- Apr 1, 2013
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a lot on my mind in this short week of work. I hate when i see things completely different then some one else. Long story follows #getablog #nothanksihaveTAN
So small story i had xmas lunch with my dad yesterday (at noon). Now my dad is a handful. And him and his gf have an ok relationship but it makes me anxious because they are forever correcting one another about everything and have small tiffs mid sentence all the time
ex: Oh we saw something like that at that little shop off Freedmont...No that wasnt that shop it was the one in the mall. No i remember it was freedmont because i said look at this and and then we went to the wawa across the street for gas after we left...oh are you sure...yes.
now that happens like every 3 or so sentences if one of them is telling a story. Its super annoying
So my gf who already has anxiety takes a coladipin (sp???) before we go. Which is normal for her since she is diagnosed depressed and anxious or whatever (another story still trying to understand depression as a disease). Now we get there and my dad offers drinks i have a beer she has some wine. He asks her if she wants more wine she says sure. Asks again she says sure. So she has had 3 glasses of wine (full glasses) and is on her anxiety meds. She is like whispering in my ear about doing it and going home to do it. I am 28 years old she is turning 25 in january.
So the day ends nothing bad happens or what not but i saw it as a completely immature way to approach a family get together and being with my dad. She is telling me how great it was and how she felt so great and how our lives will be perfect and she doesnt' know why we are waiting to get married (we have been together for less then a year about 8 months).
Like how are you looking at this like everything was so great and perfect and im sitting here like idk if i can take this type woman seriously. Like you need to take drugs and get drunk at xmas lunch at my dads house just to be around them??? Needless to say she is now mad at me because she was all talking about our lives together and how great it will be and i said "i am not ready for all that". She followed with "ok, i got to go"
That's a type of benzo not as strong as Xanax but it's in the same category. Benzos and alcohol are a no, no. She should be drinking with benzos if you don't want to see her act a fool.