Man, if any of yall do anything creative, use that **** to get you play.
I play guitar, write some creative writing stories sometimes (I've always been really good at writing), sing, etc. and when I tell a girl one of those things, they always get that much more interested.
I play guitar.
"Oh really. Are you good?"
Me- Nah, I'm alright. *sends video of me playing Blackbird by the Beatles*
"Oh my god that sounds amazing! You're really good!"
I write sometimes.
"Really? About what"
Me - "All sorts of stuff. Some clean, some dirty. I'll send you some sometime if you want."
"Okay. Send me some."
Me - "Okay. What kind do you want? Dirty or clean?"
IF SHE WANTS IT - "Hmm. Dirty."
IF SHE ISN'T SURE IF SHE WANTS IT - "Hmm, idk let's start off with clean."
IF SHE DOESN'T - "Clean."
Send her dirty, she gets a glimpse into my mind and what I like to do with a woman. If they want it, they'll love it and ask for more writing and stuff.
Stuff like that. Things that'll make you seem like a deeper person than other guys that just hit them up and go "Yo, you trynna **** or nah" THAT will get her attention and will get you dates and yambz. One of many ways of course, but this is just from my experience.