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i ask this question because its going to happen, may not be soon but it will...when I was 13 we moved from chicago to houston to help my moms brother take care of my grandmother because they could no longer do it...its now 2011 and life for my mother has been the same thing everyday since 2001. My grandmother is in her late 80s she has parkinsons but its stable she does however need help for everything, my moms family who was here has been imo enjoying their lives since we came, they do help but imo its not enough they pick her up late friday and bring her back sunday...but when she comes back on sunday my grandmother says she couldn't shower because my aunt was too busy to help her so shes wearing the same clothes since friday it makes double work for my mother...
I tell my mother to tell them something she says she can't because she knows it will end up in a big disagreement or they will be mad at my grandmother and ignore her even more.
anyone have any real help? i suggestion nursing/retirement home and my mom said if i wanted for them to treat her badly
whats your plan for when your parent(s) can no longer take care of themselves?
I tell my mother to tell them something she says she can't because she knows it will end up in a big disagreement or they will be mad at my grandmother and ignore her even more.
anyone have any real help? i suggestion nursing/retirement home and my mom said if i wanted for them to treat her badly
whats your plan for when your parent(s) can no longer take care of themselves?