Why are some guys so insecure when there are dudes around their girl?

[kn0wledgeable]

i hate when dudes be grilling me and my girl when i'm with a chick. i remember one time, i was on the train, and shorty was falling asleep on my shoulder. some dude sitting across from us towards the right was grilling us hard for no reason. but once i grill back they always look away. vaginas

yea its cool to peek and look at my chick to admire her assets cause i know she look good, but dont grill. the thirst is strong within you.

half the time a chick even looks back at a dude is because even she is wondering...what the hell stop looking at us

stuff like this happens with a girl's male friends too. when a chick's male friend grills you and gives both of you a cold shoulder when you're with her...that's when you know you cant trust him and he got feelings for her

 

[kn0wledgeable]

i hate when dudes be grilling me and my girl when i'm with a chick. i remember one time, i was on the train, and shorty was falling asleep on my shoulder. some dude sitting across from us towards the right was grilling us hard for no reason. but once i grill back they always look away. vaginas

yea its cool to peek and look at my chick to admire her assets cause i know she look good, but dont grill. the thirst is strong within you.

half the time a chick even looks back at a dude is because even she is wondering...what the hell stop looking at us

stuff like this happens with a girl's male friends too. when a chick's male friend grills you and gives both of you a cold shoulder when you're with her...that's when you know you cant trust him and he got feelings for her

 

[krazy]

at you calling him insecure when you're comparing your 'swagger' to him..

Maybe dood was guiding her to a seat? I don't see what's wrong with a man bein' a boyfriend to his girl simply by having his hand around her waist.

You're analyzing a little too much. It's not a bad thing, but the world doesn't revolve around you homie.

 

[krazy]

at you calling him insecure when you're comparing your 'swagger' to him..

Maybe dood was guiding her to a seat? I don't see what's wrong with a man bein' a boyfriend to his girl simply by having his hand around her waist.

You're analyzing a little too much. It's not a bad thing, but the world doesn't revolve around you homie.

 

[blackmagnus514]

Because they can't make their girl orgasm.

/thread

 

[blackmagnus514]

Because they can't make their girl orgasm.

/thread

 

[furrell]

at the thread backfire.

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[furrell]

at the thread backfire.

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[notoriousmj23]

Originally Posted by oidreez

Originally Posted by Furrell

Originally Posted by Carver

How you know he was doing that because of you though?

Because I have more swag than him.

right....

 

[notoriousmj23]

Originally Posted by oidreez

Originally Posted by Furrell

Originally Posted by Carver

How you know he was doing that because of you though?

Because I have more swag than him.

right....

 

[dgk3188]

Originally Posted by damelloyellow15

Man some of these females make it hot tho. They would stare when they right next to their man.. making it hella akward.

And half the time you're just minding your own business.

happened to me a couple of times. i'm always caught off guard cuz i'm like damn, girls are just as bad as guys are! 

I'm up in the gym sometime and there's always this couple that works out today.  I'm always catching her looking at me and giving me that

 

[dgk3188]

Originally Posted by damelloyellow15

Man some of these females make it hot tho. They would stare when they right next to their man.. making it hella akward.

And half the time you're just minding your own business.

happened to me a couple of times. i'm always caught off guard cuz i'm like damn, girls are just as bad as guys are! 

I'm up in the gym sometime and there's always this couple that works out today.  I'm always catching her looking at me and giving me that

 

[im not you]

I know what you mean. Me and my dudes make it a habit to point this out whenever we're out. You don't even have to stare a chick down. It could be something as simple as walking past a couple and the dude will instantly give her the arm rope treatment. 
When I'm out with chicks I actually invite it.
Some young thugs tried to get at a chick I was with at the movies while I was standing right next to her. They wanted to bait me into getting hostile. Instead I hit em with the Fat Trel quote: "This ain't my (chick). You wanna +!%% her? +%!*# ask her" and laughed at em. They ain't know what to do after that. I'm not buying that mark your territory %!$+. Not doing the cuffing. 

 

[im not you]

I know what you mean. Me and my dudes make it a habit to point this out whenever we're out. You don't even have to stare a chick down. It could be something as simple as walking past a couple and the dude will instantly give her the arm rope treatment. 
When I'm out with chicks I actually invite it.
Some young thugs tried to get at a chick I was with at the movies while I was standing right next to her. They wanted to bait me into getting hostile. Instead I hit em with the Fat Trel quote: "This ain't my (chick). You wanna +!%% her? +%!*# ask her" and laughed at em. They ain't know what to do after that. I'm not buying that mark your territory %!$+. Not doing the cuffing. 

 

[snaggykicks]

Originally Posted by CJ616

You answered your own question.  They're insecure.

 

[snaggykicks]

Originally Posted by CJ616

You answered your own question.  They're insecure.

 

[Mark Antony]

Insecure? when you out there checking his girl out? that was just basically "chill fam, she spoken for". He doesn't know you like that to know if you're going at her or not. I thought this thread was about people she knew. Something wrong with you if some dude eyeballing your chick and you don't react atleast a little.

 

[Mark Antony]

Insecure? when you out there checking his girl out? that was just basically "chill fam, she spoken for". He doesn't know you like that to know if you're going at her or not. I thought this thread was about people she knew. Something wrong with you if some dude eyeballing your chick and you don't react atleast a little.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by Im Not You


I know what you mean. Me and my dudes make it a habit to point this out whenever we're out. You don't even have to stare a chick down. It could be something as simple as walking past a couple and the dude will instantly give her the arm rope treatment. 
When I'm out with chicks I actually invite it.
Some young thugs tried to get at a chick I was with at the movies while I was standing right next to her. They wanted to bait me into getting hostile. Instead I hit em with the Fat Trel quote: "This ain't my (chick). You wanna +!%% her? +%!*# ask her" and laughed at em. They ain't know what to do after that. I'm not buying that mark your territory %!$+. Not doing the cuffing. 

Well played man. What did the girl do. Did she hit you with the, "Ahhh you don't even card" card.

@ Hitting young thugs with psychology.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by Im Not You


I know what you mean. Me and my dudes make it a habit to point this out whenever we're out. You don't even have to stare a chick down. It could be something as simple as walking past a couple and the dude will instantly give her the arm rope treatment. 
When I'm out with chicks I actually invite it.
Some young thugs tried to get at a chick I was with at the movies while I was standing right next to her. They wanted to bait me into getting hostile. Instead I hit em with the Fat Trel quote: "This ain't my (chick). You wanna +!%% her? +%!*# ask her" and laughed at em. They ain't know what to do after that. I'm not buying that mark your territory %!$+. Not doing the cuffing. 

Well played man. What did the girl do. Did she hit you with the, "Ahhh you don't even card" card.

@ Hitting young thugs with psychology.

 

[im not you]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by Im Not You


I know what you mean. Me and my dudes make it a habit to point this out whenever we're out. You don't even have to stare a chick down. It could be something as simple as walking past a couple and the dude will instantly give her the arm rope treatment. 
When I'm out with chicks I actually invite it.
Some young thugs tried to get at a chick I was with at the movies while I was standing right next to her. They wanted to bait me into getting hostile. Instead I hit em with the Fat Trel quote: "This ain't my (chick). You wanna +!%% her? +%!*# ask her" and laughed at em. They ain't know what to do after that. I'm not buying that mark your territory %!$+. Not doing the cuffing. 

Well played man. What did the girl do. Did she hit you with the, "Ahhh you don't even card" card.

@ Hitting young thugs with psychology.

She was actually rather impressed and laughed. You should have seen the looks on their faces. They were confused as hell. One of em said to another "this !%+*% wild moe".

 
I mean what can you do? I'm not about to rope some chick up cause another dude tried his hand. I figure if she entertains them then she found her ride home for the night. 

 

[im not you]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by Im Not You


I know what you mean. Me and my dudes make it a habit to point this out whenever we're out. You don't even have to stare a chick down. It could be something as simple as walking past a couple and the dude will instantly give her the arm rope treatment. 
When I'm out with chicks I actually invite it.
Some young thugs tried to get at a chick I was with at the movies while I was standing right next to her. They wanted to bait me into getting hostile. Instead I hit em with the Fat Trel quote: "This ain't my (chick). You wanna +!%% her? +%!*# ask her" and laughed at em. They ain't know what to do after that. I'm not buying that mark your territory %!$+. Not doing the cuffing. 

Well played man. What did the girl do. Did she hit you with the, "Ahhh you don't even card" card.

@ Hitting young thugs with psychology.

She was actually rather impressed and laughed. You should have seen the looks on their faces. They were confused as hell. One of em said to another "this !%+*% wild moe".

 
I mean what can you do? I'm not about to rope some chick up cause another dude tried his hand. I figure if she entertains them then she found her ride home for the night. 

 

[jthagreat]

 I figure if she entertains them then she found her ride home for the night. 


i sometimes lose sight of this. Good S!!!

some instances when i see folks staring, ive said "she nice huh?"
other times i feel awkward (insecure) when that ocurrs i just remind myself, i do what i can...so if she steps out, +shrugs+ cant sweat it too heavy cause we wasnt right no way.

 

[jthagreat]

 I figure if she entertains them then she found her ride home for the night. 


i sometimes lose sight of this. Good S!!!

some instances when i see folks staring, ive said "she nice huh?"
other times i feel awkward (insecure) when that ocurrs i just remind myself, i do what i can...so if she steps out, +shrugs+ cant sweat it too heavy cause we wasnt right no way.

 

[raptors29]

Originally Posted by REDUCE523

Guys are insecure because other guys have no respect. Had to knuckle up a couple of people for disrespecting me.

This