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Originally Posted by GWUN TWO
Girls are emotional people, and the way they act is ALWAYS affected by how they feel.
The best thing to do is to break it off there isn't any interest anymore. But before you do that, you have to look at yourself and think if you haven't done anything to affect the relationship. Are you the same person you were when she first met you? Do you put 100% of your effort into the relationship? Are there small things she wants you to do but you just ignore it?
Ive been through this same stage in most of my relationships and its a natural part of any healthy relationship. Even my current relationship, my girl was acting really disinterested and cold towards me for a little over a month before. Of course my first instinct was to act the same way towards her because I thought it was some sort of mind game bs. But I realized I haven't been putting in as much effort into trying to please her and win her over, like I was doing during the beginning of the relationship. Now whenever I see her I try to have as much fun as possible and try to use my game on her like I used to. The following results were pretty instant and the relationship is now doing great again. Don't take my words the wrong way and become her +@#@!, but try to act like how you were when you first met her and tried to win her over.
haha I was in the same garbage you were in, but I never fixed the problem. She just ended up leaving me because I don't show her affection. I was always out doing my own thing or with my boys and she felt I put my homeboys before her. I didn't look at it like that though. I figured hey I've been with this girl for 6 years once she has a stable career I would put a ring on her finger, but that never happened haha. Oh well learned a lot of things from it and it will make me a better person.