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Am I in the wrong here?
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TraSoul82 wrote:
What in the hell is this V-C---R(?) contraption that was spoken of?
Setting plans for someone else's day (obligating) is annoying. Surprising them at an event/place they were already planning to be at anyway is better. But some people just don't like surprises, period. I can also understand not wanting to wait to watch it later. If it's that important to you, stay and watch it or compromise by going to eat at a place that's showing the game.
How the hell you gonna plan an outing for someone else and don't tell them until the day of (without even dropping hints)? I'd brush her off just to set a precedent.
my VCR comment was a last resort for dude
and as for setting plans for someone elses birthday, it happens all the time in relationships brotha. hell i wish i got suprises like that once in a while. I hate planning
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TraSoul82 wrote:
What in the hell is this V-C---R(?) contraption that was spoken of?
Setting plans for someone else's day (obligating) is annoying. Surprising them at an event/place they were already planning to be at anyway is better. But some people just don't like surprises, period. I can also understand not wanting to wait to watch it later. If it's that important to you, stay and watch it or compromise by going to eat at a place that's showing the game.
How the hell you gonna plan an outing for someone else and don't tell them until the day of (without even dropping hints)? I'd brush her off just to set a precedent.
my VCR comment was a last resort for dude
and as for setting plans for someone elses birthday, it happens all the time in relationships brotha. hell i wish i got suprises like that once in a while. I hate planning
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What's more important: The game or your relationship?
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What's more important: The game or your relationship?
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What's more important: The reservation or his birthday?
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What's more important: The reservation or his birthday?
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what restaurant is it? because i think that little fact can dead this argument QUICK ...
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what restaurant is it? because i think that little fact can dead this argument QUICK ...
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and pics of said girl...
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and pics of said girl...
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Highlights =/= watching the whole game.
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Highlights =/= watching the whole game.
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If she'd end the relationship because she's mad at him for doing what he wants to do, on his birthday, then that's probably better for him in the long run anyway.
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If she'd end the relationship because she's mad at him for doing what he wants to do, on his birthday, then that's probably better for him in the long run anyway.
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i would argue that him conceding would do more harm to their relationship than good as it would set a precedent saying "i'll do whatever you want to do, even on my birthday, as long as you whine about it" ... what kind of girl complains about you not doing something on your own birthday?
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i would argue that him conceding would do more harm to their relationship than good as it would set a precedent saying "i'll do whatever you want to do, even on my birthday, as long as you whine about it" ... what kind of girl complains about you not doing something on your own birthday?
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Iono what restaurant it is. She wouldn't tell me. I'm pretty sure it's one of those fancy-#@# restaurants that don't got TVs.
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This.
OP, I could understand where you're coming from. But in the same context, at least you have a girlfriend who's willing to do !*#! for your birthday. With that said, perhaps next time advance warning would be better consideirng you're girlfriend just wanted to make you feel special for your birthday. Besides, couldn't you watch a replay of the game if you really wanted to? Or, have one of your homies record it for you?
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Iono what restaurant it is. She wouldn't tell me. I'm pretty sure it's one of those fancy-#@# restaurants that don't got TVs.
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Exactly. I swear these NT'ers don't think.
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This.
OP, I could understand where you're coming from. But in the same context, at least you have a girlfriend who's willing to do !*#! for your birthday. With that said, perhaps next time advance warning would be better consideirng you're girlfriend just wanted to make you feel special for your birthday. Besides, couldn't you watch a replay of the game if you really wanted to? Or, have one of your homies record it for you?
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Exactly. I swear these NT'ers don't think.
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probably wouldnt end it but it can give her a hit on where he stands in the reationship
how about turn it around? the dude planned a night out with his girl but she wanted to do something else. how would you handle your girl saying no to the plans u made specially for her?
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probably wouldnt end it but it can give her a hit on where he stands in the reationship
how about turn it around? the dude planned a night out with his girl but she wanted to do something else. how would you handle your girl saying no to the plans u made specially for her?
