Exactly Fam.
It was planned to be like this.
We all know the USG/private industry has always incentivized the destruction of the black family using any means necessary from slavery itself to financial aid programs (Section 8, corrupt law enforcement, economic warfare (redlining/joblessness), war on drugs, war on crime, etc.
Most folks don't realize that while the Civil Rights Movement was going on, the Feminist Movement was going on.
White feminists realized they needed Black and Brown women to advance their agenda and invested heavily to that end but they really got things going during the Civil Rights Movement / after integration.
White racist feminists convincing single black women that "They don't need no man" under the guise of "empowerment/freedom" was a brilliant strategy that perfectly aligned with the USG/private industry's goals. Daughters of the Confederacy indeed.
The numbers aint lying.
The foundation of any community, culture, environment, society, etc is the family unit.
Anything built on a broken foundation is bound to fall.
IMHO it's too late to undo what has already been done.
Best to stay out of the way, mind your own business, let it play out, practice self-defense, and live your best life in the process.
Eventually, it will turn around if things get bad enough.
Hopefully, by then there will be enough left to save.