NTrs with good girls but cheat........come in

[kingkoopa]

Hey.


Can someone explain to me how you can get bored IN a relationship to cheat? Speaking as someone who has been single most of the time?

You ALWAYS have someone to talk to, go out with, etc...

It's not like you can't get IT , you have a girl every time you get the urge. How do you get bored?

You act like females are sex toys.

Just because im up dont mean she is.

You think the generic sitcom jokes about not getting laid after marriage just came our of no where?

If you want to keep a man, never say no to sexual request, and cook.

That's all I want but I really can't find one Im attracted to enough to wife.

 

[that dude173]

So would you consider it cheating if you have someone on the side that you chill with but there's no physical contact, but you don't tell your girl

If you have to hide it from your girl then it's emotional cheating, which most women would be more hurt about that than physical cheating

 

[keel252]

If you want to keep a man, never say no to sexual request, and cook.

and clean...cant forget that, thats major.

 

[NewWave90]

If you have to hide it from your girl then it's emotional cheating, which most women would be more hurt about that than physical cheating

But what makes it weird is that if it was a guy you talked to but didn't tell your girl what's the difference

 

[agentorange]

But what makes it weird is that if it was a guy you talked to but didn't tell your girl what's the difference

?? Just put yourself in those shoes and you answer your question.

 

[flyny]

And did dude just say he tounge kisses strippers, on the clock?

Only in the VIP, baby pa

 

[36 ounces]

I look at how my pops did my moms dirty. Big reason I don't condone that ****.

#truelife

 

[KingdomFlatbush]

We got some Patrice O'Neals on Nt I see

Ole "Cheating is for them" *** ******

 

[bendover]

NEVA had a good girl before.
It's like trouble likes to follow me.

 

[Bert.]

cant get down with cheating, its disturbing to me.

 

[redd spyder]

the one time I did it was because i was going through a patch where my ex was doing things that inadvertently emasculated me as a man. I was lowkey losing my mind & venting to other female friends. It wasn't even a conscious effort to cheat though & for me that was the scariest thing about it.

 

[thehavik]

Ima keep it funky. I cheat cuz i aint ****. Im afraid of commitment.

I live for the right now. Thats a terrible mindset to have but i cant shake it. I have trouble even considering how my gf would feel if she knew what i was doing. The worst part is ill freely admit to cheating then act like SHE tripping for getting mad.

 

[$tacy]

^ simple as that I ain't ****. I was a yambaholic before her so my whole life that's all I know. I lost my v card at 12 and have somewhere around 40 ish 50 wish bodies. Saying that to say from a young age til 21 when we met, all me and my dudes did was hoop and look for *****. I don't get to hoop much but ***** sometimes just comes to u. In your head u know its wrong but that thrill u get is like a high. Sometimes I don't even set out to smash, I just get the nudes or them to tell me they want me to smash and I'm out. Like dude said its only matched to making money.

 

[t11time]

I'm gonna chill. Old girl been hawkin my whole social media presence. smh

 

[nyc757]

Ima keep it funky. I cheat cuz i aint ****. Im afraid of commitment.

I live for the right now. Thats a terrible mindset to have but i cant shake it. I have trouble even considering how my gf would feel if she knew what i was doing. The worst part is ill freely admit to cheating then act like SHE tripping for getting mad.

This made me laugh 

 

[hoosierdaddy317]

****** in here saying they haven't cheated on their girl but when they do its tongue kissing strippers what in the entire hell.


For me honestly, it was the influence of my friends. Especially if you and your clique pull girls and have historically, girls are gonna be there whether it's at the pregame or at the bar/club that night.

I never try for yambs they always just somehow fall in my lap even when I've had faithful girls.

 

[gentrification]

I don't anymore, but I'm a nympho scumbag that liked nasty sluts. My chick is a good girl, I wanted that nasty skank, doe. 

 

[frankmatthews]

And did dude just say he tounge kisses strippers, on the clock?

Only in the VIP, baby pa

VIP is where you see what that mouth do. You're doing it all wrong tho. That wasn't Carmex fool, that was latex.

 

[dragon]

This makes zero sense and is something the average scorned bird would say.

Doin your girl dirty by linking up with another chick just to make yourself feel better about being with your girl? Ho'in yourself out just so you wont be crushed if a chick leaves you??

Sounds like you have some serious commitment issues you should resolve before bringing a new chick in to the fold.

i use to have the same mentality as most of the nt members in here. Cheating on your girl so that it doesnt sting as much when she breaks it off with you or to expand your portfolio is a sign of insecurity and weakness. IF you going to cheat don't be in a relationship. Breaking up sucks and is painful but you got to welcome good with the bad.

 

[Brownstone]

As I grow older, I tend to look at each situation as training for my eventual wife.....If you are cheating on women out of lust and capacity than are you really laying the groundwork for a healthy relationship with the woman you find that deserves your loyalty?

I have been a cheater in the past, and consider myself reformed. I recently went on vacation and had the chance to cheat on my current girl and I passed, Truth is I don't even love my girl like that, but I just don't want to carry bad habits into my late 20's. 

My reasoning for my past ways- or atleast how I justified it.....Was that I cared  about all women and treated them all with respect and dignity- even if I wasn't always forthright with them. My younger years consisted of sports teammates who would **** women out AND make them feel terrible about it just because they were insecure with themselves. I was always real with the women I talked to and told them straight up how many girls I was talking to. It was still a cop out, and while I am not ashamed of my past, I'm not proud of it either. 

 

[keel252]

^ homie how can you be with a girl that you don't love like that?


I've had two girlfriends my whole life and I'm 30. Don't have time to invest in someone I don't have a burning love for.

 

[gold slugs]

Who actualy gives into temptation? Im talmbout where you arent tryna cheat or look for new wet bread, but you in the wrong place at the right time. You say F it and let mami wit the long hair and *** like a donkey have it? Or you start squirmin around like a gay dude who ate a spoon full of crushed warheads and say nah mami i cant do it

 

[wayniac211]

Be careful on what u think you know. These females out here doing dos muchos as well.
With that said, throw the bat phone away if you want to stop!

 

[youngcfromthad]

I look at how my pops did my moms dirty. Big reason I don't condone that ****.

True story. Plus the peace of mind that you have to be able to leave your phone around, have her mapquest directions, whatever the case may be is priceless. In college I was a different person, hiding the phone, making excuse but now being 30 and very serious; that peace of mind is something you can't get from a side chick. Yes as men we all want to know we still got it but imo the risk isn't worth the pwss at all.

 

[chewie]

True story. Plus the peace of mind that you have to be able to leave your phone around, have her mapquest directions, whatever the case may be is priceless.

No better feeling. Bruh, before i met my wife...I literally cheated on EVERY SINGLE girlfroend I ever had. Never faithful. Took meeting the right one for me to shutdown the extracurricular.

And it was only fitting that my wife was a pure virgin, and she settled down with a scumbag like me who lost count of sex partners in my,early 20s.

Not to put on my uncle Denzel blutooth earpiece, but I swear it's so funny watching younger folks talk about how they're never gonna get married. Bammas have NO IDEA that a wife and kids are just a few years away lol.