Nah g, you just ain't going where the yambs is located. You go to work then home. When you gonna get to see the yambronis?
Find a happy hour that professional types go to. Plenty of single young, middle and old yamb sandwiches to practice and network with.
THIS.
I tell so many of my girlfriends about happy hour.... these are young, attracted, college educated females in their mid 20s. Of course, they are afraid to because a) they so USED to going to a club where all you gotta do is dance and look good. Happy hours require more effort because you going off looks and convo, and it's not dark
This is for meeting quick yambs you want to smash.
Also, hit up a gym--- most chicks (myself included) at one point went to the gym FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE of meeting a guy. These chicks are easy to spot out.
a) they will NOT be going hard (no concept of reps, hitting certain areas on their body, etc.)
b) if you catch them taking a picture of themselves
c) they are watching TV while on a treadmill
d) ALL they are doing are squats and leg lunges or other lower body exercises that involve the legs and thighs (those are exercises that increase mass... why they want a bigger mass you say? C'mon, think about it
)
Now if you tryna meet a chick you can at least smash on a reg or if you feel like being cuffed but aren't finding "cuff" worthy chicks...
Somehow get in a group of friends of people your age. Honestly? I've done this thru ppl I've dated but then we decided not to anymore. DON'T TELL THE GROUP YA'LL ARE DATING/SMASHING. Keep it to maybe one or two people knowing, preferably none. That way you aren't "known" as the guy who was dating so and so. If you smash, smash once or twice and again, DON'T TELL ANYBODY. If you are cool and things end amicably, you'll continue to get invites to outings/brunches/house parties/etc from OTHER people in the group (friending on Facebook is key ; comment on statuses, like pictures, you know the drill. BUT DON'T BE ALL FLIRTY, you don't wanna come off like a hound dog tryna smash the homies. And DON'T just friend the girls in the group... this is a dead give away you are just a hound dog. Then, you'll meet NEW yambs.... everybody always brings a "friend from work" or "friend from school" or "friend who just moved from out of town" or something! That's where things get interesting
Most of the guys I've messed with in the last 2-3 years (and it wasn't just smashing) was through that process... through mutual friends. My one group of friends is like a waterhole, I swear. It's always a brunch, or pool party, or bday party, or something... it'll be the standard "crew" but It's always new dudes/chicks coming around.
