- 1,189
- 10
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2008
for me, it just happened.
Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: this_feature_currently_requires_accessing_site_using_safari
for some it is.Originally Posted by mostofthetime
It's really not that hard to be with just one person. I think a lot of guys are just so full of themselves. You all talk about females being entitled but don't realize how your sense of entitlement shines through thinking sleeping around is okay. Yet, chicks are the grimey ones. Nawth is right, you need to upfront with yourself and with girls you're thinking about dating. There's nothing attractive about a man that's so insecure with himself that he needs to justify himself with having sidepieces. Either you can be committed or you can't, but you can't be dragging honest, dedicated girls down with you.
for some it is.Originally Posted by mostofthetime
It's really not that hard to be with just one person. I think a lot of guys are just so full of themselves. You all talk about females being entitled but don't realize how your sense of entitlement shines through thinking sleeping around is okay. Yet, chicks are the grimey ones. Nawth is right, you need to upfront with yourself and with girls you're thinking about dating. There's nothing attractive about a man that's so insecure with himself that he needs to justify himself with having sidepieces. Either you can be committed or you can't, but you can't be dragging honest, dedicated girls down with you.
so why lie to them and not tell them the truth instead of cheating?Originally Posted by AntonLaVey
for some it is.Originally Posted by mostofthetime
It's really not that hard to be with just one person. I think a lot of guys are just so full of themselves. You all talk about females being entitled but don't realize how your sense of entitlement shines through thinking sleeping around is okay. Yet, chicks are the grimey ones. Nawth is right, you need to upfront with yourself and with girls you're thinking about dating. There's nothing attractive about a man that's so insecure with himself that he needs to justify himself with having sidepieces. Either you can be committed or you can't, but you can't be dragging honest, dedicated girls down with you.
Is it at all possible, that guys sleep around and have side-pieces cause it "feels good"?People stay trivializing relatively simple concepts to death. It takes will power for a man to be loyal to one woman because let's be honest it isn't his natural instinct. If I'm with a woman, she would be naive to think I'm not looking at other women with lustful eyes. Some men act on it, some don't.
so why lie to them and not tell them the truth instead of cheating?Originally Posted by AntonLaVey
for some it is.Originally Posted by mostofthetime
It's really not that hard to be with just one person. I think a lot of guys are just so full of themselves. You all talk about females being entitled but don't realize how your sense of entitlement shines through thinking sleeping around is okay. Yet, chicks are the grimey ones. Nawth is right, you need to upfront with yourself and with girls you're thinking about dating. There's nothing attractive about a man that's so insecure with himself that he needs to justify himself with having sidepieces. Either you can be committed or you can't, but you can't be dragging honest, dedicated girls down with you.
Is it at all possible, that guys sleep around and have side-pieces cause it "feels good"?People stay trivializing relatively simple concepts to death. It takes will power for a man to be loyal to one woman because let's be honest it isn't his natural instinct. If I'm with a woman, she would be naive to think I'm not looking at other women with lustful eyes. Some men act on it, some don't.
Usually both but it's easier if it's never made clear that you're mutually exclusive or that you do make it clear that you're not mutually exclusive.Originally Posted by KnowledgeTheFoundation
Was it premeditated in your mind that you were going to cheat on your bf/gf or did it "just happen"?
Usually both but it's easier if it's never made clear that you're mutually exclusive or that you do make it clear that you're not mutually exclusive.Originally Posted by KnowledgeTheFoundation
Was it premeditated in your mind that you were going to cheat on your bf/gf or did it "just happen"?
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
so why lie to them and not tell them the truth instead of cheating?Originally Posted by AntonLaVey
for some it is.Originally Posted by mostofthetime
It's really not that hard to be with just one person. I think a lot of guys are just so full of themselves. You all talk about females being entitled but don't realize how your sense of entitlement shines through thinking sleeping around is okay. Yet, chicks are the grimey ones. Nawth is right, you need to upfront with yourself and with girls you're thinking about dating. There's nothing attractive about a man that's so insecure with himself that he needs to justify himself with having sidepieces. Either you can be committed or you can't, but you can't be dragging honest, dedicated girls down with you.
Is it at all possible, that guys sleep around and have side-pieces cause it "feels good"?People stay trivializing relatively simple concepts to death. It takes will power for a man to be loyal to one woman because let's be honest it isn't his natural instinct. If I'm with a woman, she would be naive to think I'm not looking at other women with lustful eyes. Some men act on it, some don't.
that's the heart of the argument...not that you can't be with more than one person.
Originally Posted by Dirtylicious
so why lie to them and not tell them the truth instead of cheating?Originally Posted by AntonLaVey
for some it is.Originally Posted by mostofthetime
It's really not that hard to be with just one person. I think a lot of guys are just so full of themselves. You all talk about females being entitled but don't realize how your sense of entitlement shines through thinking sleeping around is okay. Yet, chicks are the grimey ones. Nawth is right, you need to upfront with yourself and with girls you're thinking about dating. There's nothing attractive about a man that's so insecure with himself that he needs to justify himself with having sidepieces. Either you can be committed or you can't, but you can't be dragging honest, dedicated girls down with you.
Is it at all possible, that guys sleep around and have side-pieces cause it "feels good"?People stay trivializing relatively simple concepts to death. It takes will power for a man to be loyal to one woman because let's be honest it isn't his natural instinct. If I'm with a woman, she would be naive to think I'm not looking at other women with lustful eyes. Some men act on it, some don't.
that's the heart of the argument...not that you can't be with more than one person.
Originally Posted by Falcon4567
How? Koudie said whenever he goes into a relationship he knows it's it an inevitability. It makes no sense at all that if you think like that that there would be any reasons to continue pursuing a committed relationship with anyone since you're just going to be stepping out. That's like saying "Man, whenever I order a steak I know I'm never gonna finish it" and then ordering a rib-eye. You know you're going to do this; you know it's not right and you know you're going to end up hurting someone so why even bother putting yourself in that position? Why not just not have a girlfriend and just see women casually.Originally Posted by ooIRON MANoo
You are trying to simplify a complicated matter.Originally Posted by Falcon4567
But then why bother with even attempting a relationship in the first place? Why not just never bother getting a girlfriend?
Originally Posted by Falcon4567
How? Koudie said whenever he goes into a relationship he knows it's it an inevitability. It makes no sense at all that if you think like that that there would be any reasons to continue pursuing a committed relationship with anyone since you're just going to be stepping out. That's like saying "Man, whenever I order a steak I know I'm never gonna finish it" and then ordering a rib-eye. You know you're going to do this; you know it's not right and you know you're going to end up hurting someone so why even bother putting yourself in that position? Why not just not have a girlfriend and just see women casually.Originally Posted by ooIRON MANoo
You are trying to simplify a complicated matter.Originally Posted by Falcon4567
But then why bother with even attempting a relationship in the first place? Why not just never bother getting a girlfriend?