DeadsetAce
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tell her...straight up.
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you, my man, are a patron saint.Originally Posted by Brolic Scholar
Truth, I'm married and ONCE my wife got lazy and started to let herself go and put it straight up to her.
Just like you said your love is conditional, right? Well I asked her, "if I just gave up and got fat and wasn't making moves to better our situation, would you stay with me?" Her honest answer, "no." Then I said "ok, I'm not gonna be married to a fat, out of shape woman. So address the issue or I will." She's in the gym 3-4 times a week now and got a personal trainer.
You gotta be cold about it and if she doesn't change, you gotta move on. We live in a time where the options are damn near limitless. Women and men need to understand this and if they want to keep the one they have, they need be constantly working to do so.
Being cut up into your 60s isn't unrealistic either.
you, my man, are a patron saint.Originally Posted by Brolic Scholar
Truth, I'm married and ONCE my wife got lazy and started to let herself go and put it straight up to her.
Just like you said your love is conditional, right? Well I asked her, "if I just gave up and got fat and wasn't making moves to better our situation, would you stay with me?" Her honest answer, "no." Then I said "ok, I'm not gonna be married to a fat, out of shape woman. So address the issue or I will." She's in the gym 3-4 times a week now and got a personal trainer.
You gotta be cold about it and if she doesn't change, you gotta move on. We live in a time where the options are damn near limitless. Women and men need to understand this and if they want to keep the one they have, they need be constantly working to do so.
Being cut up into your 60s isn't unrealistic either.
Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
Dude i just read through the whole thread.
This is something i noticed with a lot of brothas. We're in the gym getting fit and we settle for girls who either let themselves go physically or gain weight and do nothing about it.
She's lucky. Real lucky. You're a better man than me..one of my cardinal rules is a woman's stomach shouldnt stick out past her *******. If it's as bad as you say, you might need an intervention from a PT homie.
You're an athlete too. damn.
Originally Posted by blackmagnus514
Dude i just read through the whole thread.
This is something i noticed with a lot of brothas. We're in the gym getting fit and we settle for girls who either let themselves go physically or gain weight and do nothing about it.
She's lucky. Real lucky. You're a better man than me..one of my cardinal rules is a woman's stomach shouldnt stick out past her *******. If it's as bad as you say, you might need an intervention from a PT homie.
You're an athlete too. damn.
Don't kill the dude for not wanting to pop a pill to get up for his own woman.Originally Posted by LA KB24
wow i have no answer lol sorry
but really depends if YOU LOVE HER ALOT.....or just by looks
Don't kill the dude for not wanting to pop a pill to get up for his own woman.Originally Posted by LA KB24
wow i have no answer lol sorry
but really depends if YOU LOVE HER ALOT.....or just by looks
Never knew you were TGB. Mind = blownOriginally Posted by MonStar1
Things aren't getting better.
Never knew you were TGB. Mind = blownOriginally Posted by MonStar1
Things aren't getting better.
Originally Posted by ksteezy
lol....honestly, is she overweight or something or is it that your expectations are set too high???....plenty of lazy good looking girls out there, but if what you want is a woman that enjoys a gym just as much as you may then she might not be the best match for you, stop trying to change her, if its not her steez to get off her $$$ and hit the treadmill and you are too shallow to accept that one day she might evolve into a fat $$$ then accept that an move on, find someone better suited for you nd quit wasting yours and her time.
Originally Posted by MonStar1
Things aren't getting better.
Originally Posted by ksteezy
lol....honestly, is she overweight or something or is it that your expectations are set too high???....plenty of lazy good looking girls out there, but if what you want is a woman that enjoys a gym just as much as you may then she might not be the best match for you, stop trying to change her, if its not her steez to get off her $$$ and hit the treadmill and you are too shallow to accept that one day she might evolve into a fat $$$ then accept that an move on, find someone better suited for you nd quit wasting yours and her time.
Originally Posted by MonStar1
Things aren't getting better.