Interesting POV.
Personally, I don't agree.
My lived experience is more like this:
I live in the DMV and have experienced it from African men and women, from Ethiopia, Eritrea, and Nigeria.
Sometimes covert, sometimes overt. We cool up to a certain point, but eventually it comes out one way or another.
And before anyone says it... spare me the "not all" logical fallacy.
It's only natural. I don't take it personally.
People are just people, and even if I never had these experiences, I still wouldn't forsake my own identity and culture for anyone else's.
I'm extremely proud of who I am and where I come from.
Our Fathers are buried right here on this soil.
I don't need validation from any other culture and definitely ain't looking for a daddy.

Imagine a Black American moving to Abuja and making an afrobeat song/video titled "Booty Scratcher."
Only in America, Fam.