No one is really saying that. Rather, they simply don't want to put in the effort. The US offers so much for individuals, so much welfare, so much freebies it ain't even about the government or system anymore. Rather, LOOK at the OPPORTUNITIES as you've said and take advantage of it. As you've said, 'free' education and 'incentives' in the form of grants, scholarships, etc. etc. are abundant.
Now people who don't want to strive or pull themselves out are often the ones that simply don't wanna put in the effort. They are the same ones that CHOOSE to live that lifestyle. No excuses, yet no one is blaming them either. Although it bugs people that actually work, actually pay taxes.