I mean, on paper it may seem like she is being a gold digger, but I also look at it on the other hand. Most people have had people who have crushes on them etc. But say the other person is unattractive. Would it be wrong to ignore them while they are ugly or chunky, but then once they get their s&^% together and idk lose alot of weight or start dressing better, then show them the time of day? I dont think there is anything wrong with that. At the time, they werent appealing, now this person is. If a girl I knew in HS was fat, but now 5 years later she s sexy, Im not going to feel bad for ignoring her then, and approaching her now.