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Hell yeah I'm serious. I think Domestic issues are not put REALLY in the open. I've seen long lasting marriages from some domesticviolences. It's an issue that doesn't get brought to the open. I'm gonna be real with NT. My dad beat on my mom when he was younger. He beat metoo. In fact, has anybody on NT seen their pops or mom get hit and they still have a good marriage? I never understood it until I grew up. But people are undera lot of stress. People can change. My dad wouldn't dare lay hands on my mom NOW. He has acknowledge that he is wrong. and if he tries he has two grown essson stopping that nonscense.My mom and dad's relationship going on 35 years is better than a newlywed couple. That's why I said she's weak. Awoman may be part of the problem too. If a man beats her for no reason, just for the sake of control, then he's trippin. People like to put their solutionin black and white. But lets say you love your BF like crazy and then 1 day he decides to lay hands on you because you push his buttons. Will YOU truthfullydrop him? He is perfect to you as a BF except he lay hands on you once. BTW I'm not promoting domestic violence. I'm saying woman are just as abusiveas men, and they should give their man a chance unless he's the type of dude that is psycho, and will go off on you anytime.Originally Posted by mytmouse76
Originally Posted by FromThaTown
Seriously, I haven't lay hands on my girl, but I always think in the back of my mind if I did, and she calls it quits. She's hella weak. Especially when it's her fault too. I ain't gonna lay hands on my girl unless she was really insulting me in the most degradable way. Americans tend to think that Men beating on women is all the man's fault. When really, women use that to their advantage, and they just pick up that phone to call 911 to get their men in trouble.
she weak if she breaks up with you after you hit her????? serious???? maybe i'm reading it wrong...