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because a perceived benefit from a relationship does not equate to love and happiness in my book.
And who said that?
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because a perceived benefit from a relationship does not equate to love and happiness in my book.
Question: what if the chick don't love you no more? I bet y'all opinions will defitnitley change then.
Dudes want a chick to cook, clean, degree, car, crib, no kids, no crazy ex's, make bank , weigh less than 150 meanwhile all they have is a license, associate degrees, online articles for facts, 30K job and sneakers for collateral. What would a chick with all of those attributes want from a wack negro like that?thoroughly confused.
Question: what if the chick don't love you no more? I bet y'all opinions will defitnitley change then.
Dudes want a chick to cook, clean, degree, car, crib, no kids, no crazy ex's, make bank , weigh less than 150 meanwhile all they have is a license, associate degrees, online articles for facts, 30K job and sneakers for collateral. What would a chick with all of those attributes want from a wack negro like that?thoroughly confused.
a cat like me gets 80-85% of what i like from broads because i know to pick em, and a cat like me
don't got a felony record, getting bread, no kids, no baby mama drama, and 99% flyer then his competition so i can AFFORD to
have standards and expect da type of chick im looking for is up to par at least with me, and for da record i was cleaning last night,
30k? pssh...maybe just in da living room
ya ****** out here just wanna say "yeah marry eff da stats saying more then 50% of all marriages fail, child support and divorce will take you
to da cleaners and pressed up faster then a laundromat" ill let ya cat deal with that.
ain't no benefits to getting married anymore, all da benefits could be had without it, all you get with marriage is being liable to have more then
1/2 your life taken from you.
Why would it change?...is part of life you live, love, get your heart broken, break hearts, heal and move on...is called being a ****ing grown up....you dudes sheltering ya hearts afraid to love a woman as if that **** was made of glass, give me a break.
Do you see the birds you be posting? Your ex is a bird, that's what you consider up to par with you? Be real, just say there's no benefits in getting married in da heightz because that's what it is. YOU are not finding a wife in the heights, there's women who carry themselves the way they're suppose to .. just not the women you're surrounded by.Dudes want a chick to cook, clean, degree, car, crib, no kids, no crazy ex's, make bank , weigh less than 150 meanwhile all they have is a license, associate degrees, online articles for facts, 30K job and sneakers for collateral. What would a chick with all of those attributes want from a wack negro like that?thoroughly confused.
A cat like me gets 80-85% of what i like from broads because i know to pick em
Just out of curiosity, what if you want a child or children?? Wouldn't getting married in the regards of a child or children be a benefit??ain't no benefits to getting married anymore
My opinion is still the same because women are more likely to fall out of love/ be unhappy and stay married than a man.Question: what if the chick don't love you no more? I bet y'all opinions will defitnitley change then.
I wanted to see what his response was, and sure enuff it was exactly as I thought it was.So you're saying after a 10 year marriage with 2 kids, and your wife deciding she's not interested in you anymore and files for divorce, your thought process, emotions and trust for women wouldn't change? Why don't you give us a break with your romantic ideology.
So you're saying after a 10 year marriage with 2 kids, and your wife deciding she's not interested in you anymore and files for divorce, your thought process, emotions and trust for women wouldn't change? Why don't you give us a break with your romantic ideology.
Realest post in this thread. Reminds me of my conversations with my father. Just grow up..I'll say this much..........
1). You are what you attract.
2). If your not finding what your looking for, don't be afraid to venture out of your community/city and experience different women from different places. Either way, you should be traveling just to experience new things. Stop sticking to things or people in your 2 block radius.
thats obviously a benefit since im a product of a married couple, but da cloth im cut from ain't made anymore...outta wedlock births are so high i ain'tJust out of curiosity, what if you want a child or children?? Wouldn't getting married in the regards of a child or children be a benefit??ain't no benefits to getting married anymore
see all that depends on the type of woman u marry not all women are greedy *****
Question: what if the chick don't love you no more? I bet y'all opinions will defitnitley change then.
My opinion is still the same because women are more likely to fall out of love/ be unhappy and stay married than a man.
da minute a chick is "unhappy" she's gone and will be serving you that divorce.
i know plenty of stories of chicks getting knocked up, having a dude around, but because they feel they ain't "lived" enough, kick homie to da curb
and go on da club scene to soak up da last bit of attention they can get (draya status). then they're is situations where you married but its a dead relationship.
one of my cousin's boy is going thru a divorce right now, been with da chick since highschool, da ***** and him make stupid bread, live out in a crib in long
island, and got a daughter, but da seems da minute he had his daughter, da wifey basically ignored his needs as a man..got fat, and all she does is worry about
da kid and not taking care of her husband, they haven't slept in da same bed in 2 years...one day son basically snapped, he found some old piece on
his professional linkden account, long story shorty he flew out and went flagrant with da adulty.
marriage feels so old school to me, hell i can't remember da last time i met parents who were married to eachother and still lived in da same household 10
years ago, im SURE its gotten way worse now.
they got books this whole phenomenon now, this isn't just some NT thread, its a straight culturall shift.
all da benefits you USED to have when you're married 99% of em can be had just smashing da same broad for a few years.
thats why im such a advocate for self preservation first, cuz how da hell you worrying about da next person when your **** ain't straight? pssh certain
romeos up in here buggin.
I believe that is because you and alot of other dudes on here have allowed yourselves to believe that there aren't any good woman out here...............which there are. The problem is most dudes are looking in the wrong places or attracting the wrong women from the get go, hence why I said for example you are what you attract.
marriage used to be about enhancing eachother, now its basically like a time bomb and you just sleeping with da enemy.
There is no such thing as "women carrying themselves the way they're supposed to" because it depends on what each man is looking for. To sum it all up, you have the dudes that are conservative with the traditional thinking of traditional marriage structure and you have the progressive dudes that know there that arrangement isn't the end all be all. You don't need that arrangement to have kids, look at what's been happening in scandinavian countries for years.