Do You Buy Drinks for the Females at the Bar/Clubs? Vol. No Simpin'

If you are single, and the vibes are good between you and another girl, what's the matter with asking if she would like a drink? Some of you dudes put too much thought into what you do/don't do when you are out. There's no science to it.....
If the vibe is there a drink doesn't need to be bought. That is MY logic when it comes to that.....
 
i think people get you don't NEED to buy a drink...some just WANT to...of course there are those that thinks its needed but i dont think those people arein this thread right now...probably sittin athome wonderin why ol girl didn't give them her number...
 
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

If you are single, and the vibes are good between you and another girl, what's the matter with asking if she would like a drink? Some of you dudes put too much thought into what you do/don't do when you are out. There's no science to it.....
If the vibe is there a drink doesn't need to be bought. That is MY logic when it comes to that.....

If you're good w. you game you almost have another sense or intuition as how the night will ultimately turn out. Now let's go back to the"vibe." If things are going well, and at some point you want another beer/mixed drink or what have you, there is absolutely nothing wrong in askingthe lady if she would like something also if you are headed to the bar or if the waitress is coming around. You would look like a herb if the waitress comesaround and you just order for yourself and NOT ask the lady if she would want something also. This is all under the assumption that you have been kicking itwith said girl for a bit of time....Now....everything SHOULD be recriprocated (sp?) at some point, or at least offered by the girl. It's almost like awatered down "door" test like you saw in a A Bronx Tale. Not at all saying that this is gonna be the girl you are gonna spend you life with, but ifshe returns the favor by buying you a drink or drinks over the course of the night, you know you're good....
 
I feel there is a lot wrong with buying a stranger a drink. Good vibe or not, but that is my approach to it.
 
Nah.If you think about it, most of the beautiful women at the bars/clubs have guys buying them drinks all the time so to them, you're nothing special andthey'll most likely use you.
 
Originally Posted by Dakingii

Im going to give u the typical NT response:

Unless u smashed, yes u simped. Never buy a chick a drink unless u know u are going to smash
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Another thing, just cuz you buy a girl a drink doesn't make them your property for the rest of the night. Not cool to maddog me cuz im dancing with thegirl you bought the drink for
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Man, I feel like if you got it to spend, why not? Just don't do it as a vehicle to try to holla. If ya'll cooling and conversation cool go head. Drinksgotta be reeeeal cheap for me to do that but it's not simping if you do it on the cool tip. If you do it as a pick up, trying to stunt, then you aredefinitely simping.
 
Most girls purposely dont bring any money because they already "know" some chumps will buy them drinks the whole night and get nothing in return.

I was up at some club a few weeks ago and this girl came up to me and just flat out said "Wanna buy me a drink?"

I said "Uhh, no?" and proceeded to get it crackin' with her friend. Because thats how I roll
 
Originally Posted by Club29

I was up at some club a few weeks ago and this girl came up to me and just flat out said "Wanna buy me a drink?"
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i hate that bs
 
Originally Posted by Club29

Most girls purposely dont bring any money because they already "know" some chumps will buy them drinks the whole night and get nothing in return.

I was up at some club a few weeks ago and this girl came up to me and just flat out said "Wanna buy me a drink?"

I said "Uhh, no?" and proceeded to get it crackin' with her friend. Because thats how I roll
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What did she say/look like when you told her no

Again that self entitlement mentality of women
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Most girls purposely dont bring any money because they already "know" some chumps will buy them drinks the whole night and get nothing in return.
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i didnt know ppl still do this..i only do it if its my homegirl's b-day...usually we split a bottle like tho...

ppl are so weak with game they gotta buy chicks drinks to start a convo?
 
Lol this thread was just reminding me of this remix one of my favorite artists made to that T-Pain "Buy You A Drank" song

Ness Lee - I Ain't Buy No Dranks

listen to it here, 6th song down, some funny lyrics, and he's keepin it real
http://www.myspace.com/nesslee
 
I hate the sense of entitlement women have these days, obviously I know where it comes from, but it's still sickening to me.

Let's take a look at the situation like this.

Say you make 10 bucks an hour, depending on the price of the drink, you potentially just spent an hour working, to buy a girl a drink.... for what?

It could be worth the investment depending on where it gets you, but I wonder what the success rate for your average guy is when it comes to buying drinks forrandom chicks.

There is definitely science behind buying chicks drinks, psychology is an interesting subject.
 
Originally Posted by DeadsetAce

Originally Posted by Club29

I was up at some club a few weeks ago and this girl came up to me and just flat out said "Wanna buy me a drink?"
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i hate that bs
I hope that happens to me.

"Yo bartender. Can I get a Coke for the DD here?"
 
Never have and never will, I usually have a bottle in the club so if im dancing or w.e wit a chick Ill just pour some in her mouth and proceed to have a convowith her
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...saves you money during this recession
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Originally Posted by Sir Rob A Lot

^^^Honestly isnt that lightweight the same thing? You bought that bottle.....
True..but its not all the time i do dat, and its much cheaper to do that than buy a 7 dollar drink for her.
 
Man I bought this chick a 3 dollar corona at some bar once and after I did it even though it was 3$ I was thinking to myself wth did i just do

WHen I'm with a group of friends we take turns buyin each other shots or drinks that night, but I will not be the first one to buy the drinks/shots thatnight and I will not do it if no one else is buyin drinks
 
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