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but is she 22... had kids before you been married before you and on to a third relationship all by the age of 22
"Demarco Murray was having an affair with my wife" - Ex-teammate, Brennan Clay
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Nah, a chick in her 30's will likely have learned from experience and not be in her "making mistakes" phase like a late teen/22 year old with a kid would be......So once the girl hits a golden age number she's good?
Yall need to read what you type out loud before hitting reply
I'm speaking on experience.... so enlighten me with yours.
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mr marcus
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I never said a chick was in this scenario either. This lady has TWO kids.....I said if she had 'em outta wedlock then that's a red flag.Not really Im just saying my girl has my kid we not married and she's not a bust down .. that's allI'm convinced you live an alternative lifestyle and I say that with all due respect.Someone said unless the woman had those kids in wedlock then she is a bust down. Now it's if she had those kids during a marriage but is now divorced she's silll a bust down. Which goes back to my original statement, if a woman has kids men think she's damaged good it doesn't matter if she had those kids during a marriage or not.what... who is talking about a married woman building a family being damaged goods.?Exhibit A, like I said don't matter if a woman had kids during a marriage or not yall think its damaged goods
are you talking about knocked up twice and divorced before 22 years old..... that's a red flag then.
"Kids out of wedlock" doesn't mean anything.
your post are just...it's the only explanation.
You said "well what if she was married" and I said then that's cool but why did she get married again.....no matter how you look at this particular chick she is a walking red flag. This simp got played because he put her on a pedestal.
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You wont take her srs because she has kids at a early age, what if she doesnt want you to play step dad & just wants a good dude in her life, her "bad decisions" wont make you do that, she has to be in her 30s right?
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Nobody is calling these women bad, they're saying due to what they know of their sexual history they're hos.
Now whether hos are bad or not is subjective imo.
Now whether hos are bad or not is subjective imo.
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exactly chick basically had 2 kids before she had a high school diploma... and folks sitting up here saying a chick who gotta get someone to babysit their TWO kids in order to go to prom is the same as a grown woman who was married and had a committed relationship with a husband....lol
Are ppl really saying chicks who have a build a bear family by graduation is the same as a grown women having kids with a husband and things didnt work out
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I'm insecure because I won't take her serious?
Do you even know how much time and energy a kid takes? let alone two of them?
and she has time to date... and she's not worried about the guy she's starting a relationship with having a relationship towards her kids?
That's just more red flags
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lol @ build a bear family
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Teen pregnancy = ho?
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Once again i'm not speaking on your personal flags/judgements i'm talking about the overall attitude in general of many men nowadays looking to put down woman at all cost. I could understand dudes despising chicks who are out here tryna **** ball players for a come up, **** them they ain't part of this.
I'm talking more on the overall attitude i've been seeing in general from men which want to shame woman for damn near everything. She got a tight dress on she's a how, she takes to many pics she's a ***, she talked to more than two ****** in the same country she a ***.
It's getting to a point where some of these men are damn near hating women, that's a real *****made attitude IMO, once again i'm not speaking directly about your preferences i'm just trying to advance the convo.
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Late 20s w/ a kid is where I flourish.
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exactly... dudes just trying to make any scenario to justify caping and saving ohs....
I dont care how you try to word it spin it... a chick who damn near has a family before graduating high school has made poor decisions... and wasnt in any form of a long term committed relationship period.
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idk man i aint fittna wife up a chick or be serious with one that has 2 kids by 22. **** that. And if he has dam near grown kids in her 30s then theres a lot to consider. ***** was proly a *** bigtime call me insecure but **** that.
Its hard to read this thread. Dudes posting a lot o non sense and thread is moving to fast.
But yeah this ***** is a ***.
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Idk when all these Ns gonna realize, these thotties are for everyone breh.....**** just looking for the next comeup always..Smash, Dash & stack ur bread up/find your true purpose, women usually send good cats off track
Also wanna send a shoutout to all my "Herbivore" Ns out in japan, them dudes are really bout that F B**es get money life....it'll catch on in the U.S. once every dude has been fleeced to the point where they actually switch up their thinking. Gotta straight ignore these money grubbers & just get what you want from em (yambs)
Also wanna send a shoutout to all my "Herbivore" Ns out in japan, them dudes are really bout that F B**es get money life....it'll catch on in the U.S. once every dude has been fleeced to the point where they actually switch up their thinking. Gotta straight ignore these money grubbers & just get what you want from em (yambs)
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You are trying to bring in other elements to this conversation...
stop saying "these days" "nowadays".... this is one of the most liberal times for women in human history... dudes is wifing strippers and former escorts like nothing.... You should be happy with the actual progress these liberated women have made.
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So if they have kids when they're in their 20s = red flag
But if they somehow survive to live onto their 30s = godsend? (30 plus single mothers do come off it with the quickness doe)
Theres "good" os?
How that work?
mr marcus
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bruh you so off topic......you're bringing in **** that was never discussed in this thread.
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Bruh.... you try to convince me that dating a chick who had two kids by 20 years old is ok...Those be the dudes that think they got a "good girl" too
when you can't do that, you try to diss my dating preferences by insinuating im not dating a "good girl"....
c'mon b.... its rediculous
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Ehhhhhhhhhh... She was with another dude for YEARS. The guy didn't marry her but still. And she's been with Brennan since at least 2012, cuz he was talking about her being there for him during a tough season.
How is she a bust down, when as far as you know she's slept with three people.
You can call her a "bust down" for cheating, definitely,
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maybe not but two kids as a teen.... no way i associate that with a person who makes wise choices... nor doing what is in the best interest for herself or the kids... Like what kinda substantial life can you provide TWO kids and basically bring two in highschool...? How is this not a sign of poor judgement and making poor decisions? Hell she at 22 isnt providing and taking care of herself... but yet it was wise and she could do it as a teen lol im come on really.
Im flabbergasted dudes are saying it isnt a red flag or poor judgement to have 2 kids in highschool moved on been married and headed for another relationship by your 21st bday.
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22 - 2 years married = 20....
2 kids = 1.5 year gestation and another 6 months rest period in between at the minumum....
So the oldest she was when she first got pregnant had to be 18.....
c'mon b.... she had a highschool relationship bruh... that don't even count
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I'd say their both red flags but the older chick is most likely done with her ***-ing phase (not 100% either) and just wants a guy thats actually gonna treat her right...but cmon what N really wants to be captain save a thot?
