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Like the title says what's the easiest way to get over someone. Just had a rough break up
I have a friend, she specializes in this kind of thing.

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Its tough, I just ended a two year relationship. The first night after she moved out:

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I kept telling myself I'll rather be single than tied down. After the first night with another girl I never really think about my ex. What I learned from this is its all in your head. Just keep positive.
 
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1. Remove everything that reminds u of her.

2. Whatever SOLO activity/activities that u love doing, indulge in it as much as possible for the next few days/weeks
Yup...whatever you enjoy doing, increase that
 
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Seriously, take to several girls at once. If you don't have numbers, go out w the boys and get some.
 
Time and a new focus/hobby like the gym. Take it one day at a time.

This.

Find something engrossing because, if you're like me, working out doesn't require a lot of thought, so I'd still be thinking about it while I was working out. Basketball worked wonders for me. That little 15 - 20 minutes I was on the court, that **** was totally off my mind.

If it hit you in the confidences, try setting small, achievable goals. Just makes you feel better about yourself.
 
Find a hobby. Doesn't necessarily have to be lifting but lifting is good way to better yourself.
Matter of fact, find multiple hobbies. Don't stay in the house, be sure to hang out with friends and stay busy.

You'll still think about her while doing these hobbies but think of them as transitions from focusing on your relationship to focusing on yourself.
Smashing other girls will help temporarily.

At the end of the day, time is your most effective remedy
 
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Find a hobby. Doesn't necessarily have to be lifting but lifting is good way to better yourself.
Matter of fact, find multiple hobbies. Don't stay in the house, be sure to hang out with friends and stay busy.

You'll still think about her while doing these hobbies but think of them as transitions from focusing on your relationship to focusing on yourself.
Smashing other girls will help temporarily.

At the end of the day, time is your most effective remedy
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Get off the internet and interact with the real world is a start
 
pop a perc smoke some purp and just chill!!!! Seriously..... You'll find the right one on the rebound!!! But mark my words,she obviously left you for afor a reason. As long as you didn't brake her heart completely, she'll be back!!! They always come back, just don't be a clinger and play it off for a little bit! Playing the clinger role wile will bounce her forever

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OP's ex?
 
pop a perc smoke some purp and just chill!!!! Seriously..... You'll find the right one on the rebound!!! But mark my words,she obviously left you for afor a reason. As long as you didn't brake her heart completely, she'll be back!!! They always come back, just don't be a clinger and play it off for a little bit! Playing the clinger role wile will bounce her forever


Like why has there been a steady rise in lurkers!?!

Are y'all planning something?
 
If it's fresh. Take a day or two to cry and grieve, a week at the most.

Then focus on 30 days of self improvement, a better you.
 
Write a dope Long *** letter...

Then burn it...

Best feeling in the world.

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Def not planning a Lurk attack, I was just locked out of my account for a long time!! Im an OG I've sold 200 plus pairs of shoes on here and probably got 6-7000 posts. Good looking out to whatever admin got my account straight!!
 
yes famb...

I was reeling, bro... First love straight dogged me...

I was depressed mayne... Lost weight and stuff...

I ended up writing a 14 page letter about all my questions I had, my feelings, my insecurities...

And the farther I made my way down the paper, the more my mood change... I Began to start to call out her faults... Her arguments... My arguments...

At the end of the letter, I felt so good...

I looked at it for a couple hours... Then walked Tony bathroom with a lighter and burned it...

May have been coincidental.. But man... As soon as that last piece of paper was charred...

I felt an entire weight get lifted off my shoulders... I smiled more, I walked with a pop, I looked at myself in the mirror more!

True story bros... I haven't been truly sad (aside from the death of a homey) since then... 4 years in counting...

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OP... lol!!! No comment. Life goes on though homie, I was playing Basketball at a D1 school and had drop out 2 weeks after a brake up and go home because I litterally couldn't see the girl without getting physically sick, During Basketball season.. Physical Activity and travel did absolutly nothing for me. Last option was to leave and stay gone. The day I moved home I went to one of my old "traps" for Monday night beer pong tourney with the homies and met my wife! But 2 months later we'll call her "ol girl" was blowing up the spot. So i sat down for a year and finished up at a small mid major and lifes been good since. It's the routine and inititial shock you half to get over, its almost physically sickening I know can't get it out of your mind, can't sleep or eat. Nothing makes sense. Dont drop bottoms with her bff or worst enemy, revenge may sound good but it's not! No sobby FB comments, just continue with life. She'll be back or you'll find better.
 
yes famb...

I was reeling, bro... First love straight dogged me...

I was depressed mayne... Lost weight and stuff...

I ended up writing a 14 page letter about all my questions I had, my feelings, my insecurities...

And the farther I made my way down the paper, the more my mood change... I Began to start to call out her faults... Her arguments... My arguments...

At the end of the letter, I felt so good...

I looked at it for a couple hours... Then walked Tony bathroom with a lighter and burned it...

May have been coincidental.. But man... As soon as that last piece of paper was charred...

I felt an entire weight get lifted off my shoulders... I smiled more, I walked with a pop, I looked at myself in the mirror more!

True story bros... I haven't been truly sad (aside from the death of a homey) since then... 4 years in counting...

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sounds like an ending to a movie :lol :hat
 
yes famb...

I was reeling, bro... First love straight dogged me...

I was depressed mayne... Lost weight and stuff...

I ended up writing a 14 page letter about all my questions I had, my feelings, my insecurities...

And the farther I made my way down the paper, the more my mood change... I Began to start to call out her faults... Her arguments... My arguments...

At the end of the letter, I felt so good...

I looked at it for a couple hours... Then walked Tony bathroom with a lighter and burned it...

May have been coincidental.. But man... As soon as that last piece of paper was charred...

I felt an entire weight get lifted off my shoulders... I smiled more, I walked with a pop, I looked at myself in the mirror more!

True story bros... I haven't been truly sad (aside from the death of a homey) since then... 4 years in counting...

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Bo you need to see a shrink. I bet the next time that letter idea doesn't work, you'll be at her doorstep with a gun... J/s
 
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