- Sep 17, 2003
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It seems like some people think:
1) the OP is asking if there are people out there constantly embarrassed about their significant other or
2) if OP is asking if there are people out there who are embarrassed about certain things your significant other may do here and there along with some physical flaws.
If OP meant #1, I would say that is an unhealthy relationship if you're constantly embarrassed about your girlfriend as a whole. You shouldn't even be with them because having that embarrassing feeling whenever you're with them in public is overwhelming and ultimately makes you unhappy.
If OP meant #2, I could definitely side with that. I have a girlfriend of 7 years. She's a dance major at UMD, so she goes to class in tights, sweats, the works. As you can imagine, when I pick her up sometimes so we can grab lunch or go to the mall maybe, I'm not the proudest guy walking around with my lady dressed in bummy clothing while I'm cleanly dressed. This doesn't make me love her any less at all since I know what she's capable of in the dressing category and I didn't fall in love with her for those reasons anyway since they are materialistic. It still doesn't take away that I'm a wee bit embarrassed when we walk around together while she's dressed in her dance class clothes.
1) the OP is asking if there are people out there constantly embarrassed about their significant other or
2) if OP is asking if there are people out there who are embarrassed about certain things your significant other may do here and there along with some physical flaws.
If OP meant #1, I would say that is an unhealthy relationship if you're constantly embarrassed about your girlfriend as a whole. You shouldn't even be with them because having that embarrassing feeling whenever you're with them in public is overwhelming and ultimately makes you unhappy.
If OP meant #2, I could definitely side with that. I have a girlfriend of 7 years. She's a dance major at UMD, so she goes to class in tights, sweats, the works. As you can imagine, when I pick her up sometimes so we can grab lunch or go to the mall maybe, I'm not the proudest guy walking around with my lady dressed in bummy clothing while I'm cleanly dressed. This doesn't make me love her any less at all since I know what she's capable of in the dressing category and I didn't fall in love with her for those reasons anyway since they are materialistic. It still doesn't take away that I'm a wee bit embarrassed when we walk around together while she's dressed in her dance class clothes.
