Confessions

[bluexsneakerhead]

i'm 21 in less than 3 weeks. i've been extremely sheltered by my strict asian parents my entire life. sure, i partied alot, smoked, drank alot, had sex, but i feel like i haven't LIVED.

i have an 8pm curfew, am expected to have that "find my friends" application activated at all times, and my parents always ask who i'm with if i'm hanging out with friends. shoot, my parents won't let me do my own thing when we're shopping together

i've never been out until 3 in the morning, i've never been to EDC/coachella (lame as this sounds, going to either is on my bucketlist), i've never been to an anime convention. they're lame things i want to do eventually.

i've never done drugs, and i've been excelling in school all my life. i'm almost done with college. but somehow, my parents still don't trust me. living and learning is part of growing up, no?

my friends and my dude encourage me to try new things, and i'm thankful for that.

it's just that seeing my peers do very memorable things makes me EXTREMELY envious. sometimes it makes me cry.

 

[Remy LeBeau]

i'm 21 in less than 3 weeks. i've been extremely sheltered by my strict asian parents my entire life. sure, i partied alot, smoked, drank alot, had sex, but i feel like i haven't LIVED.

i have an 8pm curfew, am expected to have that "find my friends" application activated at all times, and my parents always ask who i'm with if i'm hanging out with friends. shoot, my parents won't let me do my own thing when we're shopping together

i've never been out until 3 in the morning, i've never been to EDC/coachella (lame as this sounds, going to either is on my bucketlist), i've never been to an anime convention. they're lame things i want to do eventually.

i've never done drugs, and i've been excelling in school all my life. i'm almost done with college. but somehow, my parents still don't trust me. living and learning is part of growing up, no?

my friends and my dude encourage me to try new things, and i'm thankful for that.

it's just that seeing my peers do very memorable things makes me EXTREMELY envious. sometimes it makes me cry.

You need to move out

 

[girlslovewaffles]

i'm 21 in less than 3 weeks. i've been extremely sheltered by my strict asian parents my entire life. sure, i partied alot, smoked, drank alot, had sex, but i feel like i haven't LIVED.

i have an 8pm curfew, am expected to have that "find my friends" application activated at all times, and my parents always ask who i'm with if i'm hanging out with friends. shoot, my parents won't let me do my own thing when we're shopping together

i've never been out until 3 in the morning, i've never been to EDC/coachella (lame as this sounds, going to either is on my bucketlist), i've never been to an anime convention. they're lame things i want to do eventually.

i've never done drugs, and i've been excelling in school all my life. i'm almost done with college. but somehow, my parents still don't trust me. living and learning is part of growing up, no?

my friends and my dude encourage me to try new things, and i'm thankful for that.

it's just that seeing my peers do very memorable things makes me EXTREMELY envious. sometimes it makes me cry.

Put shrooms in their food.

 

[sunshineblotters]

i'm 21 in less than 3 weeks. i've been extremely sheltered by my strict asian parents my entire life. sure, i partied alot, smoked, drank alot, had sex, but i feel like i haven't LIVED.

i have an 8pm curfew, am expected to have that "find my friends" application activated at all times, and my parents always ask who i'm with if i'm hanging out with friends. shoot, my parents won't let me do my own thing when we're shopping together

i've never been out until 3 in the morning, i've never been to EDC/coachella (lame as this sounds, going to either is on my bucketlist), i've never been to an anime convention. they're lame things i want to do eventually.

i've never done drugs, and i've been excelling in school all my life. i'm almost done with college. but somehow, my parents still don't trust me. living and learning is part of growing up, no?

my friends and my dude encourage me to try new things, and i'm thankful for that.

it's just that seeing my peers do very memorable things makes me EXTREMELY envious. sometimes it makes me cry.

My Nigerian parents/aunt and uncle are the same way. I moved out and that was the best decision of my life. I am back at my aunts house until I can get a real job. I cant wait till I get back out

 

[mgrand15]

i'm 21 in less than 3 weeks. i've been extremely sheltered by my strict asian parents my entire life. sure, i partied alot, smoked, drank alot, had sex, but i feel like i haven't LIVED.

i have an 8pm curfew, am expected to have that "find my friends" application activated at all times, and my parents always ask who i'm with if i'm hanging out with friends. shoot, my parents won't let me do my own thing when we're shopping together

i've never been out until 3 in the morning, i've never been to EDC/coachella (lame as this sounds, going to either is on my bucketlist), i've never been to an anime convention. they're lame things i want to do eventually.

i've never done drugs, and i've been excelling in school all my life. i'm almost done with college. but somehow, my parents still don't trust me. living and learning is part of growing up, no?

my friends and my dude encourage me to try new things, and i'm thankful for that.

it's just that seeing my peers do very memorable things makes me EXTREMELY envious. sometimes it makes me cry.

I know how Asian parents are but you should talk to them. At 21 - if you're getting really good grades - they should be okay with letting you free.

Also, I completely agree with the bolded statement. I'm the same way

 

[joepac12]

Damn 8pm curfew. That would ruin my life. Your damn near grown. U better find a job that will allow you to get a apt. That's no way to live. At 21 I was in college acting a fool. U made the mistake of going to a school close to your parents house

 

[girlslovewaffles]

8PM curfew? 21 years old?

COT DAMN!

 

[DCAllAfrican]

I was in Afton, Virginia.

I am free this summer.


Can you tell me where you stayed? So I can google some directions.

 

[SC kid]

8 pm curfew

*****? Lol

Is yo peeps north korean or sum s***?

It hurts to break that bond...but it must be done.
They wont understand because they cant.
Just do it.

 

[lamekilla]

I think I'm still in love with my ex

Nothing to deep here just a girl who is naive and a guy who is partially heartbroken. Ill try and keep it short but their was a girl I grew up with in my neighborhood. She was really pretty and had this long hair everyone was in love with but she was overweight. It was no secret that she had a crush on me but I never looked at her like that. She was just a good friend. Both her parents were in the military and her dad was over seas. Once her mom had to go over seas she had to go live with her grandmother. It sucked but she told me we would keep in contact. We messaged on FB a few times but ultimately didnt hear or see each other for 5 years. Over the course of those 5 years I grew up, a lot. Having sex, smoking green, partying in college, everything someone in their early 20's would do. She moved back into my neighborhood and I was home from college. Her parents were pretty much officially stationed overseas so they let her live in their house by herself. When I saw her I was shocked! She had lost 96 pounds and looked like a supermodel. She would attract so much attention but I wouldn't think anything of it because she was the same chubby girl I grew up with who would try to get me to open her pickle jar. Our great friendship turned into a relationship and the next thing you know that L word gets tossed around and we start talking about marriage. To wrap this up and not go into excruciating detail we dated for two years. Little trust issues would pop up toward her because I would see dudes acting mad thirsty on IG and FB. She couldn't go anywhere without coming back with a story about how some random dude at the grocery store begged her for her number. I trusted her, I didn't trust the other dudes. I found out she cheated on me. She cried, she begged and I left. I haven't spoken to her in 2 months and her pride won't let her contact me back because of the things is said to her. She lives in my neighborhood so I see her SUV all the time but now we're complete strangers. Life is crazy

 

[girlslovewaffles]

I was in Afton, Virginia.

I am free this summer.


Can you tell me where you stayed? So I can google some directions.

Ditto!

 

[girlslovewaffles]

I think I'm still in love with my ex

Nothing to deep here just a girl who is naive and a guy who is partially heartbroken. Ill try and keep it short but their was a girl I grew up with in my neighborhood. She was really pretty and had this long hair everyone was in love with but she was overweight. It was no secret that she had a crush on me but I never looked at her like that. She was just a good friend. Both her parents were in the military and her dad was over seas. Once her mom had to go over seas she had to go live with her grandmother. It sucked but she told me we would keep in contact. We messaged on FB a few times but ultimately didnt hear or see each other for 5 years. Over the course of those 5 years I grew up, a lot. Having sex, smoking green, partying in college, everything someone in their early 20's would do. She moved back into my neighborhood and I was home from college. Her parents were pretty much officially stationed overseas so they let her live in their house by herself. When I saw her I was shocked! She had lost 96 pounds and looked like a supermodel. She would attract so much attention but I wouldn't think anything of it because she was the same chubby girl I grew up with who would try to get me to open her pickle jar. Our great friendship turned into a relationship and the next thing you know that L word gets tossed around and we start talking about marriage. To wrap this up and not go into excruciating detail we dated for two years. Little trust issues would pop up toward her because I would see dudes acting mad thirsty on IG and FB. She couldn't go anywhere without coming back with a story about how some random dude at the grocery store begged her for her number. I trusted her, I didn't trust the other dudes. I found out she cheated on me. She cried, she begged and I left. I haven't spoken to her in 2 months and her pride won't let her contact me back because of the things is said to her. She lives in my neighborhood so I see her SUV all the time but now we're complete strangers. Life is crazy

**** your ex. Sorry but it needs to be said.

Go find yourself another woman who is worthy of your time and attention.

 

[sir charles]

I was in Afton, Virginia.

I am free this summer.


Can you tell me where you stayed? So I can google some directions.

Ditto!

My family owns property down there, it belonged to a relative that died of cancer. But, the house I was in is dorectly next to a resort called Wintergreen. Here is their website, I are breakfast here a few times.

http://www.wintergreenresort.com/

 

[gregzzy23]

I think I'm still in love with my ex

Nothing to deep here just a girl who is naive and a guy who is partially heartbroken. Ill try and keep it short but their was a girl I grew up with in my neighborhood. She was really pretty and had this long hair everyone was in love with but she was overweight. It was no secret that she had a crush on me but I never looked at her like that. She was just a good friend. Both her parents were in the military and her dad was over seas. Once her mom had to go over seas she had to go live with her grandmother. It sucked but she told me we would keep in contact. We messaged on FB a few times but ultimately didnt hear or see each other for 5 years. Over the course of those 5 years I grew up, a lot. Having sex, smoking green, partying in college, everything someone in their early 20's would do. She moved back into my neighborhood and I was home from college. Her parents were pretty much officially stationed overseas so they let her live in their house by herself. When I saw her I was shocked! She had lost 96 pounds and looked like a supermodel. She would attract so much attention but I wouldn't think anything of it because she was the same chubby girl I grew up with who would try to get me to open her pickle jar. Our great friendship turned into a relationship and the next thing you know that L word gets tossed around and we start talking about marriage. To wrap this up and not go into excruciating detail we dated for two years. Little trust issues would pop up toward her because I would see dudes acting mad thirsty on IG and FB. She couldn't go anywhere without coming back with a story about how some random dude at the grocery store begged her for her number. I trusted her, I didn't trust the other dudes. I found out she cheated on me. She cried, she begged and I left. I haven't spoken to her in 2 months and her pride won't let her contact me back because of the things is said to her. She lives in my neighborhood so I see her SUV all the time but now we're complete strangers. Life is crazy

sorry man. so a couple months passed and she hasnt hit u up? leave that in the past

 

[lamekilla]

**** your ex. Sorry but it needs to be said.

Go find yourself another woman who is worthy of your time and attention.

sorry man. so a couple months passed and she hasnt hit u up? leave that in the past

Words from the wise. Thanks guys I appreciate it. It's getting easier everyday but its tough acting like a person is dead to you. It's all good. Atlanta night life treats me well

 

[Mark Antony]

I'm sure she's thinking of you, but a chick I plan a future with cheating is unforgiveable to me.

 

[Velle47]

I honestly don't think I'm happy in the relationship I'm currently in, but I'm scared of starting over.

 

[girlslovewaffles]

I'm sure she's thinking of you, but a chick I plan a future with cheating is unforgiveable to me.

This.

Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. A leopard ain't going to change it's spots man, move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[sunshineblotters]

I honestly don't think I'm happy in the relationship I'm currently in, but I'm scared of starting over.

A lot of people my age are the same way. But you just have to leave. If you are unhappy it is going to end anyway so why cheat yourself out of opportunities to find someone you would be happy with? You cant get that time back.

 

[Coupé It]

i'm 21 in less than 3 weeks. i've been extremely sheltered by my strict asian parents my entire life. sure, i partied alot, smoked, drank alot, had sex, but i feel like i haven't LIVED.

i have an 8pm curfew, am expected to have that "find my friends" application activated at all times, and my parents always ask who i'm with if i'm hanging out with friends. shoot, my parents won't let me do my own thing when we're shopping together

i've never been out until 3 in the morning, i've never been to EDC/coachella (lame as this sounds, going to either is on my bucketlist), i've never been to an anime convention. they're lame things i want to do eventually.

i've never done drugs, and i've been excelling in school all my life. i'm almost done with college. but somehow, my parents still don't trust me. living and learning is part of growing up, no?

my friends and my dude encourage me to try new things, and i'm thankful for that.

it's just that seeing my peers do very memorable things makes me EXTREMELY envious. sometimes it makes me cry.

Dude you need to take a year or at least half a year off and just explore, do everything you've always wanted to and keep a far distance from your parents in the meantime. You're right, you're not living.

You're suppose to be doing this in college!!

 

[Velle47]

A lot of people my age are the same way. But you just have to leave. If you are unhappy it is going to end anyway so why cheat yourself out of opportunities to find someone you would be happy with? You cant get that time back.

you're right. I don't want to hurt her I guess

 

[rusty shackelford]

As far as women and love go, I feel like I can't win. The only girl I like has been with some dude for like a year and a half, and she's in love with him. All my friends have past me sexually, they've all had sex or had girl friends, and I haven't had either.

 

[bluexsneakerhead]

I know how Asian parents are but you should talk to them. At 21 - if you're getting really good grades - they should be okay with letting you free.

Also, I completely agree with the bolded statement. I'm the same way

i mean i kinda understand their pov because i'm an only child, and i'm a girl. however, they kinda OD i already did everything they're afraid of me doing... besides drugs.

Damn 8pm curfew. That would ruin my life. Your damn near grown. U better find a job that will allow you to get a apt. That's no way to live. At 21 I was in college acting a fool. U made the mistake of going to a school close to your parents house

Dude you need to take a year or at least half a year off and just explore, do everything you've always wanted to and keep a far distance from your parents in the meantime. You're right, you're not living.

You're suppose to be doing this in college!!

i went to a uni in socal for 2.5 years. i transferred to uc berkeley, which is 15 minutes away from home. i needed to get help for depression and pops was recently diagnosed as diabetic, so i decided to transfer. in socal i had all the freedom i wanted to an extent. i just didn't have the drive and energy to do anything besides study. now that i'm feeling better for the most part, i just wish i had more freedom back at home. my parents don't understand that being around people who make me happy is the key for a healthy recovery.

 

[lamekilla]

I'm sure she's thinking of you, but a chick I plan a future with cheating is unforgiveable to me.

Exactly. Do you know how many yambs I turned down for that broad?! It took everything within me to remain monogamous and I was happy. That was the first girl I ever considered marrying and I was content. She was my best friend and now we don't even speak. I'm living the dog life for a while. One night stands and bangin chicks who dont even tell me their last names

 

[hennessy beach]

I'm sure she's thinking of you, but a chick I plan a future with cheating is unforgiveable to me.

Exactly. Do you know how many yambs I turned down for that broad?! It took everything within me to remain monogamous and I was happy. That was the first girl I ever considered marrying and I was content. She was my best friend and now we don't even speak. I'm living the dog life for a while. One night stands and bangin chicks who dont even tell me their last names

It takes a lot for a man to put his full effort into something...so in reality we end up hurt more than the girl.  It's why we put up these walls and just get with mad different girls.

If it's meant to be yall will end up at friends at the least.  Just some bad blood right now, hold ya head, do you, and slowly work your way back into shortys life if she's the one.