How many of you are embarassed of your girlfriend?

[nikekidwonder]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Sorry, I can't agree with the idea that if someone makes you happy means you can't be embarassed by them. I really don't see the relation between the two. Because someone makes you happy means you like and appreciate EVERYTHING about them? Not seeing how you don't see that. If my girl ACTS like a jerk-off when she gets in public and I am not proud to be seen with her during those moments, does that mean she doesn't still make me happy? Because someone makes you happy doesn't imply they make you happy 100% of the time. You think about it.

No one is perfect though
Its one thing to be embarrassed of your girl when she acts like a jerk every now and then and when she has her bad moments 

But to always be embarrassed of someone thats a completely different thing and thats is what OP is asking 

"How many of you are embarassed of your girlfriend?"  that was OP's question 

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[nktran001]

I'd never.

 

[nktran001]

I'd never.

 

[finnns2003]

I can see how someone would be embarrassed. Say you're with your gf and she gains a little weight or doesn't dress as well as chicks you see out and about... That certainly seems like a valid concept.

 

[finnns2003]

I can see how someone would be embarrassed. Say you're with your gf and she gains a little weight or doesn't dress as well as chicks you see out and about... That certainly seems like a valid concept.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

NikeKidWonder, you are living in a fantasy world man. So what if nobody is perfect. Some people's imperfections are more blatant than others. Some stick out like a sore thumb more than others. Some have major physical flaws. Other emotion. Other social. So what if we all have flaws, we don't all have the same flaws so we are always open for criticism. I still don't see the relationship between truly loving someone and you not feeling comfortable with something about them being displayed in the public eye. Maybe it is easier for me to separate the emotional and physical but I can't agree with you at all man.

If my girl became FAT over time (which I wouldn't "allow" in the first place) then I wouldn't be proud to be seen with her in public. I don't care how much conditional love I have for her, because love for a mate is conditional, I wouldn't be proud of being with a fat woman. I pride myself on physical fitness and health and what does it look like if I am with a whale? Come on man. Call me inhumane or whatever you folks do, but YOU are a reflection of what you are with. If you are with something subpar, people's perception of your level will be re-evaluated. Yes I care what people think of me before you ask.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

NikeKidWonder, you are living in a fantasy world man. So what if nobody is perfect. Some people's imperfections are more blatant than others. Some stick out like a sore thumb more than others. Some have major physical flaws. Other emotion. Other social. So what if we all have flaws, we don't all have the same flaws so we are always open for criticism. I still don't see the relationship between truly loving someone and you not feeling comfortable with something about them being displayed in the public eye. Maybe it is easier for me to separate the emotional and physical but I can't agree with you at all man.

If my girl became FAT over time (which I wouldn't "allow" in the first place) then I wouldn't be proud to be seen with her in public. I don't care how much conditional love I have for her, because love for a mate is conditional, I wouldn't be proud of being with a fat woman. I pride myself on physical fitness and health and what does it look like if I am with a whale? Come on man. Call me inhumane or whatever you folks do, but YOU are a reflection of what you are with. If you are with something subpar, people's perception of your level will be re-evaluated. Yes I care what people think of me before you ask.

 

[pip777]

I'd never be embarrassed.

 

[pip777]

I'd never be embarrassed.

 

[cicero avenue dopeman]

Originally Posted by JoeClear

What about  being in  a serious relationship with a known jump-off  ?

 

[cicero avenue dopeman]

Originally Posted by JoeClear

What about  being in  a serious relationship with a known jump-off  ?

 

[smedroc]

shouldnt be your girl if you embarassed of her 

 

[smedroc]

shouldnt be your girl if you embarassed of her 

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by pip777

I'd never be embarrassed.

So IF (keyword if) you were with a woman and you were out to eat and they bring her the wrong food and she flips off on the waiter, you would be fine with that? Because you love her you should support her actions and support anything she does. Explain that never word to me please. To say you would never be embarassed is interesting to me.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by pip777

I'd never be embarrassed.

So IF (keyword if) you were with a woman and you were out to eat and they bring her the wrong food and she flips off on the waiter, you would be fine with that? Because you love her you should support her actions and support anything she does. Explain that never word to me please. To say you would never be embarassed is interesting to me.

 

[cragmatic]

My ex wasn't a dime or anything compared to NT's standards, she was far from ugly but not hot.

Anyway I always loved being in public with her, didn't mind. Just didn't like the PDA like when I brought her to the gym with me and would feel the need to run up and kiss me after a set. I'm not into PDA.

 

[cragmatic]

My ex wasn't a dime or anything compared to NT's standards, she was far from ugly but not hot.

Anyway I always loved being in public with her, didn't mind. Just didn't like the PDA like when I brought her to the gym with me and would feel the need to run up and kiss me after a set. I'm not into PDA.

 

[ksteezy]

What?...NTers ALL pull dimepieces, post this in a forum with less swag.

 

[ksteezy]

What?...NTers ALL pull dimepieces, post this in a forum with less swag.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

My ex wasn't a dime or anything compared to NT's standards, she was far from ugly but not hot.

Anyway I always loved being in public with her, didn't mind. Just didn't like the PDA like when I brought her to the gym with me and would feel the need to run up and kiss me after a set. I'm not into PDA.

Yea PDA always comes off to me as "Look at me." or "Yall are trying too hard." Now I can admit that there are moments when it is probably legit but the first word of the acronym sums it up for the most part.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by Cragmatic

My ex wasn't a dime or anything compared to NT's standards, she was far from ugly but not hot.

Anyway I always loved being in public with her, didn't mind. Just didn't like the PDA like when I brought her to the gym with me and would feel the need to run up and kiss me after a set. I'm not into PDA.

Yea PDA always comes off to me as "Look at me." or "Yall are trying too hard." Now I can admit that there are moments when it is probably legit but the first word of the acronym sums it up for the most part.

 

[ruxxx]

OP what exactly do you mean?
Are you talking about things she may do in public that you're not too fond of or are we talking about that "standard of beauty" foolishness that somone else mentioned?
I feel like EVERYONE has the POTENTIAL to be embarassed about something their s/o did/does,but it seems like we're discussing something a little deeper than that here.

 

[ruxxx]

OP what exactly do you mean?
Are you talking about things she may do in public that you're not too fond of or are we talking about that "standard of beauty" foolishness that somone else mentioned?
I feel like EVERYONE has the POTENTIAL to be embarassed about something their s/o did/does,but it seems like we're discussing something a little deeper than that here.

 

[703flipfiend]

It seems like some people think:

1) the OP is asking if there are people out there constantly embarrassed about their significant other or

2) if OP is asking if there are people out there who are embarrassed about certain things your significant other may do here and there along with some physical flaws.

If OP meant #1, I would say that is an unhealthy relationship if you're constantly embarrassed about your girlfriend as a whole. You shouldn't even be with them because having that embarrassing feeling whenever you're with them in public is overwhelming and ultimately makes you unhappy.

If OP meant #2, I could definitely side with that. I have a girlfriend of 7 years. She's a dance major at UMD, so she goes to class in tights, sweats, the works. As you can imagine, when I pick her up sometimes so we can grab lunch or go to the mall maybe, I'm not the proudest guy walking around with my lady dressed in bummy clothing while I'm cleanly dressed. This doesn't make me love her any less at all since I know what she's capable of in the dressing category and I didn't fall in love with her for those reasons anyway since they are materialistic. It still doesn't take away that I'm a wee bit embarrassed when we walk around together while she's dressed in her dance class clothes.

 

[Sonny Corinthos]

Originally Posted by Cicero Avenue Dopeman

Originally Posted by JoeClear

What about  being in  a serious relationship with a known jump-off  ?

  Nobody wants to touch the question