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Ok so question, at what point do you be like, "Nah that ain't flyin."
If your girl wanted to see an ex (3 years removed) and go to dinner with him, would that be fine?
Yeah, that would be fine for me. Mature people can catch up with old friends especially if they've moved on. 3 years is a long time. If she hasn't moved on, there's gonna be trouble either way.
The line for me would probably be if she became too friendly with that ex. Texting a lot, trying to hang out without me, acting strange, etc. Stuff like that. If it gets to the point where I am worried about this ex, I'd be like nah, you can have him. I cut people off quick though. Maybe it's a weakness.
But the initial dinner? I don't see a problem with it. I'm not out here to compete with other guys. Or to hide her from other guys. If she wants to choose her ex, I'll open the door for her on the way out. I'm just 100% done with the games and the rules