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You guys are pretty dense. She ruined her life in a sense she's made things really hard for herself and she's not going live the life we all know she wanted for herself.
1. She has a good job for a single young person but that's before the baby. Babies cost bread.
2. She is still single, no man for comfort through this pregnancy
3. She has to deal with ol' boy for the rest of her life. That's drama and stress
4. She has to raise a child without a father. That's added stress and money
5. Her dating pool just shrunk cuz some dudes don't wanna deal with her kid and baby daddy
6. She had ideas of being an entrepreneur and that's probably never gonna happen.
It's not like she's bringing a puppy home. Things done changed.
hold on...Why did she ruin her life? Why did you make this thread?
It isn't too far-fetched to believe that her motivation behind getting pregnant or falling for such "low life" scum isn't that far removed for why you made this thread in the first place - insecurity.
No one needs to be validated by the actions of another; neither should one use the actions of another to make themselves feel better. There's nothing good that can come from either one. In your case, she saw that you were nothing but a little boy and kept it moving. And well she was right.
Worry about yourself first. There's some baggage there you have to throw out OP. Before you ruin your life.
You guys are pretty dense. She ruined her life in a sense she's made things really hard for herself and she's not going live the life we all know she wanted for herself.
1. She has a good job for a single young person but that's before the baby. Babies cost bread.
2. She is still single, no man for comfort through this pregnancy
3. She has to deal with ol' boy for the rest of her life. That's drama and stress
4. She has to raise a child without a father. That's added stress and money
5. Her dating pool just shrunk cuz some dudes don't wanna deal with her kid and baby daddy
6. She had ideas of being an entrepreneur and that's probably never gonna happen.
It's not like she's bringing a puppy home. Things done changed.
when you see potential stop itself before it gets off the ground, that doesn't bother you?Again I ask, why do you care if you're NOT the father and you're NOT her guy tho
Again I ask, why do you care if you're NOT the father and you're NOT her guy tho
Who are you to say she ruined her life?
right. Having a kid means ruining your life? If so, i cant wait to ruin mine. haha The guy is a lame, who cares... it's her choice, stop reasoning it out and wasting your time on the situation.
forget her, get a white girl. Ultimate revenge.
THIS...forget her, get a white girl. Ultimate revenge.
AND THIS...She just sounds like the typical ******* with a good job.
Revenge on who???
Exactly Lol dudes don't even read. Honest I shouldn't have brought up race but it is a factor. On one hand we as black men get mad at black women for having unreal expectations of a man. We say they want dudes that are ballin' financially and/or in social status. When in reality a lot of good dudes aren't ballin'. We claim they don't date realistically and need to lower their standards from that athlete or doctor or perfect Christian. But then a lot of times when these successful black women start to lower their unreal standards they go too low. Like in this case. That's why you see so many single black mothers. A lot of times they choose the wrong dude to mate with. That's not the man's fault. He got the yambs and will continue to be a loser. She lost for not seeing that was gonna happen.
Do other races of women do this? Yes and no. A lot of chicks with bread will look down on regular dudes on some snobby type stuff and they miss out on good dudes. But they usually don't date "down" especially after a certain age. It happens but not as much as in the black community due to a myriad of factors. Black women have a hard time finding a good dude that's right for them which is sad. Too many children getting brought into this world without a stable home.
Sorry for being lame......
You guys are pretty dense. She ruined her life in a sense she's made things really hard for herself and she's not going live the life we all know she wanted for herself.
1. She has a good job for a single young person but that's before the baby. Babies cost bread.
2. She is still single, no man for comfort through this pregnancy
3. She has to deal with ol' boy for the rest of her life. That's drama and stress
4. She has to raise a child without a father. That's added stress and money
5. Her dating pool just shrunk cuz some dudes don't wanna deal with her kid and baby daddy
6. She had ideas of being an entrepreneur and that's probably never gonna happen.
It's not like she's bringing a puppy home. Things done changed.
Bro, despite all of this, her life is not ruined. Of course things changed. She can still be a successful woman. I am not the one who is being dense here. There are plenty of strong women who have raised a child by themselves and still attained a great amount of success in life. Stress is a part of life(self induced or not), as long as she is able to adapt to the situation she put herself in then she will be fine. The baby might even motivate her to work harder and move into a higher position at work. You never know. You shouldn't be so quick to label her as a ruined life is all I am saying. It's not in your place to say that or anybody's.
heck no, brah... bring the race into it.. too many times, we side step race to protect black people... sometimes, we need to be criticial of the GENERAL IDEOLOGY of our people... i know its not right to paint a broad brush, but keep it real...Exactly Lol dudes don't even read. Honest I shouldn't have brought up race but it is a factor. On one hand we as black men get mad at black women for having unreal expectations of a man. We say they want dudes that are ballin' financially and/or in social status. When in reality a lot of good dudes aren't ballin'. We claim they don't date realistically and need to lower their standards from that athlete or doctor or perfect Christian. But then a lot of times when these successful black women start to lower their unreal standards they go too low. Like in this case. That's why you see so many single black mothers. A lot of times they choose the wrong dude to mate with. That's not the man's fault. He got the yambs and will continue to be a loser. She lost for not seeing that was gonna happen.
Do other races of women do this? Yes and no. A lot of chicks with bread will look down on regular dudes on some snobby type stuff and they miss out on good dudes. But they usually don't date "down" especially after a certain age. It happens but not as much as in the black community due to a myriad of factors. Black women have a hard time finding a good dude that's right for them which is sad. Too many children getting brought into this world without a stable home.
Sorry for being lame......