How Promiscuous can your future wife be? Vol. Marrying Jumpoffs

Vietnamese people have a saying. "It's better to marry a !$+#+ and have her become a wife then marry a wife and have her become a !$+#+."

What it means is it's better to have a chick be upfront in the beginning of a marriage about her past and accept that she use to be a !$+#+. Rather thanhave a female play the goody goody role, conceal her promiscuous side, and then become a !$+#+ after she's already married with kids.

I know the saying you can't turn a !$+#+ into a housewife, but I've seen it as well as you cats on this board that women have those stages in theirlife where they experiment and then settle down. I've seen real working escorts, and gambling female addicts that use to sell their body, but once they hadtheir kid, it really changed who they were, and the husbands accepts her and has all the power.

With this day of highly sexual energized women, I think you don't have to settle, but you have to work harder to find that "good one". Even then,you still might not end up with what you thought you wanted.
 
Originally Posted by malikdagoat

^ Son you wildin if you think females don't cover for their friends just as well as ya boys be covering for you.

Not everyone in the circle.
Just have to find the few that don't/won't. It's usually the ones that feel left out of the circle sometimes.
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If you can't you ain't looking hard enough or asking the right questions.
 
Every woman has a ho in her. Every single one. Whether or not, they use it is on them.

Me personally...

I think it is what it is...you send out what you give...Hos gonna be a ho...you can't even trust nothing...you got dudes getting killed in the sleep andshot twice in the head and $%@
 
didnt read throught most of the post, cuz i was ready to get to my comment on this simple topic....soooo....

everybody has a turning point in their life when they get away from one or a few of their vices.....so consider..(hers if your a guy..&..his if your agirl)..."sex"

as long as they..as a person..fits your taste and equal standards as a pair, and you all are at the same level of commitment and understanding...

then your straight...good money..
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as long as no STDs or harrasment from pre-jumpoffs lurking around present themselves frequently....
 
Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Every woman has a ho in her. Every single one. Whether or not, they use it is on them.

Me personally...

I think it is what it is...you send out what you give...Hos gonna be a ho...you can't even trust nothing...you got dudes getting killed in the sleep and shot twice in the head and $%@

Of course they do.

However, each chick expresses that "hoeness" differently.
Some do it by literally +$!*@#$ everyone while others are selective and are just freaky as ##%+ in bed.

The worst are the selective ones who ain't freaky at all. Lay there like a blow up doll making you feel like a rapist.
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All I have to say is don't be a hypocrite. Don't go and give a girl a hard time for sleeping with 10 dudes, when you've slept with 30 girls.It's a double standard.

You give a girl a hard time for getting gang banged, while you're the one gang banging her. What the hell?
 
Originally Posted by eaalto

All I have to say is don't be a hypocrite. Don't go and give a girl a hard time for sleeping with 10 dudes, when you've slept with 30 girls. It's a double standard.

You give a girl a hard time for getting gang banged, while you're the one gang banging her. What the hell?

+@!@ that.
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Double standards exist in this case and it's for a good reason.

Girls can be selective when it comes to sex. They're the powerful ones in that regard.
 
Originally Posted by wawaweewa

Originally Posted by eaalto

All I have to say is don't be a hypocrite. Don't go and give a girl a hard time for sleeping with 10 dudes, when you've slept with 30 girls. It's a double standard.

You give a girl a hard time for getting gang banged, while you're the one gang banging her. What the hell?

+@!@ that.
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Double standards exist in this case and it's for a good reason.

Girls can be selective when it comes to sex. They're the powerful ones in that regard.
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Originally Posted by wawaweewa

Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos

Originally Posted by wawaweewa

Originally Posted by malikdagoat


I swear some of ya'll on here must be 14.

As much as you wanna call erybody else a "simp", you'll never know how many people YOUR future wife has had sex with either. What makes some of ya'll think you so special that she's gonna tell YOU the truth unlike all these other bammas who get lied to. Point blank, get married to the person you love, because you're never gonna know how many people she really had sex with unless A.) she tells you or B.) You grew up with her.

With that said, I don't believe in marriage. 65% of black couples get divorced and not to mention my immediate family is 4/11 on marriage. Looks like Shaq's free throw percentage like +@%#. So I ain't even gonna bother.
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Why does everyone assume that you need the chick to tell you the truth?
If she's a ho you think others in her circle of friends/acquaintances don't know or that they'll (everyone) lie for her?
THIS.

One thing I learned in college; dudes can and do cover for their boys. Girls can't/don't want to.

Use it against them. They love to yap.

Also, there's that one friend amongst the chicks that's always kinda jealous and she will spill the beans no problem. Just show her some attention.
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She may exaggerate a bit but an accurate conclusion can be arrived at.


Im sorry but that is as much of a false statement as i have heard...
Unless you getting dirt from a girls mortal enemy (in which the info will be at least 70% inaccurate)
A Girl's friends WILL NOT THROW EACH OTHER UNDER THE BUS.
Listen and Learn fellas....

if you want to pull info on a girl's friend... you talk to the friends Boyfriend... get cool with the her friends boyfriends.
If your girl has been out with her friend, im sure they have double dated, they have more info about your girl.... (unless its a new guy or your girl'sfriends are single)
The guy will tell you, about the story... and 9 times out of 10 he will be straight up, cuz he has no reason to throw her under the bus...

I repeat (A Girl's friends WILL NOT THROW EACH OTHER UNDER THE BUS.)


anyway if u get to that point, you on stalker insecure status.
 
Originally Posted by Infyrno23

Originally Posted by wawaweewa

Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos

Originally Posted by wawaweewa

Originally Posted by malikdagoat


I swear some of ya'll on here must be 14.

As much as you wanna call erybody else a "simp", you'll never know how many people YOUR future wife has had sex with either. What makes some of ya'll think you so special that she's gonna tell YOU the truth unlike all these other bammas who get lied to. Point blank, get married to the person you love, because you're never gonna know how many people she really had sex with unless A.) she tells you or B.) You grew up with her.

With that said, I don't believe in marriage. 65% of black couples get divorced and not to mention my immediate family is 4/11 on marriage. Looks like Shaq's free throw percentage like +@%#. So I ain't even gonna bother.
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Why does everyone assume that you need the chick to tell you the truth?
If she's a ho you think others in her circle of friends/acquaintances don't know or that they'll (everyone) lie for her?
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One thing I learned in college; dudes can and do cover for their boys. Girls can't/don't want to.

Use it against them. They love to yap.

Also, there's that one friend amongst the chicks that's always kinda jealous and she will spill the beans no problem. Just show her some attention.
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She may exaggerate a bit but an accurate conclusion can be arrived at.


Im sorry but that is as much of a false statement as i have heard...
Unless you getting dirt from a girls mortal enemy (in which the info will be at least 70% inaccurate)
A Girl's friends WILL NOT THROW EACH OTHER UNDER THE BUS.
Listen and Learn fellas....

if you want to pull info on a girl's friend... you talk to the friends Boyfriend... get cool with the her friends boyfriends.
If your girl has been out with her friend, im sure they have double dated, they have more info about your girl.... (unless its a new guy or your girl's friends are single)
The guy will tell you, about the story... and 9 times out of 10 he will be straight up, cuz he has no reason to throw her under the bus...

I repeat (A Girl's friends WILL NOT THROW EACH OTHER UNDER THE BUS.)


anyway if u get to that point, you on stalker insecure status.

Girls have multiple friends and it's not about throwing each other under the bus.
Some just talk too much.

I agree with you though about the Dudes though. That's another way to go about it.


it is kind of stalker (
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) but it ain't about insecurity.
If a chick asked me (and some have), I tell them the truth. It's whatever. I have nothing to be ashamed off.

It's more a curiosity that anything. Dudes whoa re like, "I don't care. It's whatever" are lying.

btw, I try to find out what I want to find out before I start dating a chick.
I agree that6 after is a no no.
 
Originally Posted by GrimlocK

I'm already in a 3 year relationship with my girl and I don't take anything for granted. I make sure i'm on the top of my game as much as I can not only for her but for myself and my future so that if she does want to leave/cheat/something else the only place she has left to go is down.
QFT. Me and my girl will be 3 years in on Aug 30th.
 
I Dun Want A Promiscuous Main Squeeze At All....Like Everyone Having Sex Now I Can Come To Terms With That

But As Long As She Dun Pass Me The Clap Have An OD Number Of Bodies Or A Movie Online Im Cool
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Originally Posted by NY Denim Seller



I remember one day me and 3 other dudes did a g-bang on some random chick....she didn't even know me....and she gave me head and let me beat.......So like a couple months later I ran into her at the supermarket...and she told me she got married...and showed off the ring on her finger...
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...she got wifed up by some clueless dude...
Do you really think the girl told homeboy about that? No.

The same thing is going to happen to you and the rest of us guys.
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Originally Posted by Thousandaire

Some of you _s have NO idea about what you're talking about....Let's be realistic here
Everyone's situation is unique (somewhat).
There's diff types of chicks involved in diff cultures.

Some cultures #!!$ a lot more (are more sexual; it's accepted) than others. So some of you may be #%%% out of luck.
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Thing is, it also depends on your insecurity level. Ideally, all guys want a girl who aint been around the block, but it aint like that.

I stopped thinking about @%% like this becuase you learn how to spot a.real ho from a the conservative freak. Especially in clubs/lounges and such..

I don't even bother asking women that @%% no more. I got bigger @%% to worry about like making sure I don't get killed f'n with one of thesebroads. 9/10, They're gonna lie anyway, then you're mad you wifed a ho and one who lies in your face @ that.

Its one of those unspoken things. I don't advocate wifing a ho...but @ the same time, these broads out here are so messed up in the head from

-daddy issues
-self esteem issues
-all the bad dudes they let run through them
-attention $%%+# issues

That by the time you sit down and talk with them about it, you aint gonna wanto hear the truth.

At least dudes, we're pretty basic. We f--- and look @ it as a notch under our belts. Chicks wanna know if you love them and all that type of @%%.

It is what it is.
 
Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Thing is, it also depends on your insecurity level. Ideally, all guys want a girl who aint been around the block, but it aint like that.

I stopped thinking about @%% like this becuase you learn how to spot a.real ho from a the conservative freak. Especially in clubs/lounges and such..

I don't even bother asking women that @%% no more. I got bigger @%% to worry about like making sure I don't get killed f'n with one of these broads. 9/10, They're gonna lie anyway, then you're mad you wifed a ho and one who lies in your face @ that.

Its one of those unspoken things. I don't advocate wifing a ho...but @ the same time, these broads out here are so messed up in the head from

-daddy issues
-self esteem issues
-all the bad dudes they let run through them
-attention $%%+# issues

That by the time you sit down and talk with them about it, you aint gonna wanto hear the truth.

At least dudes, we're pretty basic. We f--- and look @ it as a notch under our belts. Chicks wanna know if you love them and all that type of @%%.

It is what it is.

+1

These threads need definitions though. I'm thinking that most everyone has a diff definition of a "ho". Some are more liberal then others.
 
Originally Posted by wawaweewa

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

Thing is, it also depends on your insecurity level. Ideally, all guys want a girl who aint been around the block, but it aint like that.

I stopped thinking about @%% like this becuase you learn how to spot a.real ho from a the conservative freak. Especially in clubs/lounges and such..

I don't even bother asking women that @%% no more. I got bigger @%% to worry about like making sure I don't get killed f'n with one of these broads. 9/10, They're gonna lie anyway, then you're mad you wifed a ho and one who lies in your face @ that.

Its one of those unspoken things. I don't advocate wifing a ho...but @ the same time, these broads out here are so messed up in the head from

-daddy issues
-self esteem issues
-all the bad dudes they let run through them
-attention $%%+# issues

That by the time you sit down and talk with them about it, you aint gonna wanto hear the truth.

At least dudes, we're pretty basic. We f--- and look @ it as a notch under our belts. Chicks wanna know if you love them and all that type of @%%.

It is what it is.

+1

These threads need definitions though. I'm thinking that most everyone has a diff definition of a "ho". Some are more liberal then others.


QFT.

Some chick at my job was talking bout "you ain't ho until you $%++ more dudes than are in your family. Then you just nasty."

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Wouldn't marry a woman who slept with more than 10 guys?

Good luck finding that buddy, and even if she says so, he lying to ya
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