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You know what would solve a lot. Dirty said before to leave Marriage to religious people and civil unions to un-religious so then everyone could be unionized.
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Originally Posted by AntonLaVey
Originally Posted by tkthafm
If and when science breaks down what "gay" actually is & why exactly it develops, it still doesn't forcibly deem society responsible to cater to/accept/support how it is manifested (IE: marriage). I don't think discovering strong genetic vs environmental determining factors should have much bearing on how we view it. It's all relative, what you call an abnormality or deviation, someone may call a defect, flaw or disease state. Science alone cannot enter this realm and adjudicate the differences. That's where a society's moral/ethical values come into play. It would be a mistake to think that not accepting something like marriage between homosexuals means inherently viewing them as inferior beings. It's obvious that the tide has shifted towards supporting it, at least in the West. In other places the attitude is still strongly negative. My question is basically a mirror image of the OP... what makes the view opposing it wrong ? If a society (which collectively defines marriage) deems homosexual marriage as "wrong" (or homosexuality in and of itself as a defect, flaw or disease state) how do they have any less backing to their claim than a society that supports it ?
Before someone makes the "what about if X race is viewed as inferior" argument... this is not an issue of fundamental human rights or again, if the person is even viewed as "equal". It's a question of how society defines the boundaries of what actions human beings make are acceptable/allowed within THAT society. The source for most of the opposition comes from religious belief, so let's look at Islam & Judaism as examples. Both hold that all races/humans are equal. Interracial marriage is acceptable. In a society that ascribes to these teachings, what then should force them to allow gay marriage ? a self-righteous belief that they should, just because that person/society has deemed it "RIGHT" ? I don't think so, homie.
I suppose you're right, if a society thinks its right to stone women for engaging in beauty pageants and punish homosexuality with death, who the hell am I do impose my views on them. If it were up to certain people we would be living in the dark ages. I simply think this is one more progressive step for humanity as a whole, and like other struggles for human rights there will be resistance
The homosexuality is "natural" argument should NOT have to be made. Whether or not we have found whatever gene makes them the way they are is completely irrelevant. At the end of the day, they wake up every morning feeling a certain way and having a sexual inclination toward the same sex. I am gay and I can't help it should be enough to justify letting homosexuals be themselves but it isn't enough for society.
Nor should it be. Re-read the first sentence of my post.
There are many immoral thought processes throughout history and presently that are perpetuated by the majority of society. Doesn't make it right. At a time people thought human beings that didn't look like them were animals to be bred and sold. Those societies COLLECTIVELY thought it was the correct thing to do.
I also addressed this, so let me copy/paste.
Before someone makes the "what about if X race is viewed as inferior" argument... this is not an issue of fundamental human rights or again, if the person is even viewed as "equal". It's a question of how society defines the boundaries of what actions human beings make are acceptable/allowed within THAT society. The source for most of the opposition comes from religious belief, so let's look at Islam & Judaism as examples. Both hold that all races/humans are equal. Interracial marriage is acceptable. In a society that ascribes to these teachings, what then should force them to allow gay marriage ?
Originally Posted by AntonLaVey
Originally Posted by tkthafm
If and when science breaks down what "gay" actually is & why exactly it develops, it still doesn't forcibly deem society responsible to cater to/accept/support how it is manifested (IE: marriage). I don't think discovering strong genetic vs environmental determining factors should have much bearing on how we view it. It's all relative, what you call an abnormality or deviation, someone may call a defect, flaw or disease state. Science alone cannot enter this realm and adjudicate the differences. That's where a society's moral/ethical values come into play. It would be a mistake to think that not accepting something like marriage between homosexuals means inherently viewing them as inferior beings. It's obvious that the tide has shifted towards supporting it, at least in the West. In other places the attitude is still strongly negative. My question is basically a mirror image of the OP... what makes the view opposing it wrong ? If a society (which collectively defines marriage) deems homosexual marriage as "wrong" (or homosexuality in and of itself as a defect, flaw or disease state) how do they have any less backing to their claim than a society that supports it ?
Before someone makes the "what about if X race is viewed as inferior" argument... this is not an issue of fundamental human rights or again, if the person is even viewed as "equal". It's a question of how society defines the boundaries of what actions human beings make are acceptable/allowed within THAT society. The source for most of the opposition comes from religious belief, so let's look at Islam & Judaism as examples. Both hold that all races/humans are equal. Interracial marriage is acceptable. In a society that ascribes to these teachings, what then should force them to allow gay marriage ? a self-righteous belief that they should, just because that person/society has deemed it "RIGHT" ? I don't think so, homie.
I suppose you're right, if a society thinks its right to stone women for engaging in beauty pageants and punish homosexuality with death, who the hell am I do impose my views on them. If it were up to certain people we would be living in the dark ages. I simply think this is one more progressive step for humanity as a whole, and like other struggles for human rights there will be resistance
The homosexuality is "natural" argument should NOT have to be made. Whether or not we have found whatever gene makes them the way they are is completely irrelevant. At the end of the day, they wake up every morning feeling a certain way and having a sexual inclination toward the same sex. I am gay and I can't help it should be enough to justify letting homosexuals be themselves but it isn't enough for society.
Nor should it be. Re-read the first sentence of my post.
There are many immoral thought processes throughout history and presently that are perpetuated by the majority of society. Doesn't make it right. At a time people thought human beings that didn't look like them were animals to be bred and sold. Those societies COLLECTIVELY thought it was the correct thing to do.
I also addressed this, so let me copy/paste.
Before someone makes the "what about if X race is viewed as inferior" argument... this is not an issue of fundamental human rights or again, if the person is even viewed as "equal". It's a question of how society defines the boundaries of what actions human beings make are acceptable/allowed within THAT society. The source for most of the opposition comes from religious belief, so let's look at Islam & Judaism as examples. Both hold that all races/humans are equal. Interracial marriage is acceptable. In a society that ascribes to these teachings, what then should force them to allow gay marriage ?
Originally Posted by tkthafm
Originally Posted by tkthafm
And I answered the question, you are a straight male and you don't know what its like to not be able to get married and express you love freely. It isn't an inalienable right to YOU because you're not in their shoes. By certain people's values, other races of men can be treated like cattle and freedom is not their inalienable right. If a gay person thinks marriage will make their quality of life that much better I'm in no position to take that away from them.Originally Posted by tkthafm
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
And I answered the question, you are a straight male and you don't know what its like to not be able to get married and express you love freely. It isn't an inalienable right to YOU because you're not in their shoes. By certain people's values, other races of men can be treated like cattle and freedom is not their inalienable right. If a gay person thinks marriage will make their quality of life that much better I'm in no position to take that away from them.Originally Posted by tkthafm
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
Do you really believe those arguing against affording everyone the same happinesses are in the same boat as those arguing for it? I don't understand. One wants to keep a minority from being happy based on their beliefs and the other wants to help a minority attain the same happinesses of the majority. For the life of me, and take whatever religion, scientific evidence, morals or whatever you base your stance on, cannot understand why anyone would be inclined to be against someone being happy. Especially when it doesn't affect them whatsoever. I don't even think marriage is a great idea, yet I think it is vital that everyone should have that choice.Originally Posted by tkthafm
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
Originally Posted by tkthafm
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
Originally Posted by tkthafm
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
Do you really believe those arguing against affording everyone the same happinesses are in the same boat as those arguing for it? I don't understand. One wants to keep a minority from being happy based on their beliefs and the other wants to help a minority attain the same happinesses of the majority. For the life of me, and take whatever religion, scientific evidence, morals or whatever you base your stance on, cannot understand why anyone would be inclined to be against someone being happy. Especially when it doesn't affect them whatsoever. I don't even think marriage is a great idea, yet I think it is vital that everyone should have that choice.Originally Posted by tkthafm
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
do work son wrote:
tkthafm wrote:
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
lobotomybeats wrote:
tkthafm wrote:
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
do work son wrote:
tkthafm wrote:
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
lobotomybeats wrote:
tkthafm wrote:
You haven't answered my question though: What exactly is the support for your belief that homosexuals getting married should be an inalienable human right ? (you repeat this many times in your posts)
The truth is there is no answer other than your own values.... and that's fine. Nothing wrong with that.
We've succeeded in showing that those for gay marriage (such as yourself) and those against are on equal footing when it comes to their views. It's all relative when it comes to this issue and where we draw our values from. Thus OP has his answer and we might as well lock this thread up. Spending all day trying to argue back & forth to convince someone to change their opinion or prove why your view is "right" is a pointless waste of time, so that was never my intent.
Apples and oranges champ, apples and oranges. If gay people want to unite, then by all means have a civil union. However, whether folks on here or anywhere else want to believe it or not the term "marriage" has religion or religious components to it.Originally Posted by Deuce King
For me it's the concept of marriage.Originally Posted by melofan15
for those that are anti-gay marriage, are you against gay relationships or is the concept of marriage the determining factor in your beliefs?
For someone who's always preaching that "give a black man a chance" you making the same argument a slave master wouldve made when blacks were trying to fight for their freedom.
Apples and oranges champ, apples and oranges. If gay people want to unite, then by all means have a civil union. However, whether folks on here or anywhere else want to believe it or not the term "marriage" has religion or religious components to it.Originally Posted by Deuce King
For me it's the concept of marriage.Originally Posted by melofan15
for those that are anti-gay marriage, are you against gay relationships or is the concept of marriage the determining factor in your beliefs?
For someone who's always preaching that "give a black man a chance" you making the same argument a slave master wouldve made when blacks were trying to fight for their freedom.
Originally Posted by tkthafm
I still don't see how that's answering my question.
Anyone else wanna help me out ?
Originally Posted by tkthafm
I still don't see how that's answering my question.
Anyone else wanna help me out ?
Originally Posted by AntBanks81
As I said before, homosexuality is a sin. so is murder.
Originally Posted by AntBanks81
Yes, pre-marital sex is a sin. I see your point in that no sin is greater than another. However, one sin is not the same as a sinful lifestyle.
Originally Posted by tkthafm
I still don't see how that's answering my question.
Anyone else wanna help me out ?
Originally Posted by tkthafm
I still don't see how that's answering my question.
Anyone else wanna help me out ?
Originally Posted by AntBanks81
As I said before, homosexuality is a sin. so is murder.
Originally Posted by AntBanks81
Yes, pre-marital sex is a sin. I see your point in that no sin is greater than another. However, one sin is not the same as a sinful lifestyle.