The problem is that men, damned near all men actually, think that they hold the keys to a woman self esteem. When a dude decides to call a woman attractive, men think that a woman is supposed to automatically capitulate, lie prostrate, then inviting the man to her. I saw this the other day where this sister was sharp, pulled together, exceptionally well dressed. This dude who looked like he was homeless tried to pick her up, told her that she was attractive, and she ignored him. Then the dude yelled out GOD BLESS YOU! WE know why he did this, because most people who try this are actually hoping that this pitiful god is going to put HER in her place, so that he can try and control her feelings, accepting his compliments, acknowledging him.
Unfortunately, she said thank you. I was disappointed, because I was hoping that she would continue to ignore this bummy mofo, and his puny god.