TAY '16: The Saga Continues

[tomdiginson]

TAY....I lost German and Spanish at the same time
im all messed up in the head right now...smh

Fam, me and the main squeeze is at odds and haven't spoken in a week. Experiencing all types of feels. Don't even know how to proceed. About to just chuck it up and move on.

 

[kevlar]

Is it serious issues? Or minor things that both of ya are being too prideful to resolve?

There's been times were my pride transformed the smallest misunderstandings into larger issues because I didn't admit I was wrong. Not saying that's your situation at all, but put things into perspective before throwing in the towel fam.

 

[dropten]

Happy hour is the reason I lost both...5hrs apart from each other

 

[hoosierdaddy317]

Happy hour is the reason I lost both...5hrs apart from each other

**** it get some new butt. You know they still got feelings at the end of the day. Give it a couple days shoot them a text. In the meantime, focus on yourself chill at home and APPRECIATE not having to constantly entertain them ****. Now gon out and get you some NEW BUTT!

 

[dropten]

I have a lot to focus on than myself right now and women is the last thing that should be crossing my mind given my situation.

 

[tdogg2k]

View media item 1937205I didn't pick the savage life

 

[kevlar]

 

[Black Lotus]

 

[suberzat1]

Happy hour is the reason I lost both...5hrs apart from each other

Damn you going to have to let me know. I feel like this why me and my girl was at it this morning. 

I was twisted when I got in last night...

 

[tomdiginson]

Is it serious issues? Or minor things that both of ya are being too prideful to resolve?

There's been times were my pride transformed the smallest misunderstandings into larger issues because I didn't admit I was wrong. Not saying that's your situation at all, but put things into perspective before throwing in the towel fam.

My girl unlike the rest that I've dated is independent and brave. This is attractive to me. Does her own thing and doesn't really ask me to get involved. She hangs out with her friends and what not. Her friends happen to all be single. Lately, every time I hit her up for us to do something she flakes. Got plans with this one or that one. When I call her, I hear them in the background.So I'm like whatever. Recently we had plans and it flopped, so before I could schedule for us to do something in its place, her friends already hit her up with other plans. Me and her get into an argument over something else and I tell her every time we try to make plans she flops and she hits me with the I've been busy blah blah blah which I understand. But not busy to hang with this one or that one.Anyway, I tell her that I hope everything is well and she said the same thing and haven't spoken to her since. Doesn't help that these jawns at work giving the kid some love.

 

[sharpshooter718]

Grimey gon Grimey....

That's the LAST guy you want to listen to about yambs . Disregard that dated...hate on everything talk.

Real ****** who get P know the benefits to smashing chicks from online. You can shoot out 30 messages in an hour...and get at least 5 numbers. 2 of them will smash.

You might meet 3 chicks when you go out and meet one in public. You're simply casting a larger net. Just cause you happen to smash chicks from social media...DOES NOT mean you are socially awkward...or can't meet chicks in person. You can do both. And the fellas that are doing both, are FLOURISHING.

Rec Room tomorrow in Towson for my DMV heads. The chick I smashed that I PM'd a few pics should be there with a few friends. Let's see how this goes .

See the reason why I frown upon it know is because I feasted on MySpace when it first dropped and that was over 10 years ago. I can't imagine still spitting that copy' and paste game this long. Too many dudes out here burning for me to be trusting skeeZers to be clean. I done seen a few good men get burnt by association. It's crazy game to be playing this long into it. If I was single it might be a different tune but at this point in time it's just a young mans game

 

[sharpshooter718]

My girl unlike the rest that I've dated is independent and brave. This is attractive to me. Does her own thing and doesn't really ask me to get involved. She hangs out with her friends and what not. Her friends happen to all be single. Lately, every time I hit her up for us to do something she flakes. Got plans with this one or that one. When I call her, I hear them in the background.So I'm like whatever. Recently we had plans and it flopped, so before I could schedule for us to do something in its place, her friends already hit her up with other plans. Me and her get into an argument over something else and I tell her every time we try to make plans she flops and she hits me with the I've been busy blah blah blah which I understand. But not busy to hang with this one or that one.Anyway, I tell her that I hope everything is well and she said the same thing and haven't spoken to her since. Doesn't help that these jawns at work giving the kid some love.

Dump her. She's getting pipe elsewhere

 

[dropten]

|I

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

So me and Suberzat1 met up for happy hour in DC. German had off work which is rare these days, so I took t.he opportunity to see her and told her to come through.
I already set in my mind I was going to let her go lastnight. The 3 of us chopped it up, drank etc. Suber left and its me and her. So I began the process and slowly began breaking it to her. She had tears everywhere. I felt so bad to make her cry. Even though she comes off super tough she's really sweet and caring inside. So we leave and she books a room. I go back with her, she gets undressed and under the covers. I tell her im not staying. And thats when she spazzed out. "**** you" "Get the **** out of my life" etc. She was really hurt and really angry. I know she was a bit drunk but those emotions coming out were so deep. I told her I couldnt see her any more because of how she is. That I needed a future and stability and I didnt trust her to not leave me one day. She said I made her feel so bad. She tries to be good and puts other people first. I told her she needs to put herself first and love herself first. After a little bit, she gets dressed and leaves. Then I get a text "Goodbye".
I was all messed up after that. I felt so bad hurting her that way.

So here is where the plot thickens and something I didnt share with you guys. Ya'll know my homeless situation. I mentioned in the homeless thread that i've had a consistent place to rest my head for the past month. That consistent place was with Spanish |I Even though I stayed there, I still didnt make myself too comfortable. I kept all my stuff in a duffle in a corner. I get back to her spot, but I didnt want to wake her up early so I waited and thought about wtf happened with me and German. 7am I call Spanish and ask if the alarm was armed for me to get in. I get in and a little while later we're talking about lastnight. Basically she got fed up and expected me to have considerations for her feelings and enough respect to not go out and come back the next day. I basically told her I broke it off with a very important friend to me for her/us to work out and thats why I came back later than expected. Which was true. She didnt even want to hear it. All that mattered to her was that I came home the next morning and she would never do that to me. What I noticed about her is that she has VERY high standards. She said she needs stability, a future and im too unstable and self destructive. Its very ironic because those were the things I told German I wanted and needed. So she said she doesnt want me around anymore etc. We talked a bit more and she said some things that I really needed to hear about myself. I really did mean well, by letting German go, but this was the 3rd time me going out and coming back in the morning that really upset her. So now im back on the streets living out my car |I

A few hours after getting my bags out of Spanish crib, German texts me "Give me some time to think If I can give you what you want"
TAY!!! German is still trying. She must really dig me, compared to Spanish who's quick to get rid of me. At this point I cant worry about women. Its nice to have a companion but with my situation, its so difficult.

 

[suberzat1]

Damn dude but I got you if you need something.

 

[youngdoc]

Grimey gon Grimey....

That's the LAST guy you want to listen to about yambs . Disregard that dated...hate on everything talk.

Real ****** who get P know the benefits to smashing chicks from online. You can shoot out 30 messages in an hour...and get at least 5 numbers. 2 of them will smash.

You might meet 3 chicks when you go out and meet one in public. You're simply casting a larger net. Just cause you happen to smash chicks from social media...DOES NOT mean you are socially awkward...or can't meet chicks in person. You can do both. And the fellas that are doing both, are FLOURISHING.

Rec Room tomorrow in Towson for my DMV heads. The chick I smashed that I PM'd a few pics should be there with a few friends. Let's see how this goes .

See the reason why I frown upon it know is because I feasted on MySpace when it first dropped and that was over 10 years ago. I can't imagine still spitting that copy' and paste game this long. Too many dudes out here burning for me to be trusting skeeZers to be clean. I done seen a few good men get burnt by association. It's crazy game to be playing this long into it. If I was single it might be a different tune but at this point in time it's just a young and game

Just use a condom

I do remember some article alleging that Tinder caused a spike in STD's tho

 

[datznasty]

Grimey gon Grimey....

That's the LAST guy you want to listen to about yambs . Disregard that dated...hate on everything talk.

Real ****** who get P know the benefits to smashing chicks from online. You can shoot out 30 messages in an hour...and get at least 5 numbers. 2 of them will smash.

You might meet 3 chicks when you go out and meet one in public. You're simply casting a larger net. Just cause you happen to smash chicks from social media...DOES NOT mean you are socially awkward...or can't meet chicks in person. You can do both. And the fellas that are doing both, are FLOURISHING.

Rec Room tomorrow in Towson for my DMV heads. The chick I smashed that I PM'd a few pics should be there with a few friends. Let's see how this goes .

See the reason why I frown upon it know is because I feasted on MySpace when it first dropped and that was over 10 years ago. I can't imagine still spitting that copy' and paste game this long. Too many dudes out here burning for me to be trusting skeeZers to be clean. I done seen a few good men get burnt by association. It's crazy game to be playing this long into it. If I was single it might be a different tune but at this point in time it's just a young and game

So you think the chics you meet in "normal" places like the club, church, work, and grocery store still aren't getting piped by a # of guys from online? Unless you scooping Amish Nuns I don't see the difference. Just that you are limiting your own reach

 

[cucumbercool]

how can i tell if a manager is diggin me and if she is how do i bag? no warning me on what may go wrong.

 

[iamdef]

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

So me and Suberzat1 met up for happy hour in DC. German had off work which is rare these days, so I took t.he opportunity to see her and told her to come through.
I already set in my mind I was going to let her go lastnight. The 3 of us chopped it up, drank etc. Suber left and its me and her. So I began the process and slowly began breaking it to her. She had tears everywhere. I felt so bad to make her cry. Even though she comes off super tough she's really sweet and caring inside. So we leave and she books a room. I go back with her, she gets undressed and under the covers. I tell her im not staying. And thats when she spazzed out. "**** you" "Get the **** out of my life" etc. She was really hurt and really angry. I know she was a bit drunk but those emotions coming out were so deep. I told her I couldnt see her any more because of how she is. That I needed a future and stability and I didnt trust her to not leave me one day. She said I made her feel so bad. She tries to be good and puts other people first. I told her she needs to put herself first and love herself first. After a little bit, she gets dressed and leaves. Then I get a text "Goodbye".
I was all messed up after that. I felt so bad hurting her that way.

So here is where the plot thickens and something I didnt share with you guys. Ya'll know my homeless situation. I mentioned in the homeless thread that i've had a consistent place to rest my head for the past month. That consistent place was with Spanish

Even though I stayed there, I still didnt make myself too comfortable. I kept all my stuff in a duffle in a corner. I get back to her spot, but I didnt want to wake her up early so I waited and thought about wtf happened with me and German. 7am I call Spanish and ask if the alarm was armed for me to get in. I get in and a little while later we're talking about lastnight. Basically she got fed up and expected me to have considerations for her feelings and enough respect to not go out and come back the next day. I basically told her I broke it off with a very important friend to me for her/us to work out and thats why I came back later than expected. Which was true. She didnt even want to hear it. All that mattered to her was that I came home the next morning and she would never do that to me. What I noticed about her is that she has VERY high standards. She said she needs stability, a future and im too unstable and self destructive. Its very ironic because those were the things I told German I wanted and needed. So she said she doesnt want me around anymore etc. We talked a bit more and she said some things that I really needed to hear about myself. I really did mean well, by letting German go, but this was the 3rd time me going out and coming back in the morning that really upset her. So now im back on the streets living out my car

A few hours after getting my bags out of Spanish crib, German texts me "Give me some time to think If I can give you what you want"
TAY!!! German is still trying. She must really dig me, compared to Spanish who's quick to get rid of me. At this point I cant worry about women. Its nice to have a companion but with my situation, its so difficult.

Dont fool with Germ bro, she unstable. She spazzed on you in the telly cause she thought if she offered that cat to you you wouldn't decline. Once you did she was "insulted". She tryna see if she still can pull you when she can. Don't bother.

Spanish is my fav out the two. Let things calm down and hit her up to meet up to talk and smooth things over

 

[Bruce Banner]

Dont fool with Germ bro, she unstable. She spazzed on you in the telly cause she thought if she offered that cat to you you wouldn't decline. Once you did she was "insulted". She tryna see if she still can pull you when she can. Don't bother.

Spanish is my fav out the two. Let things calm down and hit her up to meet up to talk and smooth things over

Listen to this man .

 

[Mr.Guy]

View media item 1936087Me and Germ...and Sub chillin in the cut

Are you still living in your car bro??

 

[dropten]

Dont fool with Germ bro, she unstable. She spazzed on you in the telly cause she thought if she offered that cat to you you wouldn't decline. Once you did she was "insulted". She tryna see if she still can pull you when she can. Don't bother.

Spanish is my fav out the two. Let things calm down and hit her up to meet up to talk and smooth things over

German spazzed because I denied her entirely. We could of just slept and not have sex and she would be fine.

As good as Spanish may seem, im now realizing her major issues now that they have manifested themselves. Im not going to get into details about their past because out of respect, but from what I know Spanish has a more messed up past than German. Though Spanish has a more stable relationship history, she doesnt have an issue with letting go. Its very easy for her to wrap it up with a dude and not think twice about working it out. I told her she has very high standards and her reply is "No, everyone else just has low standards". She is the epitome of cut and dry. There is no in between with her, and I realized that when I was explaining me breaking it off with German.

I noticed a connection with the 2 women. Both are very much and have been in total control of their lives. This stems from trauma and past damage. Since they had no control of the things that happened to them in the past, they feel the need to control eveything else going forward cause of fear. This mentality works great when being successful and driven, hence why both of them are doing ok for themselves. I noticed German had on a really nice watches. I looked at the brand amd it said Hublot. I now ive heard of the name before but didnt know them joints run upwards of 15+ K

As much as German runs away, shes stuck it out longer than Spanish so that must say something

 

[datboi81]

Man GermAsian sounds a lot like my old unstable Guatemalan chick. Dude with you hurting her the way you did, it's too late. She's going to leave you later on and she'll use the excuse you did it to her. She'll flip the script on you and make you feel guilty. Don't do it. Seriously, you've ended it so keep it moving.

I think Spanish will calm down, but in the mean time work on getting yourself back up. Don't focus on these women man. I want to see you back stable so you can flourish in DC forreal back at your own spot!

 

[suberzat1]

What's the move for happy hour today

 

[dropten]

Spanish wont calm down. Shes been going back and forth in her head about me for a lil while. Me not coming back after happy hour was what she needed to convince herself she needed to wrap it up. I would of been walking on egg shells with her.

But yea. I need to focus on me

 

[willypete]

What's the move for happy hour today

It's whatever. After last night I think I may have effed things up with my girl and may need to drink the night away.


Seems like the DC crew is losing our women