like all men should just cheat. I just think you have to realize its a different playing field for some people and i can see how some people give in.