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If there aint a mutual understanding I just don't take them anywhere to waste money.
How are you NOT paying for the female companion?
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If there aint a mutual understanding I just don't take them anywhere to waste money.
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First time I did it, I didn't know what I was doing when I did it...
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Originally Posted by Degenerate423
If you invite a girl out just pay for her. If she invites you somewhere then you can offer, but it's up to you at that point...
Pretty much.
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Originally Posted by Degenerate423
If you invite a girl out just pay for her. If she invites you somewhere then you can offer, but it's up to you at that point...
Pretty much.
im not you
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Whatever.
I'm a scumbag. At this point in my life I don't even take +@$*%!% out anymore. I don't think I've been on a "date" all year. I've literally been having chicks BRING me fast food to the crib and smashing. I've literally been bopping for food all year.
I'm a scumbag. At this point in my life I don't even take +@$*%!% out anymore. I don't think I've been on a "date" all year. I've literally been having chicks BRING me fast food to the crib and smashing. I've literally been bopping for food all year.
im not you
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Whatever.
I'm a scumbag. At this point in my life I don't even take +@$*%!% out anymore. I don't think I've been on a "date" all year. I've literally been having chicks BRING me fast food to the crib and smashing. I've literally been bopping for food all year.
I'm a scumbag. At this point in my life I don't even take +@$*%!% out anymore. I don't think I've been on a "date" all year. I've literally been having chicks BRING me fast food to the crib and smashing. I've literally been bopping for food all year.
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Asked a girl to a Giants game yesterday. I paid for everything cus I invited and I'm actually feeling her.
Was it worth it? Yes.
Was it worth it? Yes.
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Asked a girl to a Giants game yesterday. I paid for everything cus I invited and I'm actually feeling her.
Was it worth it? Yes.
Was it worth it? Yes.
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I'm a student, that explains all.
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I'm a student, that explains all.
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If we are dating and I say to you, "hey do you want to go to a ____ game" or "hey do you want to go do ___ on ___", I am paying.
Or if you're Italian my dad is paying because his dream is to see me with a nice little Italian boy
Or if you're Italian my dad is paying because his dream is to see me with a nice little Italian boy
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If we are dating and I say to you, "hey do you want to go to a ____ game" or "hey do you want to go do ___ on ___", I am paying.
Or if you're Italian my dad is paying because his dream is to see me with a nice little Italian boy
Or if you're Italian my dad is paying because his dream is to see me with a nice little Italian boy
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I always get into it with you all over the idea of "inviting out."Originally Posted by Sweettooth 17
Originally Posted by Degenerate423
If you invite a girl out just pay for her. If she invites you somewhere then you can offer, but it's up to you at that point...
Pretty much.
What does "inviting out" mean? Does me simply verbalizing that me and her go somewhere mean I am inviting her somewhere?
What if we both want to do something, but I happen to name the spot. Does that still mean I invited her?
I have had a girl a few years back disrespect me by asking me, "When are you going to take me out." I let her know about herself, but if I would have taken her out, did I indirectly agree to pay for it since I was asked when I would take her out?
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I always get into it with you all over the idea of "inviting out."Originally Posted by Sweettooth 17
Originally Posted by Degenerate423
If you invite a girl out just pay for her. If she invites you somewhere then you can offer, but it's up to you at that point...
Pretty much.
What does "inviting out" mean? Does me simply verbalizing that me and her go somewhere mean I am inviting her somewhere?
What if we both want to do something, but I happen to name the spot. Does that still mean I invited her?
I have had a girl a few years back disrespect me by asking me, "When are you going to take me out." I let her know about herself, but if I would have taken her out, did I indirectly agree to pay for it since I was asked when I would take her out?
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Me personally I think that "inviting out" means when the male/female sets up or plans the details of the date. If I invite my woman out for dinner and a little music after, then I feel I should pay based on me taking the initiative to set it up. By all means she can still offer to pay but I will let it be known that she doesn't have to. It goes both ways or "should" if she were to invite me to do something she planned as well.
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Me personally I think that "inviting out" means when the male/female sets up or plans the details of the date. If I invite my woman out for dinner and a little music after, then I feel I should pay based on me taking the initiative to set it up. By all means she can still offer to pay but I will let it be known that she doesn't have to. It goes both ways or "should" if she were to invite me to do something she planned as well.
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Let me preface this post with this: I'm 25, been in a couple long-term relationships, been single and courting girls for the last year and a half.
As far as paying for a date: it's always better to be prepared to do so and not have to, then have to and be tight on money. Some of the best girls I've dated have actually pulled the check from the restaurant out of my hand and paid, but I had every intention of doing so myself. It usually balances out though. She knows that if she likes you, and pays for you once, that you'll be so elated by the gesture that you'll take her out again... and pay. So she gets everything she wants--you and the date.
If you're out of high school, a movie should not be included in your date. Period. That's just a waste of time. They're over-priced, you're forced to be silent--nothing very date-worthy in that sort of situation.
Dinner is good if you can hold a good conversation and know how to pick a place to eat. Try going to a cafe instead of some formal restaurant. They're often cheaper, no, or at least less, interruptions from wait staff, and a bit more laid back and intimate environment. I've smashed a lot of girls just off good conversations over a meal.
I like dude's idea about the secluded place with good to-go food, but it's summer. That won't fly in my city. We're talking 90 at night and 100% humidity. BUT it's a good foundation. Know your city. Know what spots are nice, but secluded. Know which nights cater to what crowd--some places are crazy on Saturday, but dead on Friday. I know there's a very nice, not-too-well-known, fairly-priced bar here with a Sinatra night on Wednesdays. There's places with unique nights all over this city--I'm sure every reasonably sized city has hidden gems. Girls love being taken to places they've never been, too.
Ultimately, when it comes down to paying for a female companion, do you really want the girl that lets a bunch of cheap dudes beat?
As far as paying for a date: it's always better to be prepared to do so and not have to, then have to and be tight on money. Some of the best girls I've dated have actually pulled the check from the restaurant out of my hand and paid, but I had every intention of doing so myself. It usually balances out though. She knows that if she likes you, and pays for you once, that you'll be so elated by the gesture that you'll take her out again... and pay. So she gets everything she wants--you and the date.
If you're out of high school, a movie should not be included in your date. Period. That's just a waste of time. They're over-priced, you're forced to be silent--nothing very date-worthy in that sort of situation.
Dinner is good if you can hold a good conversation and know how to pick a place to eat. Try going to a cafe instead of some formal restaurant. They're often cheaper, no, or at least less, interruptions from wait staff, and a bit more laid back and intimate environment. I've smashed a lot of girls just off good conversations over a meal.
I like dude's idea about the secluded place with good to-go food, but it's summer. That won't fly in my city. We're talking 90 at night and 100% humidity. BUT it's a good foundation. Know your city. Know what spots are nice, but secluded. Know which nights cater to what crowd--some places are crazy on Saturday, but dead on Friday. I know there's a very nice, not-too-well-known, fairly-priced bar here with a Sinatra night on Wednesdays. There's places with unique nights all over this city--I'm sure every reasonably sized city has hidden gems. Girls love being taken to places they've never been, too.
Ultimately, when it comes down to paying for a female companion, do you really want the girl that lets a bunch of cheap dudes beat?
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Let me preface this post with this: I'm 25, been in a couple long-term relationships, been single and courting girls for the last year and a half.
As far as paying for a date: it's always better to be prepared to do so and not have to, then have to and be tight on money. Some of the best girls I've dated have actually pulled the check from the restaurant out of my hand and paid, but I had every intention of doing so myself. It usually balances out though. She knows that if she likes you, and pays for you once, that you'll be so elated by the gesture that you'll take her out again... and pay. So she gets everything she wants--you and the date.
If you're out of high school, a movie should not be included in your date. Period. That's just a waste of time. They're over-priced, you're forced to be silent--nothing very date-worthy in that sort of situation.
Dinner is good if you can hold a good conversation and know how to pick a place to eat. Try going to a cafe instead of some formal restaurant. They're often cheaper, no, or at least less, interruptions from wait staff, and a bit more laid back and intimate environment. I've smashed a lot of girls just off good conversations over a meal.
I like dude's idea about the secluded place with good to-go food, but it's summer. That won't fly in my city. We're talking 90 at night and 100% humidity. BUT it's a good foundation. Know your city. Know what spots are nice, but secluded. Know which nights cater to what crowd--some places are crazy on Saturday, but dead on Friday. I know there's a very nice, not-too-well-known, fairly-priced bar here with a Sinatra night on Wednesdays. There's places with unique nights all over this city--I'm sure every reasonably sized city has hidden gems. Girls love being taken to places they've never been, too.
Ultimately, when it comes down to paying for a female companion, do you really want the girl that lets a bunch of cheap dudes beat?
As far as paying for a date: it's always better to be prepared to do so and not have to, then have to and be tight on money. Some of the best girls I've dated have actually pulled the check from the restaurant out of my hand and paid, but I had every intention of doing so myself. It usually balances out though. She knows that if she likes you, and pays for you once, that you'll be so elated by the gesture that you'll take her out again... and pay. So she gets everything she wants--you and the date.
If you're out of high school, a movie should not be included in your date. Period. That's just a waste of time. They're over-priced, you're forced to be silent--nothing very date-worthy in that sort of situation.
Dinner is good if you can hold a good conversation and know how to pick a place to eat. Try going to a cafe instead of some formal restaurant. They're often cheaper, no, or at least less, interruptions from wait staff, and a bit more laid back and intimate environment. I've smashed a lot of girls just off good conversations over a meal.
I like dude's idea about the secluded place with good to-go food, but it's summer. That won't fly in my city. We're talking 90 at night and 100% humidity. BUT it's a good foundation. Know your city. Know what spots are nice, but secluded. Know which nights cater to what crowd--some places are crazy on Saturday, but dead on Friday. I know there's a very nice, not-too-well-known, fairly-priced bar here with a Sinatra night on Wednesdays. There's places with unique nights all over this city--I'm sure every reasonably sized city has hidden gems. Girls love being taken to places they've never been, too.
Ultimately, when it comes down to paying for a female companion, do you really want the girl that lets a bunch of cheap dudes beat?
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But the brokest dudes in the hood beat with no problem. Money spent and beatability aren't related.
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But the brokest dudes in the hood beat with no problem. Money spent and beatability aren't related.
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QFT, if you want sex that badly fly to Vegas and find an escort. A lot of guys who buy women things go home empty handed while a broke dude in the hood is using her as a jumpoff.
And WTH are people eating for 70 dollars on a date?
